# Hello-looking for something.... Couplins??? **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 14, 2012, 8:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-looking-for-something-couplins/54920 "2012-03-14T08:56:56Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 5
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2012, 2:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-looking-for-something-couplins/54920/5 "2012-03-15T02:45:52Z")
> [@Clear345](#): > > _ **Hi, I guess I came on here a year ago but didn’t do anything? so I am going to try this out. I am a 30 year old female and I live in the Midwest. I love to go out, although due to my occupation, I am actually rather busy and have trouble getting out when I want to. I work insane hours and truly believe in the work hard play hard philosophy.** _ > > _**Although in small group settings I can come off as shy and reserved (because I get anxious in smaller groups), in larger group settings such as bars, clubs, etc?I am known more as the instigator or ?catalyst? (actually a nickname) for most of the trouble (a/k/a fun) that occurs. Any amount of liquid courage at all and I am immediately confident and would say I put off a pretty good vibe.**_ > > _**I am petite, 5?4 -5?5 about 110 lbs., athletic body and a sometimes more aggressive personality (I will say what I mean? not sexually aggressive)?. In my job it comes with the territory. I work with almost all males? in fact currently the only females in my office are administrative assistants.**_ > > _ **I am looking for pheromones to have some fun and do some experimenting. I go out and get bought shots, hit on, etc?. but I would like to try this stuff out and have some fun.** _ > > _**What I honestly want is something that is jaw dropping (Who’s that girl) yet I don’t want to lose the ability to have guys still approach me. I do not need to add to my aggressive personality. I am also with someone and wouldn’t mine some stellar reactions from him. I want to run some tests and see what pheromones can do. The one I have seen the most about is EOW? but have also seen mixed reviews. I think I want something that is pretty powerful (Jaw dropper), but I also need to maintain approachability. Any suggestions welcome.**_ > > _ **I also would lay off anything heavy at work… don’t need that kind of grief.** _ > [@Clear345](#): > > _ **Not sure how I found this forum years ago. The other day I ordered Primal Instinct and EOW, which hasn’t arrived yet, but then saw some reviews to check out this forum/company instead.** _ > > _ **I already come off as pretty Alpha for a female… it’s the lawyer thing. So I want to get some stuff to mix in to take the edge off… I usually end up with protective guys even with the Alpha vibe which is much more what I go for. So I guess I need something to add some let’s say “vulnerability.” I have no clue how you mix or layer any of this so it should be interesting…** _ Hi, Clear! Welcome! You found this forum… _a year ago_? Dayum, girl, it’s about time you showed up! 😃 You’ve been missin’ all the fun! 😛 The boys suggestion of IS/B is a good one. It was one of my all time favorites. A long time ago there was also an IS/A, too, but neither one is available anymore and there’s been no word if/when they’re ever coming back. However, you’re in luck! After a long absence TAL and TAH are now available again and in the store. _ **RUN…** _ no joke,because there’s no telling when they will disappear again. I’m petite, too, but with a curvy build and very girly/feminine in both gestures and appearance. Which belies my underlying alpha/assertive edge. 🆒 The flag ship women’s products at AD were IS/A and IS/B. They both contained the feminine molecules TAL and TAH but in different proportions and they alsohad other unknown molecules added to them. So, the difference between TAL and TAH… TAL = Angelina Jolie - projects a strong, confident, sexy, take no prisoners alpha-babe vibe. Great for giving a “boost” to gals who need a little more confidence or who want to project a more alpha aura. It also works great for some already alpha-babes who have NP with it. Despite being alpha, instead of wrestling with, it they ride it like Yakima Canutt! Although for women like you/me, it can be a little too much of a good thing because already naturally being in alpha-babe territory, I don’t really need that kinda push or to project that kind of image. TAH = Marilyn Monroe - projects a softer, sexy, more kittenish vibe. This is the one that has the edge of vulnerability you’re looking for. 😉 Yup, you sound like a TAH girl to me. So am I. I might mention that my husband _loooves_ TAH and can’t seem to resist me when I wear it. TAL scares him and he don’t scare easy, lol. I’ll never forget when I first started getting into all this and I was describing the effects of some of the various [pheromones](https://a314.com/) to my husband. When I got to TAL, he looked at me 😮, and said, “You don’t have any of _that_ do you?!” ROFL. Why, yes, in fact I do! 😛 Some women find IS/B or TAH makes them feel a bit “ditsy” or _too_ vulnerable. Reasons for that, well… if they’re a little ditsy to begin with this might not be the best choice, lol. Or they’re already feeling vulnerable before applying it, whether it be conscious or unconscious, and it can bring those feelings rushing to the surface. And other women find that TAH is just what it takes to soften their more assertive edge. Go figure. All kinds of possibilities, you see. Which one attracts alpha-guys and which one attracts beta-guys? Both are attractive and both attract both alpha and beta guys. A lotta both in there, lol. How well either will work for you depends. It always depends, lol. It also depends on how _you_ feel when wearing them. TAL might get me hits but I don’t wear it too much, especially by itself 😮, because I feel too ramped up. The uncomfortable feeling of having to wrestle with the _self_ effects makes it uncomfortable. So, to counter act/balance out that feeling while at the same time getting the reactions I want from it, I temper it with softer/social molecules. We often use TAL and TAH together to balance the effects of one with the other. For example, if you want to lessen the self effects of TAL, spray it to the back of your neck/head and TAH, up front, to the neck/chest area where you can huff it. I say _lessen_ because no matter where you spray it you _will_ be effected, just somewhat less. OK, onward. Shy and reserved in small gatherings and can let loose in larger groups. IO and IH can help you there. I’d go with IO for self effects if you’re planning to be with just a few people. That should help you to open up more and make it easier for you to approach others and to also be more approachable at the same time. Where IO is described as more quantity of conversation than quality, IH is known for inspiring a deeper more intimate feeling of connection and more quality conversation. It makes it seem as if you and your target have known each other for a long time. That could also work well for you depending on the circumstances and your choice of companion(s). And don’t forget the IShine! It imparts a bright, shiny, fun to be around _you_ vibe. One can never go wrong icing the cake with IShine. 🙂 So, how all and any of this works _depends_ on numerous variables. Pheromones are/can be very mood directed. Pheromones can work for or against your personality type. If TAL or TAH, or any other pheromone/MX/putative doesn’t work for you/work as expected, or as others have reported, the reason could be as simple as it not agreeing with your personal chemistry. Because just as your individual targets reactions might vary, so will your reactions. So, again, it depends. EoW at work? Yeah. No thanks, lol. Although a lot of women wear it and I’m sure it does what they want it to do, that’s exactly why I _don’t_ wear it. 😉 To each her own. 🙂 Here’s the skinny… Essence of Woman is synthetic copulins manufactured in a lab to mimic the effect of natural copulins that are produced/emitted by women in their fertile years at the time of ovulation. (It’s a call of the wild, baby, and part of the mating game. Time to procreate!) Because it’s synthetic it has added elements (scents) that somewhat mimic the “earthier” smells in nature. So, primarily, it stinks! Despite what’s been said about the stench of it, it works _extremely_ well for sexual attraction. We wear it because it’s a man magnet and works like a charm. Albeit a smelly little charm, lol. Copulins do have a vinegary/fermented fruit/earthy smell and that’s why it’s important to take the necessary steps to cover them up with perfume/cologne. Don’t let the smell scare you, it’s eminently workable, with a little patience and practice you’ll figure it out. The ladies who have taken the time to learn to use it correctly have all come out alive, well, and well-laid on the other side, lol. Yeah, we’re still here, using Essence of Woman, because it does exactly what it claims to do… _attract men!_ That’s why we hold our noses and use it, lol. Women, no matter their age, who are on The Pill do not make copulins and neither do women who are _past_ menopause. There are some places that you’re better off staying away from when applying Essence of Woman. Depending on where you’ve applied it, it can be a bugger to wash out. Essence of Woman belongs on your skin, not on clothing and _never in your hair_ because it sticks like a mo-fo! Also, instead of applying Essence of Woman _after_ applying your pheromones/perfume, apply it first. And after you apply it, it’s very important to make sure to let it dry down for a good 10-15 mins before applying any other pheromones/perfume over it or you risk bleed through of the stench. There are tons of threads to search throughout the forum on EoW. Here’s one I responded to awhile back that might shed some light for you on the different ways you can use EoW. > [@EOW and perfume](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eow-and-perfume/51671): > > Hi all, I’m new at this. I am considering ordering Essence of Woman and am wondering if I can add it to an essential oil or if it is best used with alcohol-based scents? Hmmm, you want jaw dropping? Try adding some IO, IShine, TAH, and a few drops of EoW to your “liquid courage”… and shake that up in a red dress… and while your at it, put 911 on speed dial! 😃 It’s nice to have you here, Clear. Hope that helps some. Just boogie on over to the women’s forum if you have more any more questions. See ya there! 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