Hey Songwriter,
Welcome to the forum! I’m sure that you will find what you are looking for here. In your situation I’d hazard a guess at some Instant Openness to get you talking to people and them being open to conversation with you. Along with that you will probably want some Instant Shine to lighten the vibe and get you glowing again. If you are still hurt I would probably recommend staying away from the Instant Honesty for the moment unless you wish to recall it each time you chat 
You may also be interested in treading the Mens section to see if there is anything specifically that jumps out at you:
Good Luck with it all!