# Hello Mark here, lookin to spicy up my Life! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 5, 2008, 12:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-mark-here-lookin-to-spicy-up-my-life/20833 "2008-10-05T00:44:17Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![silverload](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ee59a6/32.png) [@silverload](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/silverload)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 12:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-mark-here-lookin-to-spicy-up-my-life/20833/1 "2008-10-05T00:44:17Z")
Hey, My name is Mark, i am a 27 year old male. I recently have become single after breaking off a long term relationship. SO you can say i am out of the game now. I really dont know how to begin. I am kinda of a shy person and really have difficulty approaching women, even when i know they are interested. I think i need a boost on the initial conversation. For instance, lets say a girl is interested in me, even if i can tell from her face, i wouldnt have the guts to approach her. Also, vise versa, if i see a cute girl, i wouldnt be able to approach her because i would feel shy. So thats my main issue at this point, if i could get something to give me the boost, or give the other sex the boost to come start talkin with me, that would make things MUCH easier. At this point my main issue isnt getting sex or anything, but just getting the attention from females and having them want to talk to me and be close with me. That would give me the edge i need. Well i hope you guys can help me!!! ☹ Thanks!!! Mark ---
**Author:** ![Tenant](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tenant/32/1668_2.png) [@Tenant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tenant)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 4:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-mark-here-lookin-to-spicy-up-my-life/20833/2 "2008-10-05T04:09:33Z")
Hello Mark, Welcome to the forum and the community 😃 Sorry to hear about the breakup. For conversation helpers, look at IO, IH, CTTM2, and Ishine. Maybe IFM too if you are getting the vibe that women feel uncomfortable when you approach/open. IShine might help you with your confidence problems, but unfortunately if the girl is giving you all the signals, the ball is in your court then. It is up to you to overcome your confidence problems in that situation. Remember, men are generally expected to make the first explicit move. Women can help you sending subtle signals, but they basically will not open you. No chemical can make them do that. I think the [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) I recommended above will help you out though. Focus on the conversation and rapport building for now. Sex will come later. Feel free to peruse the links in my signature too, all the links are very helpful. Good luck. ---
**Author:** ![lukester19](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lukester19/32/1953_2.png) [@lukester19](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lukester19)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 4:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-mark-here-lookin-to-spicy-up-my-life/20833/3 "2008-10-05T04:18:32Z")
^^^ cosign with tenant. Instant shine seems to work on uplifting your mood. When that happens it will make you more approachable and you will also be more likely to approach others. ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 4:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-mark-here-lookin-to-spicy-up-my-life/20833/4 "2008-10-05T04:28:53Z")
Hi Mark, Good to have you here in Pherotalk so welcome on board 🙂 Sorry to hear about your relationship there well time to start afresh 🙂 Ok i have checked your situation that you are having now & i agreed with Tenant recommendation of [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) & Instant Shine as this two pheros will definitely helped you in your situation. Instant Openness is good for smooth & easier conversations while Instant Shine is great for boosting self confidence & making others feel comfortable with you 🙂 Try out these two & i wish you the best of luck when you decide to get & try them out. See you 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![silverload](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ee59a6/32.png) [@silverload](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/silverload)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2008, 12:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-mark-here-lookin-to-spicy-up-my-life/20833/5 "2008-10-06T00:59:38Z")
Hey Thanks for the suggestions. Im leaning towards Instant shine but i dont know what the real difference is between Instant honesty and instant openness. Is one better than the other or have a better touch? Also, would i need to wear any other colongue with them or are they fine as stand alones. I know some of the threads were talking about [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) as being a stand alone but im nto sure about the instant line. Thanks for the great adivce people! Mark ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2008, 1:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-mark-here-lookin-to-spicy-up-my-life/20833/6 "2008-10-06T01:02:08Z")
IO is mostly alpha 'nols. IH is mostly beta 'nols. IO can give you a lot of general chatty conversation. IH can give you deeper conversation, people sometimes telling you stuff you would not believe and can create feelings of connection. Either way you can get a LOT of conversation. ---
**Author:** ![schell0385](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/schell0385/32/199_2.png) [@schell0385](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/schell0385)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2008, 1:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-mark-here-lookin-to-spicy-up-my-life/20833/7 "2008-10-06T01:10:41Z")
I just wanted to say HI and welcome. Looks like everyone informed you of the starter phero’s to get. If you are shy [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) might be good for you to spray around your neck area. Put a dab or two under the nose. It sure makes me open up and chatty…that along with a good shot of coffee (smile). Welcome ---
**Author:** ![silverload](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ee59a6/32.png) [@silverload](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/silverload)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2008, 1:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-mark-here-lookin-to-spicy-up-my-life/20833/8 "2008-10-06T01:11:52Z")
hey Im sorry but i dont know the difference between “alpha 'nols” and “beta 'nols”. Secondly, how much is in the regular bottles? do all bottles contain the same amounts? and how much is in the To-Go bottles?? Thanks againnn! Mark ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2008, 1:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-mark-here-lookin-to-spicy-up-my-life/20833/9 "2008-10-06T01:42:03Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Alpha nols are what is primarily in [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). They are confident fun chatty open and attractive Beta nols are what is primarily in Instant Honesty. They are chatty on a deeper level. Connecting, trusting, comforting and attractive. I suggest you start with Instant Shine, IO or IH . These are your basic socials. Ishine is charismatic upbeat fun and warm. It helps to draw people to you. > [@](#): > > Secondly, how much is in the regular bottles? do all bottles contain the same amounts? Depends on what you get. All bottle of the same product contain the same amount. In other words all IO bottles contain the same formula and same amounts. The large bottle is 30 ML and has 200 sprays. They small to-go bottles are 5 ML and have about 40 sprays. These are good to test things out and see how they work for you before investing in as larger bottle. The spray nozzle is smaller on the to-go bottle so the dosage is different. You get 83% of a full spray. > [@](#): > > how much is in the To-Go bottles?? Again depends on which ones you get. They are cheaper then the large bottles. Just check out the prices in the smartmone store under Mens spray pheromones section. You will see the to-go section under that. **Your GC is on its way 😃** If you have questions just let us know. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![silverload](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ee59a6/32.png) [@silverload](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/silverload)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2008, 2:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-mark-here-lookin-to-spicy-up-my-life/20833/10 "2008-10-06T02:45:02Z")
Hey, thanks everyone for the welcome! Thanks for the deep explaination Tisha. Are any of those like ammo? i mean are any of those stand alones or would i have to combine them with other sprays like cool water, polo etc. Mark ---
**Author:** ![silverload](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ee59a6/32.png) [@silverload](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/silverload)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2008, 2:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-mark-here-lookin-to-spicy-up-my-life/20833/11 "2008-10-06T02:49:38Z")
Oh btw, Are you able to pay for the stuff through paypal or do you need a Credit card? Thankssss ---
**Author:** ![Tenant](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tenant/32/1668_2.png) [@Tenant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tenant)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2008, 3:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-mark-here-lookin-to-spicy-up-my-life/20833/12 "2008-10-06T03:12:00Z")
Hey silver, When you go to check out at the Androtics site, they give you following options to pay: **Credit Card** Visa, Mastercard, American Express, Discover, JCB **PayPal** First time & international clients: Use PayPal for faster processing **Gift Certificate**** Pay by Phone**North America: (800) 671-6464 International: 425-786-2001**Fax**Fax: (561) 208-6039**Money Order **US Banks Only** Points** Pay with Reward Points ---
**Author:** ![silverload](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ee59a6/32.png) [@silverload](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/silverload)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2008, 4:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-mark-here-lookin-to-spicy-up-my-life/20833/13 "2008-10-06T04:47:11Z")
Perfect Thanks!! I dont know if it was an oversight but noone seems to reply to my question of whether these Instant lines (like instant shine and instant openness) require something additional like a colongue or are they like a all in one type like ammo (or so i heard). Thankssssssssssssssssssssssss!! 😃 Mark ---
**Author:** ![Tenant](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tenant/32/1668_2.png) [@Tenant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tenant)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2008, 3:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-mark-here-lookin-to-spicy-up-my-life/20833/14 "2008-10-06T15:34:48Z")
Some people choose to cover the scent of the instant line, if you look at product contents chart (by bond007) in my signature, it indicates that the instant lines have a neroli scent. This is a citrussy scent and is, in my opinion, sufficient cover for the instant line. Short answer is no, you don’t need to cover the instants, but you can if you want. ---
**Author:** ![silverload](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ee59a6/32.png) [@silverload](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/silverload)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2008, 1:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-mark-here-lookin-to-spicy-up-my-life/20833/15 "2008-10-07T01:55:11Z")
Hey Thanks Tenant! if one does cover the scent with something else (ie: cool water, polo etc), would that reduce the effectivness of the pheros workin or does that work on a totally diff frequency lol.. Thanks! Mark ---
**Author:** ![Tenant](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tenant/32/1668_2.png) [@Tenant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tenant)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2008, 2:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-mark-here-lookin-to-spicy-up-my-life/20833/16 "2008-10-07T02:39:33Z")
> [@silverload](#): > > Hey Thanks Tenant! > > if one does cover the scent with something else (ie: cool water, polo etc), would that reduce the effectivness of the pheros workin or does that work on a totally diff frequency lol.. Thanks! > > Mark Nope, it should not reduce the effectiveness. In fact it may even give the pheromones other particles to cling on to and diffuse. The one thing that is suggested though is to wait for the pheromones to set or dry first before applying a cover. ---
**Author:** ![MsDiva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msdiva/32/1085_2.png) [@MsDiva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MsDiva)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2008, 3:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-mark-here-lookin-to-spicy-up-my-life/20833/17 "2008-10-07T03:26:22Z")
Hey silverload! I agree on the pheros suggested. Everybody body on this site has been so helpful and knowledgable. One thing I will say is if a girl is giving you all the signs she’s interested and you’re interested…Go forward it! Three second rule… don’t think…just ask. Take it from a girl interested in a shy boy. Nothing is more irritating then giving/receiving all the signals and nothing happens.😕 🆒 Best of luck to ya ---
**Author:** ![April\_Marie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/74df32/32.png) [@April\_Marie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/April_Marie)\ **Post date:** [October 14, 2008, 1:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-mark-here-lookin-to-spicy-up-my-life/20833/18 "2008-10-14T01:06:28Z")
All of the Instant products smell like [Neroli](https://a314.com/product-category/scented/androtics-neroli/)/ Orange Flower! As a girl I personally like the Neroli scent on guys and it seems to mix well with mens deodorant. Well happy testing and its always good to start with a bunch of the To Go sizes to see what works for you. Then you can order the larger sizes in what you like. xoxo, April ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 14, 2008, 1:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-mark-here-lookin-to-spicy-up-my-life/20833/19 "2008-10-14T01:30:51Z")
> [@April\_Marie](#): > > All of the Instant products smell like Neroli/ Orange Flower! As a girl I personally like the Neroli scent on guys and it seems to mix well with mens deodorant. Well happy testing and its always good to start with a bunch of the To Go sizes to see what works for you. Then you can order the larger sizes in what you like. > xoxo, > April Everything in the Instant Line that is, except IFM. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![silverload](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ee59a6/32.png) [@silverload](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/silverload)\ **Post date:** [October 18, 2008, 10:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-mark-here-lookin-to-spicy-up-my-life/20833/20 "2008-10-18T10:17:53Z")
Hey guys, i recently placed my order, but i had a question. It gave me the tracking number - but i cant seem to track it lol. Do they ship by USPS or another shipping company? it doesnt say in the email. Thanks everyone!!! Cant way to try em out and give you all the details! [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-mark-here-lookin-to-spicy-up-my-life/20833.md?page=2)