# Hello, Married Male looking for help **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 16, 2013, 6:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-married-male-looking-for-help/59017 "2013-05-16T18:51:30Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![beachbumtom](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/35a633/32.png) [@beachbumtom](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/beachbumtom)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2013, 6:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-married-male-looking-for-help/59017/1 "2013-05-16T18:51:30Z")
Hello, I am a 39 year old male, happily married for 11 years with 3 children. My wife just turned 40, and we have an awesome relationship. My only complaint is her loss of libido in the past few years. The frequency and the intensity has diminished, and I’m wondering if there is anything in the [pheromone](https://a314.com/) world that may help reignite this. We still make love 2 times per month, but that is not nearly enough for me. Please, let me know if you have any experiences either positive or negative in this situation with pheromone use. Thanks for your help! ---
**Author:** ![MoonlightBliss](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonlightbliss/32/1641_2.png) [@MoonlightBliss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MoonlightBliss)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2013, 8:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-married-male-looking-for-help/59017/2 "2013-05-16T20:16:50Z")
Hello Tom, welcome to the forum! Your situation sounds distressingly like mine. You have my sympathies. There is a product called TUTH, which is designed to provoke a sexual-desire response in women. It can be very effective, but you may have to play around with the dosage to get it right. Too much can have an adverse effect. Another good one is AMMO, which is smooth, confidently masculine and put out a virile, eager vibe that is not overbearing. ---
**Author:** ![JoelS57](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/joels57/32/1777_2.png) [@JoelS57](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JoelS57)\ **Post date:** [May 17, 2013, 7:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-married-male-looking-for-help/59017/3 "2013-05-17T07:12:05Z")
That’s strange. We were doing the 3 way cha-cha in our 40’s. Get her some lab work. Now, though, phew ☹ ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2013, 9:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-married-male-looking-for-help/59017/4 "2013-05-27T21:00:18Z")
Welcome Beach, This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will. I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie. We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually. It takes a great deal and I am back logged. I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service. Thank you for giving [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) a chance. Your gc was issued! ---
**Author:** ![lusty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/aca169/32.png) [@lusty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lusty)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2013, 7:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-married-male-looking-for-help/59017/5 "2013-06-27T07:48:00Z")
Hi! Sorry to hear about your problem, but it is not that big of a problem. It can be easily resolved. One word of caution about using pheros on some who has known you for many years. START SLOW. It is very important to start slow, first you will have to get your partner used to your new look. I use the term look is because she has known you as an x personality all these years and her subconscious mind is tuned to seeing you they way you are. If all of a sudden you appear to her as an A personality she might just retreat and wonder what is wrong with her perception or may be with you. Women have a very strong sixth sense (Never underestimate that) This my friend might push her away and might lead you to think that pheros are not working. The pheros surely and totally work, Do not worry about your sweet spot for now. Just do one spray on your chest of whatever you decide to buy and see how she reacts. It does not have to be at bedtime, but earlier in the day, may be before dinner and follow your gut. Give it a couple of days and you should be there. Good Luck ---
**Author:** ![Miss\_Dragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/miss_dragon/32/866_2.png) [@Miss\_Dragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Miss_Dragon)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2013, 10:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-married-male-looking-for-help/59017/6 "2013-06-27T22:35:57Z")
Hello, Beachbumtom! Welcome! I certainly agree with the [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) and TUTH suggestions! I’d advise you to try Ammo first, it’s less overt and more generally attraction-oriented. TUTH can be layered on top of that, but start slow and gradual. If you can manage it, it might be helpful if you buy her some Instant Sexiness A. I’m not sure how you’d get her to wear it, but it will make her feel like she’s a super sexy lady. Hope this helps! Let us know if you have more questions, and we’re looking forward to hearing about your experiences!