you have already made a good choice of products to improve confidence and conversation. To attract gays the product Mystery Boy is available here - have you already seen it? You can combine it with Instant Shine and Instant Openness (or Honesty) to get good results for your situation…
I would also recommend that you buy Instant Honesty which is great for bonding and to gain trust from others… better than Openness for that purpose
You could also try some of the females products available here but i cannot give recommendations on those - maybe tisha can help…