# Hello! Need Pheromone help in Attraction and Social Interactions. M/22/Slovenia **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 6, 2017, 9:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-need-pheromone-help-in-attraction-and-social-interactions-m-22-slovenia/66946 "2017-02-06T09:46:15Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![aljdod212](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9f8e36/32.png) [@aljdod212](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/aljdod212)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2017, 9:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-need-pheromone-help-in-attraction-and-social-interactions-m-22-slovenia/66946/1 "2017-02-06T09:46:15Z")
Hi, I’m new here. I am a 22 year old guy from Slovenia (sorry for bad english) still in college - I study classical music and my major is guitar. I heard about [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) a few years ago but because of my sceptical personality I didn’t want to spend money on something that might not work. I found this forum yesterday and after reading some reports I decided to give mones a try. Currently I am working on improving myself socially and I can already see some progress although it’s slow. So what I want to get from pheromones is a little push to make the process a bit easier/faster. (I’m not expecting to become a social god or girls throwing their panties at me) My problem sometime is that when I am alone with someone it’s hard for me to know what to say next and I get those awkward silences. Also it’s hard for me to approach strangers and be relaxed with people I don’t know. I think it happens because I approach the situation with not enough confidence and people automatically put me in the “beta” position. Most of the problems disappear if I have a drink or two and I can have a good time with almost anybody. Another thing I would like to improve is attraction. Now, I am not a bad looking guy, have had male and female friends told me I look good, kind of short and somewhere between average and sporty body type. On rare occasions I get the signals from girls but I start overthinking it asking myself if they are really flirting with me or is it just wishful thinking on my side and it’s usually enough to convince me not to make the next step. So I want more obvious signs of attraction. Also, I don’t have a girlfriend, might use some help with that too. So this is my list of pheromones I want to try. Please leave any thoughts or suggestions as I have no experiences with them yet. InstantShine - for confidence InstantGentleman - for social events (and everyday use in college?) Ammunition (world or summer?) - for attraction MX297 - for attraction, social events TUTH - for sexy times those fit in my budget so I can’t add anything but can change them for other ones. Thanks for reading! ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2017, 11:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-need-pheromone-help-in-attraction-and-social-interactions-m-22-slovenia/66946/2 "2017-02-06T11:31:15Z")
Hi aljdod212, Welcome to this forum. Your english is probably better than mine, don’t worry about that 🙂, Regarding social mones, I’d Recommend IShine, IOpeness and IHonesty. IShine will help boost your mood and other people’s too. It will make you more approachable. IOpeness will help break the ice with strangers and get basic conversations flowing. IHonesty will help you devleop trust and bonding with people as well as achieving deeper level of conversation. Regarding attraction and self-confidence, I would go with Ammo and [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) to start with. IG will help give you grounded self-confidence as well as appearing more wise and mature. Ammo will help with the attraction part… but of course, take care of all social issues first. I would leave out TUTH and MX297 for nowm because TUTH is a sexual product and can offput many women if the social /attraction game is not right and MX297 is more of a party animal product. This said, you can get the men starter pack and try both of those later. You will be eligible to a 25$ gift certificate to help you with your first buy. Good luck. ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2017, 4:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-need-pheromone-help-in-attraction-and-social-interactions-m-22-slovenia/66946/3 "2017-02-06T16:03:28Z")
Hello aljdod212, Welcome! Your very best bet is to look at the **Men’s Ultimate Kit** as you would get everything to try and at a discount. You will spend the same if not more if you get a lot of those items separately so shy not just get the kit and test them all! This way you can see what is best for you and the ones that you like you can reorder in the bigger 30ML bottles. Otherwise I would suggest pretty much the same ones Conjurator suggested. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2017, 2:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-need-pheromone-help-in-attraction-and-social-interactions-m-22-slovenia/66946/4 "2017-02-07T02:09:12Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. You have gotten some pretty good advice from the guys so far. I will say that I think IG is one of the more under-rated products here. It can really work wonders for a guy’s “cool factor”. The social products - IO, IH and IShine - all work great and are often some of the easiest products to see results with. My favorite in the group is IH. People can really open up to you but you need to be ready to hear ANYTHING - maybe even stuff you wish you did not. Let us know what you decide to do. bosshank ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2017, 9:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-need-pheromone-help-in-attraction-and-social-interactions-m-22-slovenia/66946/5 "2017-02-07T09:55:08Z")
Hello, aljdod212! You’ve got cool recommendations above. 🙂 I guess the only thing I can add here is about your intro GC. It’s in your inbox now. 🙂 Welcome to PheromoneTalk! 🙂 =================== _ **Disclosure:** I’ve edited your thread title from **“Hello! Need help choosing my first pheromones”** to **“Hello! Need Pheromone help in Attraction and Social Interactions. M/22/Sovenia”** for topic clarity and forum readability. It’ll also generate more “reads” to your thread. If you want to opt-out simply let me know. Thank you!_ ---
**Author:** ![aljdod212](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9f8e36/32.png) [@aljdod212](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/aljdod212)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2017, 10:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-need-pheromone-help-in-attraction-and-social-interactions-m-22-slovenia/66946/6 "2017-02-07T10:09:46Z")
Thank you for advice and the GC. I have decided to get the UPIP. ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2017, 3:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-need-pheromone-help-in-attraction-and-social-interactions-m-22-slovenia/66946/7 "2017-02-10T15:22:15Z")
> [@aljdod212](#): > > Thank you for advice and the GC. I have decided to get the UPIP. Awesome and you did not go wrong! I would love to hear your experience and hope you start a journal we can follow. ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2017, 6:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-need-pheromone-help-in-attraction-and-social-interactions-m-22-slovenia/66946/8 "2017-02-11T18:22:56Z")
Have you had the chance to test some products yet 🙂? ---
**Author:** ![aljdod212](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9f8e36/32.png) [@aljdod212](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/aljdod212)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2017, 11:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-need-pheromone-help-in-attraction-and-social-interactions-m-22-slovenia/66946/9 "2017-02-11T23:07:47Z")
> [@Conjurator](#): > > Have you had the chance to test some products yet 🙂? No, they haven’t arrived yet. I will report how it goes when I get a chance to try it 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2017, 8:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-need-pheromone-help-in-attraction-and-social-interactions-m-22-slovenia/66946/10 "2017-02-12T20:39:51Z")
If you run into any problems or have any questions just post or hopefully you create a journal so we can follow and continue to help you out. ---
**Author:** ![aljdod212](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9f8e36/32.png) [@aljdod212](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/aljdod212)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2017, 8:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-need-pheromone-help-in-attraction-and-social-interactions-m-22-slovenia/66946/11 "2017-02-18T08:48:21Z")
Hi, so I just got my package in the mail which is very exciting and can’t wait to test the products. It arrived very fast but I had to pay 50? for the customs!! :OOOO Is there any way to get around these charges? I reall can’t afford to spend so much if I want to order again. I know it’s not AD’s fault, I just want to know if something can be done to at least lower the charges. But otherwise the bottles were nicely packed and I got a freebie which is really awesome 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2017, 9:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-need-pheromone-help-in-attraction-and-social-interactions-m-22-slovenia/66946/12 "2017-02-20T09:24:56Z")
Good to hear you got your package! As far as the custom fees I have no idea to be honest and hope someone with more experience that lives outside the states can offer there advice. Does customs normally do this with all products? ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2017, 4:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-need-pheromone-help-in-attraction-and-social-interactions-m-22-slovenia/66946/13 "2017-03-04T04:04:42Z")
Yes, custom fees can suck. I found out however that often the rate is a flat rate no matter the order size. So I place much larger orders, meaning ordering also less often, and I’m saving. Kinda 🙂. ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2017, 2:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-need-pheromone-help-in-attraction-and-social-interactions-m-22-slovenia/66946/14 "2017-03-05T14:50:54Z")
I agree with Conjurator here. The secret is knowing if your local customs have a certain “ceiling” for a tax-free order. For example, we recently monitored that in the Philippines, their local customs have declared small imports worth $200 and below to be tax-free. So if you are a local there, for example, all you have to do is place an order below the $200 ceiling. Just make sure that the shipping fee is included in the $200. Remember, we collect the shipping fee from you so although that amount goes to the shipping companies after processing, it’s still included in our invoice. And if your country does not have that tax free ceiling for small imports, you must check out if the amount of the tax they collect is a flat rate. And so ordering big will indeed help you save some greens. Or sometimes, [adding gift wrapping to your order](https://a314.com/) [broken link] helps too.