# Hello, new guy here. Pheromones to smoothen up communications with my GF. 43/m **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 28, 2016, 3:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-guy-here-pheromones-to-smoothen-up-communications-with-my-gf-43-m/66672 "2016-11-28T03:08:27Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Chevyfan31](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ee7513/32.png) [@Chevyfan31](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Chevyfan31)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2016, 3:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-guy-here-pheromones-to-smoothen-up-communications-with-my-gf-43-m/66672/1 "2016-11-28T03:08:27Z")
Howdy everyone, i’m a 43 year old Caucasian who is just looking around for an edge. My girlfriend (32) and I are both very closed people and don’t share much with each other. I’m interested in trying a phermone to help us with opening up to each other. Any suggestions would be great. ---
**Author:** ![Jdub](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jdub/32/1399_2.png) [@Jdub](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jdub)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2016, 4:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-guy-here-pheromones-to-smoothen-up-communications-with-my-gf-43-m/66672/2 "2016-11-28T04:01:43Z")
IO or IH. Get ready for the chatty. ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2016, 5:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-guy-here-pheromones-to-smoothen-up-communications-with-my-gf-43-m/66672/3 "2016-11-28T05:32:01Z")
Welcome to PheromoneTalk, Chevyfan31! Your GC is now in your email. 🙂 Back that IO + IH with IShine, to create a lively, it’s-ok vibe as the two of you open up. 🙂 And make the TUTH on stand-by. It’s a proven… after a good opening up, a very hot steamy making love follows. 🙂 Happy Pheroing! 🙂 ================== _ **Disclosure:** I’ve edited your thread title from **“Hello, new guy here,”** to **“Hello, new guy here. [Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) to smoothen up communications with my GF. 43/m”** for topic clarity and forum readability. It’ll also generate more “reads” to your thread. If you want to opt-out simply let me know. Thank you!_ ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2016, 10:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-guy-here-pheromones-to-smoothen-up-communications-with-my-gf-43-m/66672/4 "2016-11-28T10:37:29Z")
Hello Chevyfan31, Welcome! I have to go with the suggestions provided with the IO, IH, and IShine. I have to ask is there anything else you would like to see besides being more open? I normally suggest the **Men’s Ultimate Kit** as you would get everything to try and at a discount. This way you get to test and see what really is best for you. This is what it comes down to is being patient and testing to see what works best. But if you want a few to start I have to go with what is suggested. I would also look at CTTM2 also as this will get you both pretty chatty and help keeping things chatty. Now what I would do here is if you want to help yourself feel more at ease and open up more to, is to wear the IO or CTTM2 on your neck area so it effects you to. You will get the absolute max out of these this way. Pheromones can have wonderful self effects that many do not realize. I would wear the IO on your neck and say IH on your wrists so it effects her more and not you. I mention this because with IH the self effects can cause you to tell everything in your mind, and most of us want other to do this and not ourselves. Now I would consider other pheromones for a complete balance like Ammo. I suggest this because it does share a pheromone with IO and is a very general all around product. With the ones mentioned they are all socials, and with Ammo it will be for general attraction and this alone will help her open up a little to. Ammo has a blend in it for attraction/status/and comfort/talking. I would really consider Ammo to as it will be best to have a complete set instead of just all social products. Good Luck and if you have any questions at all , just ask and I am more than willing to help. ---
**Author:** ![Chevyfan31](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ee7513/32.png) [@Chevyfan31](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Chevyfan31)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2016, 4:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-guy-here-pheromones-to-smoothen-up-communications-with-my-gf-43-m/66672/5 "2016-11-28T16:39:19Z")
Awesome guys thanks. In all honesty we are now apart but trying to make things work. Sex is off the table for now. And thats ok with me because our relationship started out because of sex. I actually want to be the open person she needs. But thats not to say i wont try a little of the others just to see how she reacts. Thanks again everyone. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2016, 7:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-guy-here-pheromones-to-smoothen-up-communications-with-my-gf-43-m/66672/6 "2016-11-28T19:14:10Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. There is a thread in my signature block about help for married guys at home. Now I know you are not married and she is not at your home ATM but the idea is pretty much the same. The thread has a lot of ideas and strategies from both the guys and gals and you might find it helpful. bosshank ---
**Author:** ![Chevyfan31](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ee7513/32.png) [@Chevyfan31](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Chevyfan31)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2016, 9:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-guy-here-pheromones-to-smoothen-up-communications-with-my-gf-43-m/66672/7 "2016-11-28T21:57:54Z")
Thanks bosshank, looks like i have some reading to do.