# Hello! New here &intrigued **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 15, 2013, 6:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-here-intrigued/58758 "2013-04-15T18:07:44Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![CindyLou](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/d78d45/32.png) [@CindyLou](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CindyLou)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2013, 6:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-here-intrigued/58758/1 "2013-04-15T18:07:44Z")
Hi, I’m new to he board, female, 40’s. I’m in an occupation where trust is critical, and I’ve been married a long time and wondering if money’s can reignite the spark, LOL! Can’t wait to learn more and read others experiences. Glad to be learning in a “legit” environment where I can get some straight info, too. Thx! ---
**Author:** ![MikeMan22](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeman22/32/332_2.png) [@MikeMan22](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MikeMan22)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2013, 6:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-here-intrigued/58758/2 "2013-04-15T18:56:27Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum!! This is something a bit new to me, where I am not used to seeing a woman asking for something like a A314 in a womens version.. I hope one of the females can tune in on what products work the best for trust in women. Glad you found the forum, please do tell us how you learned of [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/), and how you found the page. You are married, and want to reignite the spark. Look into some of the instant sexiness products, they will help with that. Hope this helps!! ---
**Author:** ![CindyLou](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/d78d45/32.png) [@CindyLou](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CindyLou)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2013, 7:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-here-intrigued/58758/3 "2013-04-15T19:00:28Z")
Thanks MikeMan22, I see already there used to be a female version of a314 but it’s discontinued. I’m going to try IS. I’m also wondering if the IS will have a + effect on my daughter who’s starting to get the hormone grumpies. I’m hoping! ---
**Author:** ![MoonlightBliss](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonlightbliss/32/1641_2.png) [@MoonlightBliss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MoonlightBliss)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2013, 7:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-here-intrigued/58758/4 "2013-04-15T19:22:41Z")
If trust is critical in your business dealings, I’d recommend [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). It promotes trust and encourages people to make a deeper connection than what you’d normally get in passing. It also presents you as trustworthy and safe, which encourages others to open up. Instant Shine is a great product, but more geared toward fun and good times than trust. It can be used with Instant Honesty to uplift and cheer the mix. For your marriage, try Instant Sexiness. It will increase your own confidence and is very alluring. Tell us a little more about you, and your personality, and we’ll fine-tune that Instant Sexiness recommendation a little. There are two varieties, and they are quite different. ---
**Author:** ![CindyLou](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/d78d45/32.png) [@CindyLou](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CindyLou)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2013, 3:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-here-intrigued/58758/5 "2013-04-16T03:35:45Z")
> [@MoonlightBliss](#): > > If trust is critical in your business dealings, I’d recommend Instant Honesty. It promotes trust and encourages people to make a deeper connection than what you’d normally get in passing. It also presents you as trustworthy and safe, which encourages others to open up. > > Instant Shine is a great product, but more geared toward fun and good times than trust. It can be used with Instant Honesty to uplift and cheer the mix. > > For your marriage, try Instant Sexiness. It will increase your own confidence and is very alluring. > > Tell us a little more about you, and your personality, and we’ll fine-tune that Instant Sexiness recommendation a little. There are two varieties, and they are quite different. Hi MoonlightBliss, and thanks. How so Isa and ISb differ? I’m a pretty basic gal. I don’t need flowers and a lot of romance. My DH tends toward a bit of depression, so I would love to have something to help him forget that for awhile and enjoy us. Let me know if that helps! Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![MoonlightBliss](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonlightbliss/32/1641_2.png) [@MoonlightBliss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MoonlightBliss)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2013, 10:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-here-intrigued/58758/6 "2013-04-16T10:14:26Z")
The two types of Instant Sexiness are differentiated by the letters A and B. So you’ll know what you’re getting when you place an order, watch for the letter at the end of the phero name. “A” is strong, more in-charge and dominant sort of sexy. It’s like slipping into a wonderful little dress, it draws a lot of attention and is very alluring. “B” is softer, more playful and demure, girl-next-door sort of sexy. It promotes a protective instinct in men, and brings out their nurturing side more. Some women use both, alternating them to fit the environment or their mood. I personally just stick with IS-A, because the other one is too far from my own personality and is not a good fit for me. There are no pheromone-cures for depression. Please don’t get your hopes up that a spritz of this stuff will change your husband’s personality. Pheros can enhance, and can help steer things along, but they do not alter a person or force a behavior. With that said, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) is a great mood brightener. It’s like fun and laughter in a bottle, and one of my favorites. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2013, 9:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-here-intrigued/58758/7 "2013-04-20T09:34:51Z")
Welcome Cindylou, I think you should consider these products your starting of. With pheromones you need a good foundation. Eventually when you get that foundation you will be introduced to pheromones that will do just what you need in a greater variety. Your gc was issued!