# Hello! new member here **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 3, 2009, 2:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-member-here/24455 "2009-01-03T02:32:52Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![theone245](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3d9bf3/32.png) [@theone245](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/theone245)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2009, 2:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-member-here/24455/1 "2009-01-03T02:32:52Z")
Hello Everyone! I am an 18 yr old college freshman looking for a way to attract women. I am not shallow and to prove it hear me out… I’ve always been the person everyone loved and also the person that girls can trust. Girls can trust me and tell me all the time that I’m one the only good guys around BUT they never see me in the “more than friends” light. I don’t understand how girls say I’m attractive, a good person, funny, and smart yet they don’t want to explore it. I feel like I’ve been the “best friend” for too long. I haven’t had many girl friends or anything so I want to give [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) a try. In my case I thinking “Turn up the Heat” but which would be best for me? and when should I expect the gift certificate? ---
**Author:** ![MikeMan22](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeman22/32/332_2.png) [@MikeMan22](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MikeMan22)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2009, 2:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-member-here/24455/2 "2009-01-03T02:41:06Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. I know what it feels like to be in your shoes, it sucks. If I were you, get what I started with, and heres why. Ammo- Great for attracting girls, giving a sexy vibe Instant Shine- Great for boosting your confidence [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/)- Calming and helps attract females. Turn up the heat is ok if your looking for sex right now, but if your looking for a relationship, save that for later. Hope this helps, good luck ---
**Author:** ![MikeMan22](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeman22/32/332_2.png) [@MikeMan22](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MikeMan22)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2009, 2:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-member-here/24455/3 "2009-01-03T02:46:57Z")
Also, in regards to the gift cert, Tisha takes care of them, when she swings by, assuming you meet the requirements, she’ll email you it. That is usually within 24 hours of your post ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2009, 3:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-member-here/24455/4 "2009-01-03T03:05:42Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. Well right now they kinda look at you that way and do not want to explore it but they will be happy to have you in their grasp in the future. But to make them want to get you in their grasp right now, I would follow Mike’s product advice. The one point I would make that would differ is that TUTH sends out a very strong signal saying you are interested in sex right now. It may be a little too aggressive for a lot of girls your age. The Ammo is better as it send out more of an I am interested message. Much better for most women. The other product to look at is [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). It gives you a smooth, cool vibe without the none. As such it can make you seem older. A lot of girls your age find this older, cooler, smoother vibe very appealing. Nuff said on that one. You get the message. Not sure how you do with conversations. If you sometimes have trouble opening conversations with women you just meet you might want to look at IO. The alpha nols can turn things into a regular gab fest. The thing to remember about these products though is that they are not magic. They only enhance who you are. Most of the work - convincing the ladies that you are boyfriend and not just friend material, will still be up to you. But we have certainly given you some product and strategy outlines here that you can use toward that purpose. Good luck and let us know what you decide to do. ---
**Author:** ![theone245](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3d9bf3/32.png) [@theone245](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/theone245)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2009, 3:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-member-here/24455/5 "2009-01-03T03:54:34Z")
Thankx for the advice and replies! I am looking forward to the gift certificate so I can start trying pheromones out! Is **AMMUNITION** the same as Ammo? (sry im a noob) and would “Turn up the heat” or Ammunition mess things up with a girl who already thinks I’m her “best friend”? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 4, 2009, 1:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-member-here/24455/6 "2009-01-04T01:40:19Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 The friends box is a common issue for alot of men. Masculine mones will help move you out of that box. A314 and AMMO can help. A314 for use around those you already know will up your status with them. However if your shy it can be harder to use to attract ladies you dont know yet. They will react but wait for your approach more. AMMO would be a better choice to give a more sexy arousing vibe. I suggest you start with that. I often suspect that men who have this effect on women may make alot of the nols naturally so I am not suggesting those just yet. I would suggest IFM to increase affection and resistance. **I sent your GC this morning** , Be sure to check both your email box and spam box. Tisha