# Hello New member here **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 2, 2010, 12:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-member-here/43672 "2010-12-02T00:18:53Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![fkkdasher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/ebca7d/32.png) [@fkkdasher](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fkkdasher)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2010, 12:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-member-here/43672/1 "2010-12-02T00:18:53Z")
Hey everyone, I’m a 20 year old male from WV. I have been interested in [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) for a while now and I wanted to find out rather they worked or not. I found this website while browsing the net so I thought I’d give it a shot. I’m not exactly a shy guy but I’m not the most outgoing person either. I can talk to women but I have a hard time approaching them to initiate the first conversation. Since I’m new to all of this I was just wondering if anyone could tell me what would be the best product to use to help ease the tension and preferably get the girl to come to me. I’m a college student and I have a few girls that stare at me and act really interested but they never start a conversation and of course I don’t either because I’m afraid of looking like a fool. So what do you think would be the best product for me to start with and then when they become comfortable with me what could I use to take it to the next level? ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2010, 12:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-member-here/43672/2 "2010-12-02T00:28:48Z")
Hi and welcome to the forum! Thanks for posting those details…sometimes you get people who are shy and it shows in the way they post 🙂 Just takes a little to get some info from them to give them good suggestions… Not in your case! For good self effects and effects on others, I would suggest INSTANT SHINE as a smile in a bottle. Gets me relaxed as well as others around you. For the convo’s, IO and IH would be great, IO for opening up the convos and the IH for a deeper convo with the ladies. Though you must be in congruence to the mone signature your putting out. If you have a frown, I want nothing to do with you face, then It doesn’t matter how much of the mones you use, they aren’t gonna come flocking to you…From your description, though, I don’t think you’ll have that issue. More of a, keep in mind, comment. Check out the link on my sig below on the Intro to Mones by Steve to get the most out of your mone purchase. Thanks for joining and hope to hear about your adventures with the mones!! ---
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2010, 12:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-member-here/43672/3 "2010-12-02T00:42:55Z")
Hey, welcome to PT! In addition to io, I suggest ih. Why do you think ur having trouble being assertive? Just practice a bit more, and you will be okay 😃 Have fun and good luck! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [December 3, 2010, 6:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-member-here/43672/4 "2010-12-03T18:15:39Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Fkkdasher! You are not so shy yet not that bold so you need a bit of help enhancing your communication skills and bringing out the lion in you. Ammunition is subtle and can be worn daily even as school to let the ladies know you are interested. Alpha gave you a great run down on the socials you can wear by themselves first to get a feel for what they do and together with your ammo for great results. When you have purchased your mones come back and tell us all about your experiences. Your gc was issued!