# Hello! New to pheromones! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 21, 2016, 6:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-to-pheromones/66430 "2016-09-21T18:48:33Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![waterlily](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/a87d85/32.png) [@waterlily](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/waterlily)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2016, 6:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-to-pheromones/66430/1 "2016-09-21T18:48:33Z")
Hi! I’m Lily! I’m from New York City! Recently single after a very-long term relationship - (i ended it.) Saddened but working on getting myself back I go out quite often, very outgoing lifestyle Looking for a bit of an ice-breaker as i have often been told i am quite UN-APPROACHABLE Any suggestions welcome! ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2016, 7:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-to-pheromones/66430/2 "2016-09-21T19:51:58Z")
Hi waterlily, Welcome to this forum. I suggest you start out with the Instant Female Wardrobe, it contains many nice products at a fair price and it’s the best choice for a beginner. IShine: This is a mood booster. It will make you feel happier and this will be contagious for those around you. It will definitely make you more approachable. IOpenness: This is a great social ice-breaker. It helps strike conversations with total strangers. IHonesty: This helps develop trust and bonding with people. The conversations you’ll get will be much deeper. ISexiness: This comes into two versions, A and B. Both will help a lot with the self-confidence. The B version gives a nice sexy gil vibe that is all-around likeable for everybody. The A version is harsher and gives a more vampy sexy vibe. You’ll get lots of insisting looks from men and maybe some hateful glances from some women 😃. If you have any questions, please ask 🙂. ---
**Author:** ![waterlily](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/a87d85/32.png) [@waterlily](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/waterlily)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2016, 8:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-to-pheromones/66430/3 "2016-09-21T20:13:26Z")
Wow! Thank you for explaining! I am interested in trying IShine. ISexiness A and B sounds fun as well… Do you think B would counteract/soften up an already sort of harsh/vampy vibe? Does anyone have any suggestions on a [pheromone](https://a314.com/) that would aid in employers taking me more seriously? I am quite tiny and in a mostly-male place of work. ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2016, 11:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-to-pheromones/66430/4 "2016-09-21T23:38:17Z")
Hi there, waterlily! Great to have you come on in to the mone forum. Glad to have you. Yes, IShine is a great one, I still use it regularly, had 3x spray this morning along with the rest of my mone wardrobe and it’s fun and at ease and relaxed vibe is a welcome signal. For IS/b, yes, it will soften up a harsh vibe and is easy to wear as well, my personal fave of the two, IS/b and IS/a. Keep in mind, that these are influencers and will do so on the personality of those around you. I would love to have you consider some of the IS/a for the Angelina Jolie, tough sexy tigress kind of vibe to be taken seriously, but in a tough as nails kind of way. Will this work in your work environment? Possibly. Some putatives or MX’s may be better, but will need more info as to the guys there, their personality and what’s the dynamic together. 1Alpha . ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [September 22, 2016, 7:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-to-pheromones/66430/5 "2016-09-22T07:09:07Z")
Hi there waterlily. 🙂 Welcome to PheromoneTalk! 🙂 I have a PM for you. Kindly check it out as soon as you can. 🙂 Happy Pheroing! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [September 23, 2016, 1:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-to-pheromones/66430/6 "2016-09-23T13:20:57Z")
Hello Lilly, Welcome to the site. I would get the **Female Wardrobe** as it will have everything you need to get started. For general attraction you will want either IS/A or IS/B and I would start with the B version first to see what you think. The B version want be as harsh and I think this is what you are looking for, but the best thing to do is to test both. The other main want you also want to test is **IO** as this will make you more approachable and should also open people right up to you. Besides the kit another one to look at is **MX300** which is like A314 for guys, but this is for women. This should get you the respect and authority you are looking for in the work place. Now it is experimental mix, but there is a section under the women’s area where there are is plenty of info about this one. Here is what I would do since you are in the states. If you spend over $100 of your own money after the GC is used you get free shipping in the states which is a $10 savings. The Female Wardrobe with the MX300 added would be about $105 after the $25CG is used and this would be with free shipping and you would get everything for exactly your goals and what you are looking for. Good Luck and I hope I explained everything ok and if not please let me know and I will do better.