# "HELLO" New user here... **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 12, 2009, 1:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-user-here/28901 "2009-05-12T13:38:41Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Pologirl14](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e9a140/32.png) [@Pologirl14](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pologirl14)\ **Post date:** [May 12, 2009, 1:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-user-here/28901/1 "2009-05-12T13:38:41Z")
Hello all … I am 28/f/tx. I’ve been reading up on phermones and want to learn so much more. The thing is I am a lesbian (bi tendencies) and have no clue where to even start. I love women and they usually love me, but I want to stand out more I guess I should say. Does anyone have any suggestions, material etc… that can help me out on my quest to find answers? Any help will be greatly appreciated!!! This site seems great and very open and friendly … glad I am a part of it 🙂 Pologirl ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [May 12, 2009, 1:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-user-here/28901/2 "2009-05-12T13:47:02Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. There are a couple users here in the same situation. Check out the posts by KatieA - she also has a journal in the women’s journal section. That may be a good way to start. She is very nice and i am sure would be happy to answer any questions. With that said, you could always look at the social products" IO, IH and IShine. These work across the board for everyone pretty much the same way and can be used in any environment. IO helps with general or intial chatty type conversations. IH helps with feelings of connection and deeper conversations as a result. And Ishine makes the people around you happy to be hear you. Hope this hleps some. Do check on KatieA. ---
**Author:** ![LucidDreamer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/luciddreamer/32/2141_2.png) [@LucidDreamer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LucidDreamer)\ **Post date:** [May 12, 2009, 1:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-user-here/28901/3 "2009-05-12T13:51:03Z")
Hello! Welcome to the forum! I’m glad you’ve expressed an interest in Pheromones. There are many products here than can help you stand out, like [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), Instand Openness, and many others. I’m sure we’ll have something to fit your needs. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [May 12, 2009, 2:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-user-here/28901/4 "2009-05-12T14:12:04Z")
Hi Polo, welcome to the forums. We have other members here like yourself and I suggest you have a good read of the womens forum and of [The Womens Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258) As the bossman has said, the social products could be of high benefit to you. Also, many women love Instant Sexiness. Tisha should be online again soon, make sure you get the $25 gift cert from her 😉 Once again welcome, and do let us know about your results once you start testing [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/)! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [May 12, 2009, 7:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-user-here/28901/5 "2009-05-12T19:06:38Z")
Hi and welcome! You can use any of the products that women use to attract men. Please tell us a bit more about your personality, and also about the situations you are considering using pheromones for. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 13, 2009, 12:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-user-here/28901/6 "2009-05-13T12:05:15Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 You would use the same mones that the women wear to attract men because Gay or Bi women are attracted to the female natural mone signature. I suggest you start with [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). There are two kinds A and B A is more dominant and B is more feminine. I also suggest Ishine and IH. Ishine for a charismatic warm uplifting feeling and confidence IH for a deeper mone meaningful connection. Now to receive a GC to get you started can you tell us a little about your personality traits and how you found the forum ? I look forward to your reply so we can get you started. Tisha Hostess/Guide