# Hello- New User **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 27, 2009, 2:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-user/34425 "2009-11-27T02:07:29Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![springflower](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/aca169/32.png) [@springflower](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/springflower)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 2:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-user/34425/1 "2009-11-27T02:07:29Z")
Hello everyone. =-) I am a 43 yr old female in California who is embarking on the 2nd relationship of my life due to my husband’s death. Want [pheromone](https://a314.com/) help to enhance the planned meet with a very cool guy. =-) ---
**Author:** ![K-Train](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/k-train/32/2253_2.png) [@K-Train](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/K-Train)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 2:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-user/34425/2 "2009-11-27T02:11:08Z")
Hey there Springflower and welcome to the forum!🙂 Before we get started I’d like for you to give out some more information about yourself. Tell me about your personality, wether you’re shy or outgoing. Are you confident with talking to people? Can you hold a conversation? And of course, what are you expecting to get out of pheros? Answers these questions and we’ll be able to help you out more.😃 ---
**Author:** ![springflower](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/aca169/32.png) [@springflower](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/springflower)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 2:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-user/34425/3 "2009-11-27T02:19:44Z")
Hi K-Train, I am confident, and somewhat outgoing. I have trouble moving forward in conversations sometimes. I am playful, but direct. The man is a very shy man and I am attempting to draw him out. The interest is already there, and the first meet is planned. I am hoping to add [pheromones](https://a314.com/) to my life from here on and they will be used on him to keep him drawn out and interested to overcome his shyness. Smiles. > [@K-Train](#): > > Hey there Springflower and welcome to the forum!🙂 > > Before we get started I’d like for you to give out some more information about yourself. Tell me about your personality, wether you’re shy or outgoing. Are you confident with talking to people? Can you hold a conversation? And of course, what are you expecting to get out of pheros? > > Answers these questions and we’ll be able to help you out more.😃 ---
**Author:** ![springflower](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/aca169/32.png) [@springflower](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/springflower)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 2:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-user/34425/4 "2009-11-27T02:37:09Z")
Time for my question: I am confused by the store. It has for men & for women. When I goto the women’s section, there are male reviews. Help? Which one do I focus on- I am straight- thanks. ---
**Author:** ![Aggie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f07891/32.png) [@Aggie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aggie)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 3:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-user/34425/5 "2009-11-27T03:09:35Z")
Some products like instant shine and IO are for men and women, but i’d buy the one for men just to be safe. ---
**Author:** ![springflower](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/aca169/32.png) [@springflower](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/springflower)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 3:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-user/34425/6 "2009-11-27T03:11:55Z")
Okay Michael, How do I know which ones are the ones for a woman to use with the intent to attract a man? =-)'s > [@Michael721](#): > > Some products like instant shine and IO are for men and women, but i’d buy the one for men just to be safe. ---
**Author:** ![Aggie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f07891/32.png) [@Aggie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aggie)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 5:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-user/34425/7 "2009-11-27T05:31:55Z")
They are under the “For Women” section of the site. [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A and B would do that. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 7:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-user/34425/8 "2009-11-27T19:04:42Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Springflower! Please don’t allow the store to overwhelm you. It is very simple actually. The [female pheromones](https://phera.com/) are under the “For women” section and the male pheromones are under the “For males” section. There are a few of the products that are unisex like : Instant openness Instant shine Instant honesty CTTM 2 If you are having difficulties when ordering you can always call our hotline to place an order. We are also a research company so many of our users have used the men and female products but that is nothing for you to concern yourself about since you are new. For your situation I suggest the instant sexiness /a that suits your direct, confident personality with some CTTM 2 that will have the guys approaching you even more. Depending on what kind of guy you want to attract if is the alpha male you may want to try the instant sexiness/b which works even better with the CTTM 2. Your GC will be issued soon! ---
**Author:** ![WildFlower](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wildflower/32/1260_2.png) [@WildFlower](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WildFlower)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 11:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-user/34425/9 "2009-11-27T23:17:16Z")
> [@springflower](#): > > Hello everyone. > > =-) > > I am a 43 yr old female in California who is embarking on the 2nd relationship of my life due to my husband’s death. Want pheromone help to enhance the planned meet with a very cool guy. > > =-) Hello, springflower. Just wanted to say you have a cool username 😃 As for pheromone advice, I think Mickaelia is spot on: Instant Sexiness /a, CTTM and maybe [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). ---
**Author:** ![springflower](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/aca169/32.png) [@springflower](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/springflower)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2009, 1:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-user/34425/10 "2009-11-28T01:04:15Z")
Thank you Mikaelia, Perfect answers for me! Smiles. > [@kelsey](#): > > Welcome to Pherotalk Springflower! > > Please don’t allow the store to overwhelm you. It is very simple actually. The female pheromones are under the “For women” section and the male pheromones are under the “For males” section. There are a few of the products that are unisex like : > > Instant openness > Instant shine > Instant honesty > CTTM 2 > > If you are having difficulties when ordering you can always call our hotline to place an order. We are also a research company so many of our users have used the men and female products but that is nothing for you to concern yourself about since you are new. > > For your situation I suggest the instant sexiness /a that suits your direct, confident personality with some CTTM 2 that will have the guys approaching you even more. Depending on what kind of guy you want to attract if is the alpha male you may want to try the instant sexiness/b which works even better with the CTTM 2. > > Your GC will be issued soon! ---
**Author:** ![springflower](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/aca169/32.png) [@springflower](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/springflower)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2009, 10:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-user/34425/11 "2009-12-04T10:29:27Z")
Why Thank you wildflower :o > [@WildFlower](#): > > Hello, springflower. > > Just wanted to say you have a cool username 😃 > > As for pheromone advice, I think Mickaelia is spot on: Instant Sexiness /a, CTTM and maybe Instant Shine.