# Hello! New! Using to pheromones to create friendship bonds with other women. F/41 **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 20, 2018, 11:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-using-to-pheromones-to-create-friendship-bonds-with-other-women-f-41/67655 "2018-03-20T23:39:40Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![AccidentalKitten](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f17d59/32.png) [@AccidentalKitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AccidentalKitten)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2018, 11:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-using-to-pheromones-to-create-friendship-bonds-with-other-women-f-41/67655/1 "2018-03-20T23:39:40Z")
Hi! I’m fairly new to [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) and I’ve been using Alter Ego and Raw Chemistry for several months and amazed at the behavior change in those around me… and myself! I’m hooked and want to make smart pheromone decisions. I’m 41 year old female living in a small town in the central US. I’m married but do enjoy feeling attractive to others. I’m more interested in using pheromones to boost my work relationships and few personal friendships. I’m high anxiety, low self esteem and have difficulty feeling comfortable with others). I’m rarely approached by any gender, but people claim I’m ?intimidating.? I don’t see it because I’m intimidated! I’m looking for an insant charisma around other women. Distracting men would be an added bonus. 😉 Since wearing pheromones late last year, I’m felt more confident, feisty, and sexy. Maybe I’m just more aware, but I’ve gotten more passerby comments, free things, skip lines, and other subtle male niceties. I’m been bold in business meetings, and more sure of my ideas. How Can I take this to the next level with female relationships? I’ve seen results with males. What would help me be more magnetic and charming to everyone? I’m looking forward to exploring the forums and learning more! ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [March 21, 2018, 9:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-using-to-pheromones-to-create-friendship-bonds-with-other-women-f-41/67655/2 "2018-03-21T09:52:37Z")
Hi AccidentalKitten, Thanks for introducing yourself to this community. To help with approach, if you’re unvoluntarily intimidating, you’ll want to try [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Shine. The first product will drive people to initiate conversations with you more easily. Instant Shine will add a fun side to your personality. It will help you come out as someone fun to be around and make people feel good. Instant Sexiness can also be beneficial for you. If you use the B version, you’ll come out as a sexy friendly person, a good girl vibe. If you use the A version, the vibe will be vampier. A strikes harder with males, but works with some beta type women. That would be a nice way to start. You will be eligible to a 25$ gift certificate to use when the new store opens. If you have any questions, please ask. ---
**Author:** ![AccidentalKitten](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f17d59/32.png) [@AccidentalKitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AccidentalKitten)\ **Post date:** [March 21, 2018, 2:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-using-to-pheromones-to-create-friendship-bonds-with-other-women-f-41/67655/3 "2018-03-21T14:28:56Z")
Yay! Thank you for replying! I actually decided to order those products this morning and realized that the site was not taking order and was disappointed. I’m excited try those products as soon as they are available again and so glad to hear that there will be a new store! That’s awesome!! ---
**Author:** ![datadragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/datadragon/32/1252_2.png) [@datadragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/datadragon)\ **Post date:** [March 21, 2018, 6:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-using-to-pheromones-to-create-friendship-bonds-with-other-women-f-41/67655/4 "2018-03-21T18:46:06Z")
Hi AccidentalKitten, welcome to the community… Instant Shine sounds like a good product for you as it creates a magnetic aura/charisma toward women (and men also). It also boosts self confidence, lifts up your mood and the mood of others around you, and even can make it easier to be expressive/witty and find things to say…Some say it makes them appear more youthful. It also would help with any intimidation a bit. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), CTTM2, and Instant Honesty has a good thread for comparison here: > [@CTTM vs IO for women: what is the difference and which should I choose?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/cttm-vs-io/67058): > > So I have been wondering for a while now, what is the difference between CTTM and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/)? And if to decide between the two, which to choose? I have purchased both Instant Openness and CTTM 2.0. I started my journey with the Instant Female Wardrobe - To Go Version and would recommend to anyone whose first time trying out, because it has everything to start and small bottles makes it easy to carry around in my purse. CTTM also known as MX777, stated on the androtics website as great fo… Generally the IO will get even strangers to feel comfortable talking and being open as far as socializing or making friends. CTTM2 is more balanced as far as quality of conversation once you talk, but a bit less likely for them to start. IH would be good for trust and bonding such as with your husband, and can act a bit like a truth serum if you want to find out stuff from others 😉 All will lessen intimidation and are friendly and social. IS-B probably will be the product you will like since it will bring down intimidation more toward a softer, kittenish vibe. Other women will find the vibe much more approachable and friendly. IS-A is more dominant/take charge but if someone is already like that it can occasionally be too much, so they use it in combination with one of the socials like IS to be more friendly and approachable. P96 can create love and bonding feelings, the spark like when you first met for a relationship. MX135 and MX300 I would read about also… You can search from the upper right Search on the top of the forums. The new store will be at [https://a314.com](https://a314.com) and the gift certificate can be used there when it opens. You can add your email there to be notified beforehand. Androtics is currently short on staff after a recent move and have to catch up on a backlog of orders first. So you will have time to read 13 years of journals in the womens section with real world experiences and all the various potential uses and combinations…You can start your own journal there as well to keep track of your uses and get advice from others. Any questions you cant find you can post or feel free to PM.. ---
**Author:** ![AccidentalKitten](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f17d59/32.png) [@AccidentalKitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AccidentalKitten)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2018, 10:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-using-to-pheromones-to-create-friendship-bonds-with-other-women-f-41/67655/5 "2018-03-22T10:28:41Z")
> [@datadragon](#): > > Hi AccidentalKitten, welcome to the community… > > Instant Shine sounds like a good product for you as it creates a magnetic aura/charisma toward women (and men also). It also boosts self confidence, lifts up your mood and the mood of others around you, and even can make it easier to be expressive/witty and find things to say…Some say it makes them appear more youthful. It also would help with any intimidation a bit. > > Instant Openness, CTTM2, and Instant Honesty has a good thread for comparison here: > [CTTM vs IO for women: what is the difference and which should I choose?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/cttm-vs-io/67058) > Generally the IO will get even strangers to feel comfortable talking and being open as far as socializing or making friends. CTTM2 is more balanced as far as quality of conversation once you talk, but a bit less likely for them to start. IH would be good for trust and bonding such as with your husband, and can act a bit like a truth serum if you want to find out stuff from others 😉 All will lessen intimidation and are friendly and social. > > IS-B probably will be the product you will like since it will bring down intimidation more toward a softer, kittenish vibe. Other women will find the vibe much more approachable and friendly. IS-A is more dominant/take charge but if someone is already like that it can occasionally be too much, so they use it in combination with one of the socials like IS to be more friendly and approachable. > > P96 can create love and bonding feelings, the spark like when you first met for a relationship. > > MX135 and MX300 I would read about also… You can search from the upper right Search on the top of the forums. > > The new store will be at [https://a314.com](https://a314.com) and the gift certificate can be used there when it opens. You can add your email there to be notified beforehand. Androtics is currently short on staff after a recent move and have to catch up on a backlog of orders first. > > So you will have time to read 13 years of journals in the womens section with real world experiences and all the various potential uses and combinations…You can start your own journal there as well to keep track of your uses and get advise from others. Any questions you cant find you can post or feel free to PM.. This is so informative! I’m going to start reading the journals as you suggested, and I’m really excited about trying some of these when I’m able to order. Thank you so much for such a detailed response. Your description of the IS-A and IS-B definitely make me want to try B for sure! So thrilled to have 2 great responses to my introduction and such awesome info! I’ll be anxiously awaiting orders opening up again! ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [March 31, 2018, 2:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-using-to-pheromones-to-create-friendship-bonds-with-other-women-f-41/67655/6 "2018-03-31T02:18:18Z")
Welcome to PheromoneTalk, AccidentalKitten! Your GC is now in your email. It’s a non-expiring one so, you can use it as soon as the new store is up and running. 🙂 I will second the IShine+IOpenness combo. Perfect for creating a friendship bond. In the meantime, as you wait for the new store, I will recommend you check the Women’s Journals section and I assure you, you are going to learn much much more. 🙂 Happy Pheroing! 🙂