# hello! :) New with a question... **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 4, 2013, 11:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-with-a-question/58652 "2013-04-04T11:06:18Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![missmalibubarbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/82dd89/32.png) [@missmalibubarbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/missmalibubarbie)\ **Post date:** [April 4, 2013, 11:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-with-a-question/58652/1 "2013-04-04T11:06:18Z")
Hi all! So, I have had some interest in [buying pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) before, but never did. I’ve decided that I really would like to try some, but the issue is that I really don’t know what type is best for me… Advice for a newbie? I’m a 22 year old woman and I don’t really know where to start. I found a couple products, but wonder how well they really work. I was wondering what the difference was between Instant Sexiness for Women and Instant Sexiness for Women B. Also, is the Instant Shine any good? (these were from [androticsdirect.com](http://androticsdirect.com)). I would appreciate help from people who have been using these products for a while. Thanks! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![MoonlightBliss](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonlightbliss/32/1641_2.png) [@MoonlightBliss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MoonlightBliss)\ **Post date:** [April 4, 2013, 11:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-with-a-question/58652/2 "2013-04-04T11:38:04Z")
Hello, welcome to the forum! What you want to use depends greatly on what you want to experience as a result of pheromone use. They are not at all the same, and can be directed many ways. So first off, tell us about you, your personality, and what your goals/hopes are for pheromone use. Then we can make suggestions that will fit you. The difference between Instant Sexiness “A” and “B” is this: “A” is strong, confident and more of a in-charge, dominant sexy. “B” is softer, more playful and demure, sort of girl-next-door sexy. IT works well to choose the one that most closely reflects your own personality, although some have had success with both types. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) is ahhh-mazing. Mood lifter, fun and laughter in a bottle. It has been known to make the wearer the center of attention, brighten up your day, create an aura of youthful vigor and health, etc. One of my very favorites. ---
**Author:** ![missmalibubarbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/82dd89/32.png) [@missmalibubarbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/missmalibubarbie)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2013, 2:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-with-a-question/58652/3 "2013-04-06T02:14:11Z")
Well, I would say that B is most like who I am. I was considering trying a small to go sample of that and the shine before jumping right in to see if they work for me. I guess I just want a little more confidence, in general. The shine sounds like it might be a good fit for me. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2013, 4:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-new-with-a-question/58652/4 "2013-04-10T16:35:33Z")
Welcome Barbie, I don’t know what your budget is like but what I do suggest is that you get the is/b and shine. You can use both together for a wonderful mix. Please remember that you have to use each separately and get to know how well they work for you before using them together. Your gc was issued!