# Hello, newbie here! Pheromones to Spice Up 5/yr Relationship. 29/F/Maryland **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 27, 2015, 9:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-newbie-here-pheromones-to-spice-up-5-yr-relationship-29-f-maryland/64264 "2015-04-27T21:05:42Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Jessibel678](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ecd19e/32.png) [@Jessibel678](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jessibel678)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2015, 9:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-newbie-here-pheromones-to-spice-up-5-yr-relationship-29-f-maryland/64264/1 "2015-04-27T21:05:42Z")
Hello I’m Jess and I’m a 29 year old female from ocean city Maryland. Basically I’m trying to get my boyfriend of five years to get back to how we were in the beginning of our relationship, if you know what I mean. :o any suggestions on which would work best for that? Thanks!! ---
**Author:** ![Fiddler17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/ea5d25/32.png) [@Fiddler17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fiddler17)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2015, 9:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-newbie-here-pheromones-to-spice-up-5-yr-relationship-29-f-maryland/64264/2 "2015-04-27T21:21:20Z")
Hello and welcome to Pherotalk! I’m glad to see you’ve found us, and although I have no experience using female [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/), I CAN point you to the Women’s section of this forum, where you will be able to receive lots of helpful advice. Also, if you could explain what you meant by “how we were in the beginning of our relationship” and where you two are now, we can better recommend products to you. Also, it would help if you described your personality type. Pheromones are like clothes, one size doesn’t fit all! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![pudleduk](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pudleduk/32/2302_2.png) [@pudleduk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pudleduk)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2015, 9:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-newbie-here-pheromones-to-spice-up-5-yr-relationship-29-f-maryland/64264/3 "2015-04-27T21:24:44Z")
Hi Jessiebel, Welcome to the pheromonetalk forum! You’re sure to find some great products here to help get you two dialed back in. The [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) mixes offered by AD will give you a confident and sexy vibe. IO is a playful mix that will make you both chatty, able to talk for hours. IH has a similar effect, but this one will bring out you most intimate secrets. IShine is another great mix, that will make for a happy, bubbly atmosphere, and will cast you in that rockstar light! You should consider picking up the introductory pack of these, and this way you can try each out and see how they might work for your situation. All the products are of great quality and smell truly wonderful. Also take a few moments to check out the journals that the members have posted here; they are a great read, and you can learn a lot of info from the experiences the have logged. Again, welcome to the forum, I look forward to hearing more from you! pudleudk ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2015, 8:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-newbie-here-pheromones-to-spice-up-5-yr-relationship-29-f-maryland/64264/4 "2015-04-28T08:04:51Z")
Hello Jess! Welcome to PheromoneTalk! 🙂 How did you found us? 🙂 Anyway, pudleduk just presented to you the different mones for ladies and their effects. But I’ll press for what the Fiddler urges you, does the spicing up touches the sex life only?Does it simply deals only with the communication and openness concerns of an intimate relationship? Or both? Well, since your initial post qualifies your for the $25 Intro GC, I just dropped it into your email. Kindly check your inbox and spam folders to retrieve and use the code. Happy pheroing! 🙂 ======== _ **Disclosure:** I’ve edited your thread title from **“Hello, newbie here!”** to **“Hello, newbie here! Pheromones to Spice Up 5/yr Relationship. 29/F/Maryland”** for topic clarity and forum readability. It’ll also generate more “reads” to your thread. If you want to opt-out simply let me know. Thank you!_ ---
**Author:** ![TheAttractor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theattractor/32/575_2.png) [@TheAttractor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheAttractor)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2015, 5:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-newbie-here-pheromones-to-spice-up-5-yr-relationship-29-f-maryland/64264/5 "2015-04-28T17:44:49Z")
> [@Jessibel678](#): > > I’m trying to get my boyfriend of five years to get back to how we were in the beginning of our relationship, if you know what I mean. Dee A is right. You may want to clarify what exactly from the “beginning of the relationship” you’re looking to bring back. It seems like most relationships start out in one of these three forms: 1. Hyper-sexual, where you’re finding it impossible to keep your clothes on and your hands off each other, and having sex on every flat surface you find. 2. Hyper-affectionate, where you’re acting very lovey-dovey, with him stroking your hair, you stroking his chest, and just can’t stop hugging and cuddling. 3. Hyper-bonding, where sex and all that goes with it isn’t a high priority, but you’re spending days on end together, just talking, and exploring the world. Which one did your relationship start out as? Answer that, then pick the pheromones accordingly. ---
**Author:** ![Fiddler17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/ea5d25/32.png) [@Fiddler17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fiddler17)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2015, 7:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-newbie-here-pheromones-to-spice-up-5-yr-relationship-29-f-maryland/64264/6 "2015-04-28T19:04:35Z")
Excellent post, Attractor! Like he said, you must choose [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) based on the desired effects. Pheromones are like clothes, different types give off different vibes. If, for example, I wanted to seem approachable, I wouldn’t douse myself in sex pheromones like androstenone. I would use something like alpha androstenol (the active ingredient in “Instant Openness” by Androtics) In the same way, if I wanted to spice up my sex life, I wouldn’t put on Puppy Love. I would put on MX353 or TUTH. Of course, the mones I just named are for men. You would use their female counterparts. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2015, 8:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-newbie-here-pheromones-to-spice-up-5-yr-relationship-29-f-maryland/64264/7 "2015-10-06T08:20:41Z")
What’s up in Maryland now Jess? I see you’ve already placed an order and used your GC. Hope you received it fine and now already kicking ass on helping you up with almost everything. 🙂. Don’t forget to share your test results my friend. You can create your own journal [here](https://pheromonetalk.com/c/women-s-journals/23) to keep notes of your dosages and usages, plus its different effects, including those you consider a “failure”. Journal helps a lot. Its your own phero time machine. For further questions, you can also create your own help-seeking thread [here](https://pheromonetalk.com/c/women-s-pheromone-advice-tips-and-tricks/46). Expert [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) users usually browse this area. 🙂 Also, please drop a feedback here or via PM about how the shipping goes for you. Thanks! Chat soon! ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2015, 2:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-newbie-here-pheromones-to-spice-up-5-yr-relationship-29-f-maryland/64264/8 "2015-10-06T14:43:19Z")
Hello Jess, Since you already made an order I suggest reading all the new stickies and guides and maybe do some research so you have an idea of what each product does and think about what you will be using and trying to achieve. Also it would be nice to see you start a journal we can follow. Good Luck ---
**Author:** ![Lillian](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lillian/32/1269_2.png) [@Lillian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lillian)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2015, 9:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-newbie-here-pheromones-to-spice-up-5-yr-relationship-29-f-maryland/64264/9 "2015-10-06T21:33:37Z")
Welcome to the forum Jess, I see the gents have you well taken care of and DEEA has been able to assist you with your order. I’m simply stopping by to say hello and ask you to have a kick around the forum and eventually settle in the women’s section to hopefully start a journal to track your pheromone results. I’m rather confident that however you may want some aspects of the beginning of your relationship, you’ll be able to get some of that with these, but no need to take my word for it 😉