# Hello newbie need some advice **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 31, 2010, 10:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-newbie-need-some-advice/41267 "2010-08-31T22:38:24Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![cantzme](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/97f17d/32.png) [@cantzme](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cantzme)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2010, 10:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-newbie-need-some-advice/41267/1 "2010-08-31T22:38:24Z")
Hello everyone, I was about to make an order to try some mixes out and I thought I would consult with some of you here before I do. I am 24 yrs old and I am currently going through a divorce, I’ve been married for 5 yrs plus 2 of going out with my ex. So needless to say I have been out of the dating “game” for a while. I am a shy person at first when I meet people and I know that mones are not going to be a magic potion, but I would like to have some edge on my competition, I am also going to start going out and meeting new people since many of the friends that I had were through my ex and my marriage and these people are kind of taking her side, which is fine since I am willing to start from scratch. So considering my situation I would like to hear from some of you what I should start out with. Thanks -c ---
**Author:** ![TheBoogieMan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theboogieman/32/1136_2.png) [@TheBoogieMan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheBoogieMan)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2010, 11:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-newbie-need-some-advice/41267/2 "2010-08-31T23:04:21Z")
Welcome to the forum. First of all let me say that I’m sorry to hear about your situation and I wish you the best of luck. Good to see that you still have a positive attitude about the situation though. Now as for my recommendations, I would suggest Ammo, IS, and IO. Ammunition is a great attraction builder using sexual aspects which are well buffered by socials. Instant Shine is basically a “feel-good” pheromone. It will make people feel good just to be around you and can also help to intensify attraction. It’s a great addition to any mix. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) tends to make people more chatty and can serve as an icebreaker. TUTH, IG, IH, and IJ are all great as well and could serve you well but the three I mentioned would give you a pretty solid foundation. Good luck and feel free to ask any questions (just make sure to take advantage of the search function first). ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2010, 12:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-newbie-need-some-advice/41267/3 "2010-09-01T00:33:08Z")
Welcome to the forum. Both ih and io will help to stimulate conversations and build rapport with people. IG gives a calm, cultured, masculine aura that is also helpful in establishing trust and comfort with people. You may wish to put these high on your list. ---
**Author:** ![cantzme](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/97f17d/32.png) [@cantzme](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cantzme)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2010, 4:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-newbie-need-some-advice/41267/4 "2010-09-01T16:09:31Z")
Thanks everyone for your welcome and helpful answers! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2010, 5:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-newbie-need-some-advice/41267/5 "2010-09-01T17:33:26Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Cantzme! Divorce is an unpleasant situation and sometimes it can get ugly especially if there are kids involved. I hope that things work out as smoothly and civil as it can and I pray that you and your wife will one day reconcile your differences and even if you do not end up getting back together but have a relationship where you can help each other. With that said, you already received some off the chart advice from my team and the amazing Steve O. I just wanted to do what I do best which is give you some warm words. Your gc was issued. 😃