# Hello Phero experts. Looking forward to learning from you... **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 20, 2011, 12:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-phero-experts-looking-forward-to-learning-from-you/50821 "2011-06-20T00:35:21Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Austinn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b5e925/32.png) [@Austinn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Austinn)\ **Post date:** [June 20, 2011, 12:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-phero-experts-looking-forward-to-learning-from-you/50821/1 "2011-06-20T00:35:21Z")
Hi all. Quick note to say hello and to say a bit about my interests. I’m a 40 something married male trying to save a troubled marriage. I plan to write a separate post to explain the challenges I have with my wife and marriage and ask for some expert advice. New to [pheromone](https://a314.com/) experimentation as of about 6 weeks ago. I see huge potential in learning the ins and outs of the phero products available and look forward to learning from you all. Austinn ---
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [June 20, 2011, 2:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-phero-experts-looking-forward-to-learning-from-you/50821/2 "2011-06-20T02:04:18Z")
> [@Austinn](#): > > Hi all. > > Quick note to say hello and to say a bit about my interests. > > I’m a 40 something married male trying to save a troubled marriage. I plan to write a separate post to explain the challenges I have with my wife and marriage and ask for some expert advice. > > New to pheromone experimentation as of about 6 weeks ago. I see huge potential in learning the ins and outs of the phero products available and look forward to learning from you all. > > Austinn Hey Austinn and welcome to Pherotalk! For marriage trouble, I would suggest A314 + [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) + IH. A314: you are that alpha male that is a provider and a responsible man. Ammo: you are alpha AND sexy. Sexy and NOT sexual. This might help you spark the “attraction” switch again IH: more connection and bond between both of you. This will help her feel “okay” being with you and having an intimate conversation Tell us what you picked! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 20, 2011, 11:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-phero-experts-looking-forward-to-learning-from-you/50821/3 "2011-06-20T23:13:46Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Austinn! I am sorry to hear that you are having difficulties in your marriage. [Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) are not magic nor can they fix problems in your marriage and we are not going to give you that impression. These products can assist in communication and getting the both of you to talk more , be more open so you can work things out but not fix issues. There are many married men and women on this forum, many whom pheromones and this forum has assisted with their marriages. Please tell us about your personality and how you got to know about this site so I can issue you $25 gc and recommend some products. ---
**Author:** ![Boudicca](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/boudicca/32/5171_2.png) [@Boudicca](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Boudicca)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2011, 12:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-phero-experts-looking-forward-to-learning-from-you/50821/4 "2011-06-21T00:34:07Z")
Hi there! I have to say I agree with Mickaelia - pheromones aren’t magic. They won’t solve all your problems. They WILL grease the skids, provided you’re willing to follow through on the subliminal message they send - “be congruent,” as the most experienced users say. But the work is still up to you. Still and all, welcome - you may just find that greasing the skids is exactly what you need!