# hello phero...friends **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 27, 2007, 2:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-phero-friends/6955 "2007-11-27T02:33:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![pherocurious](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9de053/32.png) [@pherocurious](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pherocurious)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2007, 2:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-phero-friends/6955/1 "2007-11-27T02:33:10Z")
hey everybody! my name is Kelly, and i’m a 20 yr old student in Chicago. I found this forum today and it’s a little overwhelming :o but… i’m just so intrigued! See, i don’t even really wear fragrances, but about a year ago, my sister got married (i know the two may seem unrelated, but stay with me - i promise it gets better!). For her bachelorette party, we did this whole… shall we say “personal pleasure” party? It was really fun, and I ended up bying a product called Pure Instinct. It smelled really good, and actually sort of mixed with my own body scents over time - my sister and i each got a bottle, but when we wore it, it smelled totally different on her than on me. cool, huh? Anyway, it said it had pheromones and stuff in it, and i didn’t really know whether that was true, or if it even had an effect. But i did feel good when i wore it, and even the thought of extra-sexy vibes gave me a confidence boost. Unfortunately, I spilled the whole thing one day, and that was sort of the end. But today i went online to try and find some of it to get again. As i was looking for it, i ran across all sorts of other “pheromone” products, and reviews saying that some were legit and others were not. Finally I stumbled upon this forum, which seems to be the most helpful. From what I’ve gathered (or rather, been completely unable to gather), Pure Instinct isn’t really concerned with establishing itself as a legit pheromone product, so i’m guessing it’s not. If anyone knows, i’d be curious. Regardless, my interest is definitely piqued in actual [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) now. But i have no idea where to start! As far as what i’m looking for… i dont really know. I am a confident girl in most ways - I know that i’m smart and funny, and people have always opened up to me. I’ve often been told that I have a good aura or that I’m really approachable - which is often evidenced by the fact that strangers talk to me all the time for no reason. The thing i’m NOT at all confident about is being sexually attractive, or even pretty. I sort of assume that men won’t be physically attracted to me, so even when I have a great rapport with someone, I always end up giving off friend vibes. I don’t think i’m really looking to get into a relationship right now, but… i think i just want to feel sexy. And I want to get out of the friend habit. I want to stop assuming that i’m not physically attractive. Now perhaps these issues would be better solved by a therapist than pheromones, but… 🙄 As for more practical issues: where do i start? Instant Sexiness sounds kind of neat. I like the sound of Instant Shine, too, but it seems like it might be geared more toward men than women, what with the whole “young fit man” vibe. Also, should i probably get a fragrance to wear over it? From the sounds of some posts, it seems like these can be smelly… Should I go ahead and get the Pure Instinct because i like the fragrance? Or should i avoid it in case it actually does have some pheromones and i don’t know how they will interact with other products? Yikes. Sorry for the excessively long first post. Like i said - its all so intriguing, and a lot of information to absorb at once. Any advice would be much appreciated! ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2007, 2:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-phero-friends/6955/2 "2007-11-27T02:43:57Z")
Welcome. Isex and Ishine are both popular products. You might consider the copulin product EOW from love-scent also. Lust after me is an androtics product with copulins that you might also want to consider. Some ladies should be along soon with first-hand advice. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2007, 2:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-phero-friends/6955/3 "2007-11-27T02:50:12Z")
Hi Kelly Welcome to the forum 🙂 Oh lord Pure Instinct was my first [pheromone product](https://a314.com/shop/) and I discovered it the same way as you. (well just about) Went to a pleasure party. I actually like the product and I do believe it has some nols in it but its not strong at all. Could be I am just fond of it because it was the first. 😃 I think you will enjoy the products here. Instant sexiness A sounds like the perfect place for you to start. Instant Shine is one of the womens favorites even though its say “for men” In some instances I think the ladies like it more then the guys. You may want to take a look at Lust After Me. Just keep in mind its a custom product and will make your order take a little longer. Its Androtics big copulin product. There is more info on that in the ladies section in the sticky posts. > [@](#): > > Also, should i probably get a fragrance to wear over it? From the sounds of some posts, it seems like these can be smelly… Should I go ahead and get the Pure Instinct because i like the fragrance? Or should i avoid it in case it actually does have some pheromones and i don’t know how they will interact with other products? > Yikes. Sorry for the excessively long first post. Like i said - its all so intriguing, and a lot of information to absorb at once. Any advice would be much appreciated! Some of the products have a underlieing mone smell. You can wear your perfume with them as a cover if you want to. You can also wear them without cover. Even though you may be able to smell the mones others will not recognize them as such. It will effect there subconsious and to them it smells good. I think EOW is a bit much for you right now. You mention your just wanting to feel sexy and not looking for a relationship. Its a good product but stinks to high heaven. You may want to give it a try later on if you find you enjoy using mones. If you have any questions just ask. We look forward to your participation. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![pherocurious](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9de053/32.png) [@pherocurious](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pherocurious)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2007, 2:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-phero-friends/6955/4 "2007-11-27T02:59:12Z")
hmm, well - as a poor college kid, with the options of Instant Sexiness, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), Lust After Me or EOW, what should I do? I think ii’m still a little skeptical about the whole thing, so i’d like to start with one and go from there ---
**Author:** ![DrZorters](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e47c2d/32.png) [@DrZorters](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DrZorters)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2007, 2:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-phero-friends/6955/5 "2007-11-27T02:59:43Z")
Welcome to the Forum Curious! You sound like you have a very well rounded personality. [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) would be a good choice. Spend the rest of your money on some sexy clothes and have someone at a high end department store show you how to apply the right make up products. You will be amazed at the different look you can obtain. DrZorters. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2007, 3:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-phero-friends/6955/6 "2007-11-27T03:01:24Z")
Then I would suggest [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) Its fondly called Angelina Jolie in a bottle by alot of the girls here. Strong, attracting, confident, sexy as hell and makes you feel that way to. 😉 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2007, 3:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-phero-friends/6955/7 "2007-11-27T03:11:54Z")
Hey Kelly, welcome to the forum. I’m with Tisha and DrZorters, Instant Sexiness is your First choice, and SteveO should be by soon to send you out a $15.00 Gift Certificate, which will help out with the cost. As you can afford, I would next suggest the [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), and then the Lust After Me. Again welcome aboard! You have found the best source on the net for pheromone info (in my opinion), and an absolutely terrific group of men and women who are more than willing to help you navigate through the magical world of pheros. ---
**Author:** ![pherocurious](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9de053/32.png) [@pherocurious](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pherocurious)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2007, 3:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-phero-friends/6955/8 "2007-11-27T03:24:47Z")
alright then - [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) it is! any opinion about whether Pure Instinct will mess with it? man, i’m so impatient! i want to order it now ☹ but no! i will be good, and wait for my gift certificate. then the experimenting shall commence. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2007, 9:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-phero-friends/6955/9 "2007-11-27T09:55:22Z")
Nope Pure instinct wont hurt it a bit. Since its mostly very light nols it would sort a be like wearing IO and Isex together. Of course IO is much stronger. I think you should give them a try together. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 8:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-phero-friends/6955/10 "2007-11-29T20:08:20Z")
It’s tough being a poor college student! I’ve been there and done that. I get calls everyday from the student loan people wondering where the money is, even though I still go to school and not entitled to pay it off yet. So with that in mind I am sending you a GC to help you study more boys and thus doing better in school, so you can get a better job, and pay off those loans. Welcome!