# Hello PheroFriends **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 25, 2007, 2:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pherofriends/7740 "2007-12-25T02:37:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![alexmwhite](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/8797f3/32.png) [@alexmwhite](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/alexmwhite)\ **Post date:** [December 25, 2007, 2:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pherofriends/7740/1 "2007-12-25T02:37:10Z")
Hello! My name is Alex. I am a 21 year old from Colorado, and attend college in Montana. I am in a great relationship with the most beautiful redheaded woman; we have been together for over two and a half years and I am sure she is the one. When we began our relationship, I was admittedly somewhat of a prude. She quickly, you could say, awakened my sexual side. It was hard for me to physically keep up with her! We have spent the majority of our time together in a long distance relationship, as she attends school in Washington. It has been difficult, but completely worth it. I have noticed a lack of arousal during our time together lately. I realize a great deal of this is due to stress, anxiety, and sleep problems for her. I have done my best to counter this with romantic dinners, massages, being more sensitive, etcetera. However, I still need a little help. I impulsively bought Pherlure, and I wish I would have waited a little longer to stumble across this great forum. I am planning on purchasing both “[Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/)” and “Turn Up the Heat”, but still looking for everyone’s $0.02. Thanks everyone, and happy holidays! P.S. She goes back to school on the fifth, so the quicker the advice, the better! ---
**Author:** ![phenix.black](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phenix.black/32/2462_2.png) [@phenix.black](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/phenix.black)\ **Post date:** [December 25, 2007, 9:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pherofriends/7740/2 "2007-12-25T09:27:13Z")
welcome to this wonderfull community i am still new so i cant really give advice but when ppl see this u will get some great advice from everyone welcome to our secret community…shhhhh ---
**Author:** ![boss141](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bbce88/32.png) [@boss141](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/boss141)\ **Post date:** [December 25, 2007, 9:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pherofriends/7740/3 "2007-12-25T09:32:32Z")
Hey Alex, I think you pretty much nailed it with what you might need. I would say use the IFM and [Turn Up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) to relax her and get that arousal back into her. Also you could substitute Turn Up the Heat for Ammo if you want a good all in one pheromone that would benefit you even when your in school. Also remember that pheromones wont do all the work for you, you still have to do the work if you want your relationship back to that great level it once was. Also consider getting Instant Honesty if you plan on having a deep conversation with her. Instant Honesty will open her up more and allow her to communicate better. I have noticed that girls tend to be a better mood the more you allow them to talk, even if its about nothing important. Good luck with your situation Alex ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [December 25, 2007, 1:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pherofriends/7740/4 "2007-12-25T13:47:35Z")
Welcome Alex. Boss gave good advice. He transposed a couple of words in his third sentence though. A heart to heart talk may be good, and IH may help. Long distance relationships can present unique challenges. If budget is an issue, ih, tuth, ammo and ifm are all available in small and relatively inexpensive to-go sizes so you can try them before you make a laarger investment. Wishing you and your lady a merry Christmas, ---
**Author:** ![alexmwhite](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/8797f3/32.png) [@alexmwhite](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/alexmwhite)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2007, 7:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pherofriends/7740/5 "2007-12-26T07:34:33Z")
Thank you very much for the considerate feedback! I am going to purchase the ‘travel size’ of Ammo, [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/), and Turn Up the Heat. I hope to get the gift certificate soon so I can place my order. Three more questions: 1. Has anyone experienced a return of Pherlure? Do they give a full refund as promised? 2. What have been some results/experiences of mixing Instant Female Magic with Turn Up the Heat? \*]How many ‘uses’ does the on-the-go bottles last? Thanks again! ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2007, 2:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pherofriends/7740/6 "2007-12-26T14:28:59Z")
1 - A forum search will turn up a number of user experiences with Pherlure. Draw your own conclusions. 2 - Some people report success with this mix. My standard base contains both Androstenone (as in Turn Up The Heat) and Androstadienone (as in Instant Female Magic). 3 - There are 40 sprays in a to go bottle. Each spray is 0.83 of one of the sprays from a regular sized Androtics bottle. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [December 27, 2007, 1:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pherofriends/7740/7 "2007-12-27T01:24:12Z")
Red Head huh? Yeah they can wear you out. Tater was in love with a red head once, damn near killed the guy. He’s never been the same ever since. I wanted to welcome you to the forum and say you have indeed found a secret world as phenix.black has put it. It’s an incredible journey and you my friend have begun. To welcome you I am sending out your email GC tonight. ---
**Author:** ![Fra\_Septimus](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fra_septimus/32/692_2.png) [@Fra\_Septimus](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fra_Septimus)\ **Post date:** [December 27, 2007, 1:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pherofriends/7740/8 "2007-12-27T01:27:27Z")
Welcome, Alex! Happy New Year! This is a fun place full of helpful people. SteveO has apready graced you with the GC, so all I can add is good luck with your romantic plans! ---
**Author:** ![alexmwhite](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/8797f3/32.png) [@alexmwhite](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/alexmwhite)\ **Post date:** [December 27, 2007, 1:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pherofriends/7740/9 "2007-12-27T01:28:57Z")
Speaking of redheads again… Are there any known [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) that particularly stimulate redheads? Dangerous, but I am still willing to try! ---
**Author:** ![Fra\_Septimus](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fra_septimus/32/692_2.png) [@Fra\_Septimus](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fra_Septimus)\ **Post date:** [December 27, 2007, 1:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pherofriends/7740/10 "2007-12-27T01:35:34Z")
Try a search. I recall seeing something on that somewhere in here… ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2007, 6:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pherofriends/7740/11 "2007-12-28T06:50:44Z")
> [@mewgirl](#): > > Hey all you guys who are saying “have a talk” and “this might help your relationship.” He never said his relationship was suffering, he said she wasn’t getting arounsed as easily as she used to. So it doesn’t make a lot of sense to talk about how to make the relationship better, since that wasn’t what hi problem was. Interesting that you came into a thread that is meant to support a fellow forum user accusing the users concerned enough to help, of not reading alexmwhite’s OP. Have you yourself actually read it? I snipped the part where alex says he is in a relationship and further in the post where he says that, well heck you can read it for yourself. > [@alexmwhite](#): > > I am in a great relationship… > > …I have noticed a lack of arousal during our time together lately. I realize a great deal of this is due to stress, anxiety, and sleep problems for her. I have done my best to counter this with romantic dinners, massages, being more sensitive, etcetera. However, I still need a little help… Clearly mewgirl alexmwhite is asking for help and upon great sound advice given by other forum members he thanks them. I’m concerned that you are so quick to point out what has, or has not been said or done to help that you completely missed the point yourself. The part where you say: > [@mewgirl](#): > > Hey all you guys who are saying “have a talk” and “this might help your relationship.”… must be refering to this: > [@boss141](#): > > …Instant Honesty will open her up more and allow her to communicate better. I have noticed that girls tend to be a better mood the more you allow them to talk, even if its about nothing important. Good luck with your situation Alex It’s clearly not a case of “all you guys” yet boss141 who is giving solid advice for great communication which means great relationship. I thought it was such good advice I gave him rep points for it. You also go onto further communicate how pheromones, well heck just read it bellow: > [@mewgirl](#): > > There is a thread discussing this, pheromones do not have different effects on people who look different, not even when you’re talking about something that some people believe have biological differences like black vs. white vs. Indian. So it definitely will not change things based on the color of her hair! But they will affect people differently based on cultural differences, and we are not sure if this applies to cultural differences within the United States (such as geeks vs. sterotypical cheerleaders). My personal theory is that in addition to cultural, a pheromone will affect a person with a different personality differently (for instance, a secretive person who does not get close to anyone and is not close to you will not be affected by Instant Honesty as much as someone who already tells you most everything about themselves anyway IMO). This is based on logical theory rather then personal experience, however people who do have personal experience seem to agree. Reading your post I would come to the conclusion that you are an authority on pheromones with sources to cite. Please do as I am very intrigued on where you garner your knowledge that pheromones have no different effects on different races. I would be very interested in reading that study as everything that I have come to understand claims the opposite. I am not trying to be attacking of you here, but your post in this thread leaves me bewildered to put it mildly. 😕 ---
**Author:** ![z414a4d](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/z414a4d/32/1299_2.png) [@z414a4d](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/z414a4d)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2007, 2:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pherofriends/7740/12 "2007-12-28T14:36:50Z")
Greetings Alex! Sorry for such a late reply to your post! Welcome to the boards! I also impulsivly purchased some Pherlure…Im glad I came across Androtics immediatly following that incident though 🙂 This is a great forum with the most friendly people out there. Please dont hesitate to ask any further questions about any products and effects. If you have an order currently being processed, keep in mind all inquiries goto [APRshipping@gmail.com](mailto:APRshipping@gmail.com) 🙂 Take care bud! Welcome! - Andrew