# Hello. Pheromones for getting over shyness and talking to girls **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 18, 2009, 6:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-for-getting-over-shyness-and-talking-to-girls/31667 "2009-08-18T18:58:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![graecoboy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/9fc29f/32.png) [@graecoboy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/graecoboy)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 6:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-for-getting-over-shyness-and-talking-to-girls/31667/1 "2009-08-18T18:58:05Z")
hi,I heard about [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) from an ad. i did google search and landed here.i really want to try pheromones as i am a little on the fatter side(to tell the truth), and can’t, as the saying goes, score chicks. i don’t think its much to do with fat or slim because when i was in school i didnt have any girlfriends. i am shy, and i dont know what to talk with girls. when i have the oppurtunity i just dont know what to say to her. how to start the conversation. so i just sit there thinking of something to start the conv. when i finally stand to go to her, i get scared and walk near to her and then away. i just cant make myself go there and talk.i dont know if your pheromones can really help me with my problem.but i’d be really happy if you could reply to me. ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 7:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-for-getting-over-shyness-and-talking-to-girls/31667/2 "2009-08-18T19:33:54Z")
Hi there G, Welcome to the forum! Glad to have you on board 🙂 Phero’s are great because they can boost so many other areas of you life than most people think, they aren’t just for sex and attraction. They do work, but they aren’t a magic potion, you still have to act congruently with the vibe you send out, but they do give you that boost and confidence to allow you to do that 🙂 It sounds like you need a bit of a confidence boost? I’d suggest you have a look at Instant Shine. It’s a great all rounder that lifts your mood as well as the mood of those around you, and it boosts your confidence. If you want to give conversation a bit of a boost as well then I’d suggest you try [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). It’s great for making you and those around you more comfortable and chatty. With IS and IO you are alot more likely to get approached, and you’ll also feel alot more confident about approaching others 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 7:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-for-getting-over-shyness-and-talking-to-girls/31667/3 "2009-08-18T19:43:01Z")
I agree with the same social recommendations as Xiphoid, IO and IH are great and really help open the doors. I’m also an introvert/shy guy and for me products with -none (Androstenone) REALLY help me be a little bit more confident and a tad bit more aggressive, so there’s hope with pheromones. However, I suggest also trying to conquer your approach anxiety by other means too, like self help books and/or maybe seeking a counselor if it’s really bad. Not that it’s not normal, but a little help from professionals also helps. Again, only if it’s real bad. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 10:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-for-getting-over-shyness-and-talking-to-girls/31667/4 "2009-08-18T22:46:00Z")
Hi and welcome, and thanks for the info! I’ll have to “third” those great recommendations!! [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Shine are an absolute must for the social issues! However, youn should also seriously consider Ammo. It is a great all around product that will give both your sex appeal and confidence a boost, and can be worn comfortable in any environment. ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 10:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-for-getting-over-shyness-and-talking-to-girls/31667/5 "2009-08-18T22:54:22Z")
Welcome to the forums, Graecoboy. I’m an overweight guy myself, and shy. So I know exactly where you’re coming from. Mikotorocks has good advice for you, and also I’d recommend going to the library and getting books on how to start/maintain a conversation. Edward De Bono’s How To Be More Interesting is a great one. If you know that you are interesting conversationally, it’ll improve your interactions hugely. And remember: girls like guys as much as guys like girls. It’s perfectly OK to approach a woman and show interest in her. ---
**Author:** ![graecoboy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/9fc29f/32.png) [@graecoboy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/graecoboy)\ **Post date:** [August 19, 2009, 9:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-for-getting-over-shyness-and-talking-to-girls/31667/6 "2009-08-19T09:28:17Z")
thanks everyone for the great advices.No, i dont have approach anxiety or anything serious. i just dont feel that the girl ill talk to will reply positively to me. i feel that instead of making a fool of myself, i should probably just go away. i’m “not confident”.Edward De Bono’s How To Be More Interesting. i’ll find it and read it. thanks. i think this is the thing i need.ill place an order of all the testers of the names you have given, when i get my gift certificate:instant honestyinstant openessammo ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [August 19, 2009, 9:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-for-getting-over-shyness-and-talking-to-girls/31667/7 "2009-08-19T09:50:15Z")
Weclome Graecoboy, you’ve got some great suggestions here. Remember pheromones will only go so far. I think it’s important that you trim down. I can recommend the new [Apollo Program](http://www.apollo-program.com/). I also suggest you study master pick up artists such as Venusian Arts, David DeAngelo, Real Social Dynamics. ---
**Author:** ![sherozai](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/77aa72/32.png) [@sherozai](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sherozai)\ **Post date:** [August 19, 2009, 11:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-for-getting-over-shyness-and-talking-to-girls/31667/8 "2009-08-19T11:00:59Z")
> [@graecoboy](#): > > thanks everyone for the great advices.No, i dont have approach anxiety or anything serious. i just dont feel that the girl ill talk to will reply positively to me. i feel that instead of making a fool of myself, i should probably just go away. i’m “not confident”.Edward De Bono’s How To Be More Interesting. i’ll find it and read it. thanks. i think this is the thing i need.ill place an order of all the testers of the names you have given, when i get my gift certificate:instant honestyinstant openessammo hey tezza, could you post a link to that great book you have suggested in pdf format. or perhaps a torrent. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2009, 5:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-for-getting-over-shyness-and-talking-to-girls/31667/9 "2009-08-20T17:08:39Z")
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