# Hello. Pheromones for Socializing, Confidence, & Salvaging/Finding New Romance. F/42 **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 19, 2015, 8:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-for-socializing-confidence-salvaging-finding-new-romance-f-42/64218 "2015-04-19T20:58:32Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![melissaschultz6](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ba8739/32.png) [@melissaschultz6](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/melissaschultz6)\ **Post date:** [April 19, 2015, 8:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-for-socializing-confidence-salvaging-finding-new-romance-f-42/64218/1 "2015-04-19T20:58:32Z")
Hi! My name is Melissa and I am 42 years old. I have always been interested and a believer in [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). However, there are just too many unreliable and shady pheromones products out there and I really never knew where to start. I found this site and I’m very intrigued with the forum, members and products. I’m looking forward to giving it a try. One question I have is that it seems like everyone would have a little bit different type of pheromones. You know how sometimes you are just attracted to someone’s smell and another person can have the opposite effect. Do the pheromones mix with each individual’s scent? I am fairly shy and would like to be a little more outgoing and confident. I would also like to use it for romance. I work with this guy once or twice a week. We are friends and have been intimate for about a year and a half. Recently we have started drifting apart. I would like to get a deeper connection with him and make things more passionate and intense. I’m hoping to take the relationship to a new level. Or if for some reason it doesn’t work with him, I would like to attract a new partner. Please let me know what you think the best products would be for me to start with. I’m really excited and looking forward to this journey and joining this community! ---
**Author:** ![newmanager84](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/2acd7d/32.png) [@newmanager84](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/newmanager84)\ **Post date:** [April 19, 2015, 9:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-for-socializing-confidence-salvaging-finding-new-romance-f-42/64218/2 "2015-04-19T21:37:42Z")
hello melissa, welcome to the phero house. you should give pheros a try for yourself just to see what the fuss is all about. from what i can tell you ive had experiences of women telling me that my smell was the most amazing thing they have felt in life. to make it worse, a “bastard” would add to the mix something rather sexual or boyfriendish…as i did myself quite often. i sinned. one night in particular where a girl told me so, i was wearing these two molecules called p91 and p96. but its not all abouth that. based on your goals, therre is a wide variety of products to choose from. the instant line is a great place to start, and i think mones like instant shine in a mix with instant openness and/or something like [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) would do the trick. can mix according to your needs, noted that you may wear more sprays of a product because you want it to be prevalent over another one. i think you already qualify for GC, and feel you should take a look around this forum. its really amazing. read journals, posts, make yourself at home, ask if you have any questions or needs. again, welcome among us. peace ---
**Author:** ![pudleduk](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pudleduk/32/2302_2.png) [@pudleduk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pudleduk)\ **Post date:** [April 19, 2015, 9:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-for-socializing-confidence-salvaging-finding-new-romance-f-42/64218/3 "2015-04-19T21:39:19Z")
Hey Melissa, welcome to the pherotalk forum! I think you have it spot on concerning everyone having thier own special scent. Andronics Direct has some amazingly wonderful and effective products, but one of these might be a bit more effective on your best friend, where another would be complete dynamite on you personally. Look into some of the journal entries here, and you’ll find member’s own personal experiences complete with which products they used, and exactly how much was applied. If you have the means, check into getting the introductory kit [https://phera.com/](https://phera.com/) This will get you familiar with most of the common offerings right off quick. I’d suggest you take a look into Miss Dragon’s journal. [Miss Dragon's Journal! Yay!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/miss-dragons-journal-yay/58954) She has some great ideas and observations on pheromones, and her posts are a joy to read. If you are only looking to start off small, likely your best start may be the [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) sprays. Although I haven’t had any experience with these myself, I understand they are truly a wonderful scents with a great bang for your buck, (no pun intended). Again welcome to the forum, look forward to reading more from you! Pudleduk ---
**Author:** ![melissaschultz6](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ba8739/32.png) [@melissaschultz6](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/melissaschultz6)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2015, 9:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-for-socializing-confidence-salvaging-finding-new-romance-f-42/64218/4 "2015-04-20T21:45:27Z")
Thank you both so much for your reply and the information. I will definitely be looking around the forum and I will look at Miss Dragon’s Journal too. I am going to place an order today so I will keep you posted. ---
**Author:** ![newmanager84](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/2acd7d/32.png) [@newmanager84](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/newmanager84)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2015, 10:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-for-socializing-confidence-salvaging-finding-new-romance-f-42/64218/5 "2015-04-20T22:05:23Z")
way to go! 🙂 peace ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2015, 1:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-for-socializing-confidence-salvaging-finding-new-romance-f-42/64218/6 "2015-04-21T01:23:33Z")
Hello Melissa! Welcome to PheromoneTalk! 🙂 Im glad you chose us to be your pheromone journey’s partner. 🙂 We will try our best not to disappoint you. 🙂 I’ll recommend the Instant Female Wardrobe for you. I guess the IShine, IOpenness and IHonesty can deal with both Socials and Confidence, while the Isexiness’ is for attraction, sexy vibe and confidence too. Now, I’ve issued your $25 Intro GC to help you get started. Please check your email’s inbox and spam folders to retrieve and use the GC. 🙂 Happy pheroing! 🙂 ========== _ **Disclosure:** I’ve edited your thread title from **“Hello from the new girl”** to **“Hello. Pheromones for Socializing, Confidence, & Salvaging/Finding New Romance. F/42”** for topic clarity and forum readability. It’ll also generate more “reads” to your thread. If you want to opt-out simply let me know. Thank you!_ ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2015, 2:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-for-socializing-confidence-salvaging-finding-new-romance-f-42/64218/7 "2015-09-15T14:24:15Z")
Hi Melissa! I see you’ve already placed an order and used your GC. Hope you received it fine and now already helping you up with your initial objectives. 🙂. Don’t forget to share your test results my friend. You can create your own journal [here](https://pheromonetalk.com/c/women-s-journals/23) to keep notes of your dosages and usages, plus its different effects, including those you consider a “failure”. Journal helps a lot. Its your own phero time machine. For further questions, you can also create your own help-seeking thread [here](https://pheromonetalk.com/c/women-s-pheromone-advice-tips-and-tricks/46). Expert [pheromone](https://a314.com/) users usually browse this area. 🙂 Also, please drop a feedback here or via PM about how the shipping goes for you. Thanks! Chat soon! ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2015, 4:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-for-socializing-confidence-salvaging-finding-new-romance-f-42/64218/8 "2015-09-16T16:10:37Z")
Hi Melissa, Welcome to the site. So what did you order? Like everyone said start a journal and out your experiences there so we can continue to follow and help you out and best of luck to you. ---
**Author:** ![Spectrum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9fc29f/32.png) [@Spectrum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Spectrum)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2015, 5:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-for-socializing-confidence-salvaging-finding-new-romance-f-42/64218/9 "2015-09-16T17:41:57Z")
Hi welcome here.