# Hello! Pheromones to Break the Ice, Make me Approachable. M-Gay/32 **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 3, 2015, 6:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-break-the-ice-make-me-approachable-m-gay-32/65142 "2015-11-03T06:55:07Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 3
**Author:** ![HankBuddy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/f04885/32.png) [@HankBuddy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HankBuddy)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2015, 8:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-break-the-ice-make-me-approachable-m-gay-32/65142/3 "2015-11-03T08:26:03Z")
Hey Whatsupitsme! I’m also a gay man, 48, and I’ve had a chance to use pheromones in numerous settings. Like Soni said, to best assist you, tell us a bit more about yourself. For instance, what do you mean by breaking the barrier with men? Are you having trouble meeting them? Have you come out recently? Do you have a hard time going up to men and just talking to them? In what setting do you want to meet men? At work? At the bars? There are different products for different settings and purposes. Without bogging you down with too many products, I recommend Instant Shine, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), and Ammo, in that order. Instant Shine will uplift your mood and the mood of folks around you. This will help attract attention men to you. Instant Openness will get men talking to you. Ammo can be used with both Instant Shine and Instant Openness very successfully. Ammo will give you the slight sexual tension to hold men’s attention. Ammo can be used in both work and bar settings, so it’s a versatile product. (No pun intended!) There is a product called Mystery Boy. As of date, I haven’t experimented with it, so I can’t offer any comments about it. However, I’ve used Ammo, and it works fine with gay men, particularly if you want to attract guys 30 and up. If you use Ammo, I recommend getting it in regular strength. I currently have it in double strength, but it’s a tad bit too strong, which can intimidate some men. Not good! You can also read my **journal** ([An Older Gay Male Perspective](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-older-gay-male-perspective/64949)). I’ve been writing about my experiences with pheromones in both business and social settings. So let us know more specifics about your situation, and we can direct you to specific products to help you out. --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-break-the-ice-make-me-approachable-m-gay-32/65142)._