# Hello - Pheromones to Bring Back the Bedroom Spice and Happy Vibe for my Kids. F/40's

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**Created:** [January 17, 2017, 5:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-bring-back-the-bedroom-spice-and-happy-vibe-for-my-kids-f-40s/66898 "2017-01-17T17:05:42Z")\
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**Author:** ![Samalam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a183cd/32.png) [@Samalam](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Samalam)\
**Post date:** [January 17, 2017, 5:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-bring-back-the-bedroom-spice-and-happy-vibe-for-my-kids-f-40s/66898/1 "2017-01-17T17:05:42Z")

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Hello All,

I’ve been lurking and reading for a while and find all the posts very interesting and exciting. I think I have finally found the courage to make my first order.

I’m in my forties as is my partner and we are together 5 years and have lots of love and affection between us. The reason I am interested in [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) is to help spice up our sex life and communication.

**Communication**  
My partner is a very very quiet man. I mean extremely quiet. He barely says anything unless it’s about cars 🙂. Don’t get me wrong, he is a very happy man, just doesn’t talk much.

He will chat if I start a conversation but it won’t last long and he will tend not to start very many conversations, he isn’t like this with just me, he is the same with everyone (he’ll talk to me more than anyone), he actually sees no reason to talk much, if someone asks him a question he will answer fully (if it requires a full answer, if it can be answered with a yes or no then that’s all he will say, I feel sorry for people sometimes when they are left hanging! He will rarely ask a question back, he doesn’t seem to have learnt the art of conversation, his father who brought him up is the same.

It can be uncomfortable when we are in a social situation as he will just sit quietly amongst the group, if it’s us and just one other couple or one other person it’s worse as there are less people around to cover up the fact that he isn’t interacting at all. When he does talk it will be about something that interests him, which is fine as most people do this, and he gets very animated which is lovely to see, I just wish he could do it a bit more often and be a little bit more fun.

Sometimes I can give him a wide eyes look and he will realise he’s not interacting so will then make an effort but it’s like he just can’t think of anything to say and it peters out after a while, I’ve given suggestions such as to ask someone how their day was etc. etc., we do talk about his lack of social skills - which don’t bother him, he’s actually quite happy sitting in company and listening (or not), but I would like a little bit more conversation, especially at family dinner time with my daughter.

**Sex life**  
My partner was all over me at first and the desire he felt was palpable to me, but as can happen as time went on his amourous advances lessened, which is fine because who wants to be in the “honeymoon” phase forever 🙂. But our sex life has gone very downhill over the last couple of years (which I think is quite early into our relationship as we were only together 3 years at that stage) so we are now on a once a week, vanilla type of sex routine. I’ve spoken about it to him numerous times but it’s like he just doesn’t have the desire until he’s gone without for a while. I stopped initiating once and we didn’t have sex for 6 weeks, I was pulling my hair out, he didn’t even notice it had been 6 weeks until I told him later, during yet another talk. Now I’ve given up discussing it with him, but we are too young and I’m not prepared to give up my sex life for a long time… I do find myself moving in and out of a small depression when I think about it, generally feeling down in the dumps at least 2-3 times a week, I also don’t sleep very well thinking about it, I am so attracted to him that I am always feeling like having sex but it’s no fun when you have to initiate with your man and he’s doing it because sex is on offer rather than wanting it.

We hug and kiss and are very very affectionate with each other, I love him a lot and have no doubt at all of the strength of his love for me. I am always turned on at the sight of him, his body is lovely! But I don’t think or feel he is by me anymore unless he has had at least one day off work and a long lie in with no work the next day - he needs a lot of rest time and he is a very hard worker 😃.

He has gone from being very sensual and adventurous to standard missionary position, from exploring every inch of me to barely any exploration at all. On top of that he is also going soft during intercourse, which he says he isn’t bothered by as we can switch to doing something else and we both always get satisfied, (well for my physically away, emotionally not so much) and I don’t want to bring it up too much in case it starts to get him down despite that he is a super confident person. His lack of open desire is making my sex drive go down too so I’m trying to rescue it for both of us before we turn into a sexless couple.

He eats very healthily, take supplements and exercise and has recently given up smoking, he drinks very little, maybe a beer or two on his night off, if that.

So I’m looking to use pheromones that will put some fire into his loins again, and if possible help with losing his erection? I’m not looking for anything for him to use, I’ve no intention of telling him I’m using pheromones. And I’m also wondering what to use to help him become just a bit more sociable.

**Affects of Pheromones on Children.**  
This is where I am nervous or perhaps even a bit hopeful.

I have two children one of whom is disabled intellectually, my girl is 13 and my boy is 9 (he has the intellectual age of about 18 months - 2 years). My child’s disability can also add to the feelings of depression that I can experience, these aren’t deep depressions but rather sadness.

The Nervous Part: If I were to wear pheromones and the children were about, how would it affect them if at all. Should I not put any on until they are gone to bed?

The Hopeful Part: Is there a pheromone that I could wear that would impact on my boy positively, he is non-verbal but verbalises through babble and baby noises, he is a very happy and sociable little soul, but makes no eye-contact. I am wondering if there was a pheromone I could wear that would help him feel comfortable in making eye-contact and maybe even help him to try to “speak” or communicate a bit better, he doesn’t have any awareness of how to communicate his needs? Is this too far of a stretch to hope for??

Looking forward to getting any advice - should I make a separate thread with all of my questions above as I know this is just the introduction thread but I see others getting their advice here and being asked for more info if they haven’t posted enough, maybe I’ve posted too much 🙂

Looking forward to using the forum properly and interacting. I’ll be making my first purchase as soon as I’ve learnt what to use for my issues!

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**Author:** ![vynelle](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/41988e/32.png) [@vynelle](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/vynelle)\
**Post date:** [January 17, 2017, 6:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-bring-back-the-bedroom-spice-and-happy-vibe-for-my-kids-f-40s/66898/2 "2017-01-17T18:38:21Z")

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Hello! Let me begin by saying wow. I think this is by far one of the most detailed and interesting introduction Ive read. Thank you for sharing 🙂

Its always nice to have another female on board. I thought of saying something because I felt I could relate to some parts of your story. I have been with my partner for about 6 years now, and similar to you my interest in pheromones is to help spice up sex life and communication. Now its become so much more than that.

**With your special man** , I thought it sounds like you might want to explore IO (Instant Openness), to help with social situations and getting him to open up and talk more? IO definitely made myself and people around me chatty! CTTM (Come to talk me), for a less chatty but friendly and welcoming vibe. And I have also found that IH (Instant Honesty) paired with [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) is one of the most powerful combinations for deeper bonding. I have used this special combination to get my special man talking about the more difficult issues. These are good options for social, interacting and bonding.

In terms of sex life, I felt that I was pretty much in the same situation. “we are now on a once a week, vanilla type of sex routine.” Believe it or not, I’ve also spoken about it to him numerous times. So frustrating! I am so attracted to my partner as well but IM ALWAYS the one that’s initiating and hes just doing it because sex is on offer rather than wanting it. - its exactly the way you said it! on the dot - NO KIDDING! Omg its like you wrote the story and my feelings about my sex life. “I’m trying to rescue it for both of us before we turn into a sexless couple.” - THAT WAS EXACTLY HOW I FELT. Dang, now I feel a little bashful. But I felt kinda strangely comforted knowing Im not the only alien facing this situation, so thank you for sharing! Like seriously!

I dont know whats your situation like, so Im not trying to say anything specific but I just thought like heyyy maybe sharing my story might help you? or so I hope! 😛

**What Ive tried for Sex Life**  
What I can tell you is that Ive been using pheromones about 3 years now, and frankly it aint some magic potion. Does it help? Yes it does! But I still got to put in some work, like dragging my ass to workout, buying that new dress I know might catch his eyes, I do my hair, - I put more effort in my appearance. I think you get my drift. And then I pair these things with pheromones and bang! My sex life has gotten better. Hes gotten from okay lets go this once a week routine, to being more involved. He looks at me differently with Instant Sexiness A and B, and when I first started using Instant Sexiness A and B my sex life was good again :o These pheromones comes with that added sex appeal or so I think.

In all honesty, only recently in the past year we occasionally still get into that damp, - I think it might be because hes exposed to the same pheromones too long (Im not sure). But its definitely looking better before anything but I am looking forward to making it even better! Im also trying the new DHC and LAM oil now. Im hoping to turn up the heat even more in my sex life.

**When it comes to children** , Ive used them around my cousins, nieces and nephews. I don’t think there’s any adverse effects. Like using IO, also makes them super chatty. IH very honest. CTTM is a nice in between. I used Instant Sexiness A and B to a family gathering, some family people just avoid me. Mostly females actually, I think its cos they feel awkward. But definitely no bad juju. But just to be safe, I feel like maybe more people should comment on this.

**For your boy** \*\*,\*\* I think maybe IO can get him talking more. You might want to explore that. It got my quiet man chatty for sure. But maybe try a small bit first, because I have not read any cases of pheromones being used on children. And **JUST TO BE SAFE, please check with the nice people using the chat box on the androticsdirect main website okay?** 😉

\*\*\*All the best and let us know how it goes! I hope you manage to help your issues especially spice up your sex life with a little pheromone magic. 🆒

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**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\
**Post date:** [January 18, 2017, 2:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-bring-back-the-bedroom-spice-and-happy-vibe-for-my-kids-f-40s/66898/3 "2017-01-18T02:05:02Z")

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Hello and welcome to the forum!

Vynelle to the rescue!!!

I am not going to even try to add to this conversation for multiple reasons, the first of which I have the wrong plumbing lol!

Anyways - glad to see you here and good luck in your phero endeavors!

bosshank

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**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\
**Post date:** [January 18, 2017, 8:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-bring-back-the-bedroom-spice-and-happy-vibe-for-my-kids-f-40s/66898/4 "2017-01-18T08:22:46Z")

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Welcome to PheromoneTalk, Samalam!

This is the best intro so far in 2017. Thank you for trusting us. I assure you that we can offer some goods to help you.

Let’s start with the Instant Female Wardrobe for you. 🙂 That pack contains the best pheromones for a phero-adventure beginner. The IShine will certainly become a good mone around your boy and of course the entire family. It emits the happy, healthy vibe. I’m reading good reports about the IShine in oil so I will recommend you get some of that too. 🙂

IShine + ISexib with your husband will be a good start too to probe if he’s just tired from being workaholic or he needs some kind of inspiration to stiffen up. 🙂

And to help you with your first order, I dropped your intro GC worth $25 into your email. It’s ready for use. 🙂

Happy Pheroing! 🙂

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_ **Disclosure:** I’ve edited your thread title from **“Hello - first foray into Pheromones”** to **“Hello - Pheromones to Bring Back the Bedroom Spice and Happy Vibe for my Kids. F/40’s”** for topic clarity and forum readability. It’ll also generate more “reads” to your thread. If you want to opt-out simply let me know. Thank you!_

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**Author:** ![Samalam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a183cd/32.png) [@Samalam](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Samalam)\
**Post date:** [January 18, 2017, 3:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-bring-back-the-bedroom-spice-and-happy-vibe-for-my-kids-f-40s/66898/5 "2017-01-18T15:56:04Z")

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Hi Vynelle,

Thanks for the lovely welcome. And all the advice, that’s wonderful! Sorry to hear you are suffering the same as I am 🙂 I’ve been trawling the internet for a few years now trying to find something to give my man a boost in the libido department, needless to say he is now extremely healthy with all of the extra supplements he takes and our home smells wonderful from all of the essential oils dispersing everywhere - not that he has a clue to the real reasons behind it. I’m really hoping that the pheromones will do the trick, I’m extremely excited about it - I placed my order for the Female intro pack and I’ve been dreaming about it arriving for two nights now. No lie, I have had actual dreams while asleep rather than my usual daydreams!

While I’m sorry to hear you are experiencing the same issues as me I have to say I’m sooooo happy to have found someone else who understands, it’s not really a conversation you can have with friends and family. Your shared story has definitely helped…

I’m also very excited now to see how the IS affects my little boy, he just got home from school and as I as hugging him I was imagining what it might be like when I have some IS on 🙂

I’m not sure how long my order will take to get her as I’m not in the States but once it does and I start trying it out I will update everyone!!

> [@vynelle](#):
>
> Hello! Let me begin by saying wow. I think this is by far one of the most detailed and interesting introduction Ive read. Thank you for sharing 🙂
> 
> Its always nice to have another female on board. I thought of saying something because I felt I could relate to some parts of your story. I have been with my partner for about 6 years now, and similar to you my interest in pheromones is to help spice up sex life and communication. Now its become so much more than that.
> 
> **With your special man** , I thought it sounds like you might want to explore IO (Instant Openness), to help with social situations and getting him to open up and talk more? IO definitely made myself and people around me chatty! CTTM (Come to talk me), for a less chatty but friendly and welcoming vibe. And I have also found that IH (Instant Honesty) paired with Instant Openness is one of the most powerful combinations for deeper bonding. I have used this special combination to get my special man talking about the more difficult issues. These are good options for social, interacting and bonding.
> 
> In terms of sex life, I felt that I was pretty much in the same situation. “we are now on a once a week, vanilla type of sex routine.” Believe it or not, I’ve also spoken about it to him numerous times. So frustrating! I am so attracted to my partner as well but IM ALWAYS the one that’s initiating and hes just doing it because sex is on offer rather than wanting it. - its exactly the way you said it! on the dot - NO KIDDING! Omg its like you wrote the story and my feelings about my sex life. “I’m trying to rescue it for both of us before we turn into a sexless couple.” - THAT WAS EXACTLY HOW I FELT. Dang, now I feel a little bashful. But I felt kinda strangely comforted knowing Im not the only alien facing this situation, so thank you for sharing! Like seriously!
> 
> I dont know whats your situation like, so Im not trying to say anything specific but I just thought like heyyy maybe sharing my story might help you? or so I hope! 😛
> 
> **What Ive tried for Sex Life**  
> What I can tell you is that Ive been using pheromones about 3 years now, and frankly it aint some magic potion. Does it help? Yes it does! But I still got to put in some work, like dragging my ass to workout, buying that new dress I know might catch his eyes, I do my hair, - I put more effort in my appearance. I think you get my drift. And then I pair these things with pheromones and bang! My sex life has gotten better. Hes gotten from okay lets go this once a week routine, to being more involved. He looks at me differently with Instant Sexiness A and B, and when I first started using Instant Sexiness A and B my sex life was good again :o These pheromones comes with that added sex appeal or so I think.
> 
> In all honesty, only recently in the past year we occasionally still get into that damp, - I think it might be because hes exposed to the same pheromones too long (Im not sure). But its definitely looking better before anything but I am looking forward to making it even better! Im also trying the new DHC and LAM oil now. Im hoping to turn up the heat even more in my sex life.
> 
> **When it comes to children** , Ive used them around my cousins, nieces and nephews. I don’t think there’s any adverse effects. Like using IO, also makes them super chatty. IH very honest. CTTM is a nice in between. I used Instant Sexiness A and B to a family gathering, some family people just avoid me. Mostly females actually, I think its cos they feel awkward. But definitely no bad juju. But just to be safe, I feel like maybe more people should comment on this.
> 
> **For your boy** \*\*,\*\* I think maybe IO can get him talking more. You might want to explore that. It got my quiet man chatty for sure. But maybe try a small bit first, because I have not read any cases of pheromones being used on children. And **JUST TO BE SAFE, please check with the nice people using the chat box on the androticsdirect main website okay?** 😉
> 
> \*\*\*All the best and let us know how it goes! I hope you manage to help your issues especially spice up your sex life with a little pheromone magic. 🆒
> 
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**Author:** ![Samalam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a183cd/32.png) [@Samalam](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Samalam)\
**Post date:** [January 18, 2017, 4:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-bring-back-the-bedroom-spice-and-happy-vibe-for-my-kids-f-40s/66898/6 "2017-01-18T16:49:03Z")

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Thank you so much 🙂

> [@bosshank](#):
>
> Hello and welcome to the forum!
> 
> Vynelle to the rescue!!!
> 
> I am not going to even try to add to this conversation for multiple reasons, the first of which I have the wrong plumbing lol!
> 
> Anyways - glad to see you here and good luck in your phero endeavors!
> 
> bosshank

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**Author:** ![Samalam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a183cd/32.png) [@Samalam](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Samalam)\
**Post date:** [January 18, 2017, 4:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-bring-back-the-bedroom-spice-and-happy-vibe-for-my-kids-f-40s/66898/7 "2017-01-18T16:51:29Z")

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Thank you Dee A, I’ve order the IFW, sooooo excited!! I’ll test out my IFW when it gets here and have a look at the Oil you recommended once I have used up the version that is in the pack. Thanks also for the voucher, I will use it on my next order.

> [@Dee\_A](#):
>
> Welcome to PheromoneTalk, Samalam!
> 
> This is the best intro so far in 2017. Thank you for trusting us. I assure you that we can offer some goods to help you.
> 
> Let’s start with the Instant Female Wardrobe for you. 🙂 That pack contains the best pheromones for a phero-adventure beginner. The IShine will certainly become a good mone around your boy and of course the entire family. It emits the happy, healthy vibe. I’m reading good reports about the IShine in oil so I will recommend you get some of that too. 🙂
> 
> IShine + ISexib with your husband will be a good start too to probe if he’s just tired from being workaholic or he needs some kind of inspiration to stiffen up. 🙂
> 
> And to help you with your first order, I dropped your intro GC worth $25 into your email. It’s ready for use. 🙂
> 
> Happy Pheroing! 🙂
> 
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> _ **Disclosure:** I’ve edited your thread title from **“Hello - first foray into Pheromones”** to **“Hello - Pheromones to Bring Back the Bedroom Spice and Happy Vibe for my Kids. F/40’s”** for topic clarity and forum readability. It’ll also generate more “reads” to your thread. If you want to opt-out simply let me know. Thank you!_

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**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\
**Post date:** [January 19, 2017, 2:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-bring-back-the-bedroom-spice-and-happy-vibe-for-my-kids-f-40s/66898/8 "2017-01-19T14:40:44Z")

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Hello Samalam,

Welcome! Wow I agree about what a great Intro and this is usually pulling teeth to get to where we can help someone. If there was a TOTW nomination button in this section, I would be proudly nominating this post for an award as it is this good.

Normally I have all kind of suggestions and this time I think vynelle has got this covered and pretty well and will have to go with her suggestions completely. I would also check out the women’s section as she has a lot of reports on all the things mentioned so you get an idea of what they do.

The only suggestions I really have is to look at the **Female Wardrobe** as you would get all the items mentioned except the CTTM2 and the oils.

If you have any questions at all please ask and welcome!

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**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2017, 3:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-bring-back-the-bedroom-spice-and-happy-vibe-for-my-kids-f-40s/66898/9 "2017-01-20T03:45:33Z")

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Hi Samalam,

I’m just dropping by to welcome you to this forum, you already received great advice. I hope to read about your testing in a journal soon.

Good luck.

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**Author:** ![Samalam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a183cd/32.png) [@Samalam](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Samalam)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2017, 4:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-bring-back-the-bedroom-spice-and-happy-vibe-for-my-kids-f-40s/66898/10 "2017-01-23T16:03:03Z")

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Hello all, my order arrived this morning, I am beyond excited 🙂 My man was still at home when the DHL truck pulled up and he was outside so he took the package off the delivery man, I was slightly worried that he would open it (as we would normally open each others items) but I thought it’s sure to be in anonymous bottles!! Anyway he didn’t open it as he was getting ready for work so I did when he was in the shower, and there you go, nothing anonymous about those bottles…

Anyway, I gave myself one spray of IS on one wrist and spread it to the other by pressing down. I didn’t get to see him for very long before I had to rush out to a meeting, so it was just a hug and kiss goodbye and I was gone.

So here’s my first report back - should I put this in a journal? I’ll put it here anyway and if it’s etiquette to make a new thread or journal then will copy it to there, let me know.

**Self affects - Possibly placebo**

Driving to meeting:  
Felt extremely happy, thought the world looked wonderful - it did though as it is a gorgeous day here today.  
Found myself smiling  
Felt very optimistic (I’m pretty much optimistic anyway but lately not so much so it was nice to feel that again!)  
Felt very impatient and interested to get to a meeting I never want to go to and never look forward to - it felt like it took forever to get there although it took no longer than normal. It may have been that I was just dying to see if my IS would have any affects!

Driving from meeting:  
Generally I am anxious as this weekly meeting eats into other work I do and I will usually have lots of emails awaiting my return, today though I wasn’t anxious at all and generally had a “they can wait” attitude. I even went shopping on the way home rather than rush back and ate lunch without taking my sandwich up to my office so I could get to working asap.

**Effects on others:**  
This morning I had an office meeting with a my brother in law whom I am “trying” to help get his business in some kind of proper organisational order, he is chaotic to say the least and his business is in very bad shape in every way, I normally go to him on Mondays and meet with him and then him and his staff. He is a very animated and loud person and the meetings are usually very unproductive as he talks / shouts and doesn’t listen very much, jumps from one subject/idea to another, berates his staff a lot and I’m generally the buffer for them pointing out where mainly the problems are of his making and not their work. Everybody is usually happy to see me and were happy today - can’t say if they were smiling more or not.

I started my meeting with my brother in law and what is usually chaotic was very calm and we actually got to make decisions – he seemed more ordered. He is generally happyish around me (he see’s me as his business saviour for some reason) and despite his extremely stressful state following a bad week last week was happy today as usual if not more but without the normal sinking into crisis thoughts that he usually has. Very productive meeting.

I left the office on two occasions and each time I returned I noticed the smell of the IS. It smells like the top of my children heads.

We didn’t get to do the staff meeting as ours went on so long so not sure how he was with them after I left, however he seemed in a calm state.

Went to buy a couple of groceries on the way home, didn’t notice anything in particular, people did smile but then in my country people smile and greet each other whether they know you or not.

My daughter was home when I got back, being a teen her mood could be anything…. She was happy today though as she had managed to get a day off school due to a uniform mishap… however I did notice as we chatted while I made my lunch that she was slightly giggly and asked two questions which I answered and then asked them again as if she was distracted… hmmmm…. Laughed at herself a good bit, her mood did seem very up.

So that’s it so far – I’m going to give myself a spray again before husband comes home from work as I’m not entirely sure how long the effects of the morning spray would last and I really want to see if it affects him.

Should one spray last a day or are top up’s required for special occasions and such??

I think I am going to really enjoy my phero experimenting even if just for the placebo self affects 🙂

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**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2017, 4:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-bring-back-the-bedroom-spice-and-happy-vibe-for-my-kids-f-40s/66898/11 "2017-01-23T16:16:26Z")

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Great experience! That is why I have stayed so long with this hobby is because all you have to do is spray on and go out in the world and see what happens it really is that simple!

I hope you do start a journal that we can follow as you are not alone at all as we all have a story and I am married myself with a hectic work schedule and I have similar things in my marriage and let’s face it, it can be tough with working raising kids, stress, bills, and so on right?

So what did you end up ordering?

I would say around your kids definitely the socials are safe and in general should be some of the main ones you use around them and your hubby especially IShine, and IO to help open him up.
