# Hello! Pheromones to Get Good with Women? For Approach Anxiety? :) M/35 **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 1, 2017, 3:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-get-good-with-women-for-approach-anxiety-m-35/67101 "2017-04-01T15:20:27Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![shinzon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/8e8cbc/32.png) [@shinzon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shinzon)\ **Post date:** [April 1, 2017, 3:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-get-good-with-women-for-approach-anxiety-m-35/67101/1 "2017-04-01T15:20:27Z")
Hello everyone, Jeff here from UK. I’m 35 years old male and just looking to get good with women. I can strike up a conversation with women mostly, but have approach anxiety sometimes. Asked girls out on dates, after the first time I’ve met them and that led to much more. But for me, my confidence is inconsistent and sometimes I don’t get any hits with women. What do you vets suggest I go for? The starter kit (UPIP)? Or should I get the starter kit and also get A314 seperately as “Alpha A314” is much more expensive by itself (then the one included in the kit, due to it being stronger than what’s used in the starter kit, from my understanding). Read very good things about A314. I think I kinda got it nailed down generally, but At the same time I know it might be different results for different people. For example: A314 and/or ammo for clubs. IS/IO for partys/bars/pubs IG/IH for day time meeting with women on the street etc. By no means a compartmentalized list, but that’s the gist of my comprehension about the Mones 🙂 Also any way to create or buy [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/)? Seems to have been the bomb 😉 Thanks peeps and keep sharing the love 🙂. You guys..and girls rock ---
**Author:** ![shinzon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/8e8cbc/32.png) [@shinzon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shinzon)\ **Post date:** [April 2, 2017, 12:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-get-good-with-women-for-approach-anxiety-m-35/67101/2 "2017-04-02T12:59:27Z")
Hmmm…anyone?😉 ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2017, 5:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-get-good-with-women-for-approach-anxiety-m-35/67101/3 "2017-04-03T05:32:17Z")
Welcome to PheromoneTalk, Jeff! 🙂 Your introductory GC is now in your email. If you have the budget to get the UPIP and the A314 oil, then it’s a good move. Otherwise, UPIP alone would suffice. At least those bottles comprising that pack can give you a taste of what each of it does and will generally help you decide which of them you want to get in bigger bottle the next time you purchase. 🙂 A314/b, the one included in the UPIP is generally perceived, based on user feedbacks, as having the same vibe with A314 oil’s. If one does not have the budget to get the oil, the b spray is what they buy. The only difference between the two is the longevity. For clubs, the popular ones are IS+AMMO, with TUTH being deployed as the night is about to end. For parties, the above combo can be used, but generally, IS+MX297 is popular. IS+IO can be employed if you want a chitchat party. 🙂 For daytime, AMMO solo or AMMO+IShine is popular. IG+IH can be employed during the dating phase, where you can sit down with her having enough time to let her see you as the dependable and trustworthy man. But of course, I am not here saying you can’t test out your initial combo of choice. As you have stated above, you might get cool results wearing those around. 🙂 Happy Pheroing! 🙂 ================ _ **Disclosure:** I’ve edited your thread title from **“Just looking to get good with the female sex of our species 🙂”** to **“Hello! [Pheromones](https://a314.com/) to Get Good with Women? For Approach Anxiety? 🙂 M/35”** for topic clarity and forum readability. It’ll also generate more “reads” to your thread. If you want to opt-out simply let me know. Thank you!_ ---
**Author:** ![shinzon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/8e8cbc/32.png) [@shinzon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shinzon)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2017, 6:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-get-good-with-women-for-approach-anxiety-m-35/67101/4 "2017-04-03T06:29:06Z")
Thanks Dee. Makes perfecto sense. Much appreciated and also for the GC 🙂 Just had another question. More so to know your thoughts on the matter and the other forum members too. How does a beginner go about testing with just one at a time or the combos? The reason I’m asking is that, - Say you are in an environment that you want to test it on. You try one combo, but the next test you try won’t be within the same environment and probably another party/social situation with different people. And since the Mones work differently on different people/age groups, etc. What works in one situation won’t work in another. I know you can’t have one size fits all but I guess I’m wondering how you peeps would try/went about trying to, find out which combo works consistently on different occasions. Short of going to the bathroom and washing off the previous one and applying a different combo. Also, if you have more than 2 in a combo, it might be a bit hard to nail down which one works from the combo or it might be all of them. Thanks again. ---
**Author:** ![mahalo\_silver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8dc957/32.png) [@mahalo\_silver](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mahalo_silver)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2017, 2:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-get-good-with-women-for-approach-anxiety-m-35/67101/5 "2017-04-03T14:04:11Z")
something about IFM was quite incredible and haven’t been able to replicate it with other A1 variations. IS or TAA molecule is very good for AA when combined with [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/). TUH with IS doesnt seem to have the same effect so it must be the trinity of rone/a-nol/none + taa. Others say p130. ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [April 4, 2017, 3:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-get-good-with-women-for-approach-anxiety-m-35/67101/6 "2017-04-04T15:23:36Z")
Hello shinzon, I first wanted to start by thanking you for a good intro as this helps a lot. What I would do is get the men’s kit if you can and go from here. I mean you can get the A314 oil and it is great and if you can sure get that to with the kit. I am just trying to help you out and would start with the kit and nothing else and test everything in there first so you get an idea of what to expect and then re order the ones that you like the in the bigger 30ML bottles. We are about the same age so we should be close on our doses. Being 35 you have a lot of options available without to much fear of ODing. **IShine** I would start with this one first and the reason why is the is the one that made me a believer. This one will boost your confidence and put you and everyone around you in a good mood. Good for every environment and you can not go wrong with this one. Best dose should be close to 2-3 sprays. **Ammo** Perfect for dating and attraction and works very well for day use to! I would start with this one for dating. Very balanced and actually has a [pheromone](https://a314.com/) that will help with your approach anxiety and to help open others up. **A314** I am mentioning this one because it can be used for dating and attraction to at your age, but I would use the Ammo mainly for that area. This one women will find you valuable and like a man who has it together which women our age find very attractive. These are the main 3 I would start with. The key is to solo test each one for your very best dose and so you know the effects so you know how to adjust things when making a combo. ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [April 4, 2017, 3:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-get-good-with-women-for-approach-anxiety-m-35/67101/7 "2017-04-04T15:24:07Z")
Hello shinzon, I first wanted to start by thanking you for a good intro as this helps a lot. What I would do is get the men’s kit if you can and go from here. I mean you can get the A314 oil and it is great and if you can sure get that to with the kit. I am just trying to help you out and would start with the kit and nothing else and test everything in there first so you get an idea of what to expect and then re order the ones that you like the in the bigger 30ML bottles. We are about the same age so we should be close on our doses. Being 35 you have a lot of options available without to much fear of ODing. **IShine** I would start with this one first and the reason why is the is the one that made me a believer. This one will boost your confidence and put you and everyone around you in a good mood. Good for every environment and you can not go wrong with this one. Best dose should be close to 2-3 sprays. **Ammo** Perfect for dating and attraction and works very well for day use to! I would start with this one for dating. Very balanced and actually has a pheromone that will help with your approach anxiety and to help open others up. **A314** I am mentioning this one because it can be used for dating and attraction to at your age, but I would use the Ammo mainly for that area. This one women will find you valuable and like a man who has it together which women our age find very attractive. These are the main 3 I would start with. The key is to solo test each one for your very best dose and so you know the effects so you know how to adjust things when making a combo. ---
**Author:** ![shinzon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/8e8cbc/32.png) [@shinzon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shinzon)\ **Post date:** [April 4, 2017, 6:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-get-good-with-women-for-approach-anxiety-m-35/67101/8 "2017-04-04T18:56:31Z")
Hi Justintime. Thanks for the amazing advice. I definitely will act on it as soon as i get my order delivered. Most of the stuff I learnt on the forum, I learnt from your posts. But I know I still have a long way to go 🙂 Really appreciate the time you take to reply to posts on this forum. It’s because of people like you us noobs get the knowledge we seek. Thank you once again for your amazing work. ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2017, 9:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-get-good-with-women-for-approach-anxiety-m-35/67101/9 "2017-04-05T09:50:22Z")
I’ll go with justintime’s recommendations 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2017, 12:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-get-good-with-women-for-approach-anxiety-m-35/67101/10 "2017-04-05T12:14:28Z")
Yup - Starting with one product at a time is the best way to get to grips with pheros. It is worth it this way as you get the best idea of how each product/phero works for you, which gives you a head start on getting the feel of them in combination.