# Hello. Pheromones to Help Me Change My Vibe and Save My Marriage. M/37 **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 10, 2016, 3:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-help-me-change-my-vibe-and-save-my-marriage-m-37/66496 "2016-10-10T03:06:39Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![samrao](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/77aa72/32.png) [@samrao](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/samrao)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2016, 3:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-help-me-change-my-vibe-and-save-my-marriage-m-37/66496/1 "2016-10-10T03:06:39Z")
Hello, My name is Sam and I am new to all this Peromone stuff. I am 37 and married with 2 kids but currently my marriage is not working to well, my wife has lost love for me and it is mainly because of me, because I didn’t pay her enough attention or help around the house especially when our kids were born. She was recently pregnant but lost the baby due to a lot of stress caused by me and my parents. I don’t want to lose my wife and want to help her overcome all this stress. I want to win back her heart but proving difficult as she is not willing to let me try, she is only staying with me for a few years for the kids but I want to spend the rest of my life with her. We have been together for 10 years. I tried Turn up the Heat but it didn’t do anything, I sprayed it on my chest but she didn’t seem to notice. Is there something else that is better and would help to make me more attractive for her and she may want to try and be closer to me, don’t care much about the sex right now, just want to be close with her. Right now she doesn’t like me touching her or even like me seeing her change anymore and even locks the bathroom door when she goes for a shower. ☹ ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2016, 4:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-help-me-change-my-vibe-and-save-my-marriage-m-37/66496/2 "2016-10-10T04:17:14Z")
Hi samrao, Welcome to this forum. It’s nice to see that even if your marriage is struggling you are willing to put the necessary effort and energy in trying to mend things up. That’s the beginning of the solution. TUTH is a great product for couples, don’t get me wrong, but it’s not the best one to use from the get-go if there are some unresolved issues like it seems to be the case. I suggest you work on communication first and foremost. Then attraction. Then passion and flame (i.e. sex). This is especially important for a long-term relationship. As you know, mones are not magic potions, but helpers and boosters. They’ll be your best friend, but your mind must want to mend things up and your wife should agree to do her part also. What I recommend would be the men’s starter pack. It contains many great products to help you: IShine: This is a mood booster. Using it will make you feel fresh, vibrant and happy. It also acts on people around you. It makes you more fun to be around and you will be more approachable. IOpenness: If communication is dead, like monosyllabic conversations, this might be great to break the ice and restart the communication-line. IHonesty: This will help create trust and bonding. The level of conversation you can achieve with this one is much deeper than with IO. It will also let untold truths be told, it helps to understand issues and find solutions. IGentleman: This lets you project a wise, mature and dependable aura. People will look for your advice a lot. It also helps resist anger and other bad emotions, you’ll have a colder head to resolve conflicts and differences. It also make the wife perceive you as the man of the house. Ammo: This helps with the attraction. It sends a charming and sexy vibe. Once communication issues are solved, it will help make her interested in you as mating material. TUTH: You know this one already, but it’s a raw sexual product, use it when active bedtime becomes plausible again with visible attraction and communication. Otherwise, it will not work as well. [MX297](https://a314.com/product/mx297/): Use this one in fun settings: parties, going out, etc. Ladies just love it. If you have other questions, please ask. Maybe tell us a bit more about your personality and hers. By telling us more, you will be eligible to a 25$ gift certificate to help you with your first buy. Hope to hear from you. ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2016, 11:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-help-me-change-my-vibe-and-save-my-marriage-m-37/66496/3 "2016-10-10T11:51:27Z")
Welcome Sam, I am also married 36 and have had similar experiences as let’s face it marriage is a lot of work and we don’t always do the right thing and I am guilty at times to. Very first thing is to try and work things through with her before anything including mones. You have to keep trying no matter how discouraging it can get and I know this is way easier said than done. Flowers go a long way with my wife and you have to find a way to reach her heart and show her what a great husband and father you really are. Now on to the mones. I usually suggest going with the **Men’s Ultimate Kit** as you would get everything they have to offer and try including the socials which right now are going to work much better to help with repairing the marriage. You still don’t want to lose the attraction so very first thing I would look at testing is **Ammo**. What is great about this is it is a nice cologne and great for day use as well and also has a [pheromone](https://a314.com/) for comfort/talking which is a plus for you. This will go much better than the TUTH as TUTH is more straight forward and screams sex right now and the TUTH is best to build up to, but right now it is more important to fix and save the marriage at to me sounds like not all is lost like some other stories I read. Now another good one also is either **A314** or **IG** and this will let her know that you are a man that is worthy in her eyes and a keeper. This will help to show her that you are a great guy and help her see you as a responsible father/husband and add value to you. **IS** This one is one of my favorites. This will help put her in a good mood and if she is in a good mood she is more than likely to open up and work on things. **IH** Now this one will be worth its weight in gold for you and will be one of the most important ones to get IMO. Will promote bonding and deep conversations **which is needed right now**. Also this will bring to the surface any underlying problems she feels so you have everything out in the open, just be prepared to face what ever she says and work with it. If it were me if you don’t get the kit I would at least get the IH, and what might be the best bet is the A314 if I really had to narrow it down. I am married to and have faced many trials in my marriage to so you are certainly not alone. If I can help in any way just hit me up and I will respond and good luck!!! ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2016, 1:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-help-me-change-my-vibe-and-save-my-marriage-m-37/66496/4 "2016-10-10T13:53:29Z")
Welcome to PheromoneTalk, Sam. 🙂 Your GC is now in your email and ready for use. 🙂 I think, by reading your post, that the TUTH is working alright. It’s just that you used it in the wrong time. TUTH, I think, was the reason why she’s locking the shower’s door now. She senses the message: that you, being the wearer of TUTH, is one horny guy, insensitive to her current predicament. There is no pheromone shortcut for your current concern. Not a single pheromone can magically change her mind in a snap and suddenly get her closer to you again as if nothing happened. You have to build the feelings up again. Try the A314 oil, IShine, and IHonesty. No TUTH. During this quest,keeping the penis out of the picture will really help. So… no TUTH. Wearing this combo daily, try reaching out to her and repair first your communication line. No flirting, openly or otherwise. Apologizing won’t kill you so, make it a part of your plan, it won’t also make your manhood smaller. Be sensitive with your wife’s feeling, and her situation. She’s your priority and not your parents. Don’t forget that you are a family man now, so it’s not bad to choose your family first over your parents. Unless your parents pay the bills… it’s time for you to change that and be the one providing for your family. 🙂 Try to be a good father also, your kids will be your common ground and unity. That is your best starting point in attracting her back. IShine is reported to have good effects even if worn around kids, so the combo I recommend will surely give you a good chance to win em all. 🙂 Happy Pheroing! 🙂 ==================== _ **Disclosure:** I’ve edited your thread title from **“Hello”** to **“Hello. [Pheromones](https://a314.com/) to Help Me Change My Vibe and Save My Marriage. M/37”** for topic clarity and forum readability. It’ll also generate more “reads” to your thread. If you want to opt-out simply let me know. Thank you!_ ---
**Author:** ![samrao](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/77aa72/32.png) [@samrao](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/samrao)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2016, 7:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-help-me-change-my-vibe-and-save-my-marriage-m-37/66496/5 "2016-10-10T19:02:27Z")
Thanks for all the advise, we have talked and right now she is hurting from the loss of the baby. She blames me for everything which I don’t disagree with, I messed up everything and now don’t know how to get her back. I’ll try the starter kit, how does it work? I try each one at same time or one at a time? How much do I use? She started locking the door before I even started using TUTH. One time I needed to get something from the bathroom, I unlocked it and she got annoyed and covered up her body. She also have issues with me touching her, she complained to her friend that I kept touching her when we were in bed, but all I was doing is massaging her back. ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2016, 4:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-help-me-change-my-vibe-and-save-my-marriage-m-37/66496/6 "2016-10-11T04:07:09Z")
Thanks for clarifying. I will still stand by my recommendation. It would help as you encourage her to visit a medical expert for an early intervention. Regards, ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2016, 12:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-help-me-change-my-vibe-and-save-my-marriage-m-37/66496/7 "2016-10-12T00:56:50Z")
I agree she may need more and how does she respond to conversations? Have you voiced your concerns and if so how did she respond to them. The starter kit is the way to go. With most of them being 37 should be somewhere between 2-4 sprays in there somewhere. I would still start with 1 spray to see how things go before you add another though. I tend to like pheromones sometimes for more self effects so I like to spray on my throat when first testing something new just to see if and how it effects me. What I would do is start with the IS as this will at least put her in a good mood, plus you should get some self effects of this one and it will help uplift your mood as well as hers if you try on the throat. The only 1 I would be careful of is the IH because you don’t want to be spilling the beans, you want her to spill the beans instead so I would wear on your wrists to effect here more. ---
**Author:** ![samrao](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/77aa72/32.png) [@samrao](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/samrao)\ **Post date:** [December 21, 2016, 4:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-help-me-change-my-vibe-and-save-my-marriage-m-37/66496/8 "2016-12-21T04:06:39Z")
Dee, can you email me the $25 voucher code again as I lost the email. Thanks ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [December 21, 2016, 10:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pheromones-to-help-me-change-my-vibe-and-save-my-marriage-m-37/66496/9 "2016-12-21T10:49:11Z")
Okay! 🙂 But I will only do this just this once. Please remember that once a GC is sent to you, the task to safekeep it lies in your shoulder and not ours. Losing it is the same as forfeiting it. I’ll manually look it up and send it to you. 🙂