# Hello PheroTalk

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pherotalk/24550>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [January 6, 2009, 12:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pherotalk/24550 "2009-01-06T00:40:11Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 6\
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**Author:** ![leaffar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/71c47a/32.png) [@leaffar](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/leaffar)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2009, 12:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pherotalk/24550/1 "2009-01-06T00:40:11Z")

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Hello, Steve… I just recently spoke with you on the phone about the right type of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) that were for men attracting other men. You gave me some great advice and I wanted to thank you for your assistance. I know you told me to join the website and send a post in order to recieve the $25.00 coupon. But I am not sure if this is where I am suppose to be, theerfore I will try sending a post where I saw others posting theirs at. Just wanted to start by saying, “thanks.” And I look forward to speaking with other people here and letting others know my experience with the pheromones. See Ya!

Leaffar

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**Author:** ![leaffar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/71c47a/32.png) [@leaffar](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/leaffar)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2009, 12:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pherotalk/24550/2 "2009-01-06T00:43:39Z")

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Is there anyone here that has used a [pheromone product](https://a314.com/shop/) for men, that attracts other men? That you feel has been successful? Please give your imput when you have the opportunity. Thanks!

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**Author:** ![MikeMan22](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeman22/32/332_2.png) [@MikeMan22](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MikeMan22)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2009, 2:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pherotalk/24550/3 "2009-01-06T02:06:24Z")

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Hello,

Welcome to the forum. Please read the link in my signature about how to qualify for the gift cert.

Also know, you should consider the same pheromones as if you were not gay. Gay men will like the pheromones that women would like. So tell us a bit about yourself, and we can give our advice of what might fit you the most.

Take care!

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**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2009, 2:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pherotalk/24550/4 "2009-01-06T02:14:43Z")

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Hi leaffar

Good to have you here in Pherotalk 🙂 I see that you have spoken to Steve in which he have given you some great advice & ask you to join this forum well he is an awesome dude there ready to help anyone in need of help 😃

Ok like MikeMan22 have said there, tell us more about yourself like your personality shy or outgoing & what kind of effects you hope to get from using pheros here so that we can help you better there plus read MikeMan22 signature there for more info to qualify for the $25GC 🙂

I will be back later to answer this intro. See ya 🙂

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**Author:** ![MarkL](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/markl/32/825_2.png) [@MarkL](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MarkL)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2009, 3:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pherotalk/24550/5 "2009-01-06T03:51:31Z")

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> [@MikeMan22](#):
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> Also know, you should consider the same pheromones as if you were not gay. Gay men will like the pheromones that women would like.

Well, **some** gay men will like the same pheros as women. But I would not be too quick to generalize that … because gay men may all be homosexual but they are not homogenous 😛 in phero-response.  
Here’s an example of what I mean:

- A314 and TUTH is likely going to get you a “Big Daddy” dominant/Top vibe
- Simple strong “-none alone” is perfect for a dive bar / grunge / back alley / back room scene (also very ‘top’)
- A314 alone or with Instant Shine will be more of a “High Society” dynamic
- A1 and Instant Shine, maybe a bit of androstenol (alpha or beta or both,) seems to generate an after-hours dance party “twinkletoes” aura
- EST and A1 get you a kind of gender-bender “best of both” male and female - a true “bi-vibe” - and combines well with [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) for some deep brainy connection time
- A1 is the phero that – alone – activated the sexy brain response (in the study done with brain scans) in both gay men and straight women. (Again: ~some~ gay men.)

In some ways, I think coming up with a phero-plan for a guy attracting other guys is maybe a little more complex than the guy-girl dynamic … the best advice I could give would be: experiment and be as observant as you can be. Get a friend to “wing” for you if that’s at all possible.

And come back and report on what works _ **for you** _.

Cheers

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2009, 2:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-pherotalk/24550/6 "2009-01-06T14:56:56Z")

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Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂

I see you spoke with Steve on the phone, that should help alot in getting you off on the right foot, and I am sure he got your demographic information.

Both Mike and Mark are correct…

Now Gay men who are trying to attract other Gay men **generally** use the same products that straight men wear to attract women. Why ? Because gay men are attracted to the same mones women are. Yes there are exceptions to the rule but there is for straight men when using products to attract women as well and you have to start with what will most likely work for you best.

**Most** gay men go very light on the anone and A1 though. Its to aggressive for there personality’s but other predominate male mones are fine. Arone seems less aggressive and is fine.

I suggest to start you go with AMMO IH Ishine and some TAH or TAL . This is similar the the product [Mystery Boy](https://a314.com/product/mystery-boy/) which is out of stock right now I believe.

Some posts that may interest you from the creator of the products

> [@I've always wondered:Mystery Boy](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ive-always-wondered-mystery-boy/345/2):
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> Bi-Curious, are you? wink Gay men like men, so “male” pheromones tend to be as attractive to gay men, as they are to hetero women. HOWEVER, the gay culture is very unlike hetero culture. Our gay testers reported increased attraction with most of our male products – including A314 – but with unwanted side effects, including acts of male aggression. Not the kind of male aggression they actually want. Gay men may be sexually aggressive with each other, but we’ve been told that bar fights an…

> [@Has anyone used the gay pheromone "Mystery Boy" for Gay Men?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/has-anyone-used-the-gay-pheromone-mystery-boy-for-gay-men/564/7):
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> Gay men are not well served by the typical male heterosexual [pheromone product](https://a314.com/shop/). As we’ve discussed before, their temperament and their culture are completely different. In heterosexual culture, there’s lots of male bravado at bars and nightclubs. Men are often unfriendly or insulting to other men. There’s often fighting and other shows of male aggression. There’s the “big chimp” syndrome. You could call it a high androstenone culture. I can’t say I have homosexual culture pinned down, but it’s…

They have to go bottles so you can try them out.

If you have questions let me know, I am here to help. 😉

**Your GC is on its way** 😃

Tisha
