Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 
I see you spoke with Steve on the phone, that should help alot in getting you off on the right foot, and I am sure he got your demographic information.
Both Mike and Mark are correct…
Now Gay men who are trying to attract other Gay men generally use the same products that straight men wear to attract women. Why ? Because gay men are attracted to the same mones women are. Yes there are exceptions to the rule but there is for straight men when using products to attract women as well and you have to start with what will most likely work for you best.
Most gay men go very light on the anone and A1 though. Its to aggressive for there personality’s but other predominate male mones are fine. Arone seems less aggressive and is fine.
I suggest to start you go with AMMO IH Ishine and some TAH or TAL . This is similar the the product Mystery Boy which is out of stock right now I believe.
Some posts that may interest you from the creator of the products
They have to go bottles so you can try them out.
If you have questions let me know, I am here to help. 
Your GC is on its way 
Tisha