Hi snappyturtle,
Welcome to the forum. I’m not very well versed in the women’s line but it sounds like instant sexiness would compliment your style.
You may also want to try instant shine.
Check out Steve’s post on Pheromones. It will help you understand what pheromones do. An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration
Also, check out the women’s forum for more information. WOMEN’s Pheromone Advice, Tips and Tricks at PheromoneTalk.com