# Hello, Put a \*SPARK\* In an existing relationship **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 26, 2010, 3:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-put-a-spark-in-an-existing-relationship/36562 "2010-02-26T15:37:31Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![marriedbug](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/90ced4/32.png) [@marriedbug](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/marriedbug)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2010, 3:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-put-a-spark-in-an-existing-relationship/36562/1 "2010-02-26T15:37:31Z")
I am a mid-Michigan male in his early 30s. I have been married for a while and I am looking for something that will help bring a spark back to an existing relationship. Any ideas which [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) is best for me? Most of the forums talk about getting new people interested in you rather than an help an existing relationship. I am a fairly successful person, and have no problems talking to other people. I am looking for something that will “turn my wife on” without her knowing what is going on. I am not even sure if these will work for me, but I am curious to try it out. I am a science guy, so this interests me. Let me know what I should use my gift certificate on. Thanks ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2010, 4:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-put-a-spark-in-an-existing-relationship/36562/2 "2010-02-26T16:27:24Z")
Hi there, Welcome to the forum. I suggest you try IH and TUTH. IH will make hercloser and more intimate with you. She will talk more personal and deeper. TUTH will seually arouse her. It can help in spicing up your sex life. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2010, 4:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-put-a-spark-in-an-existing-relationship/36562/3 "2010-02-26T16:55:30Z")
Hi and welcome to the forum! jamesbonded hit it right on the head, [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) and Turn Up The Heat are exactly what I would recommend for you to get things going again in your marriage. Instant Honesty will help to re-strengthen that emotional bond, which women need to feel in order for sex to be good. Sometimes life gets in the way, and these things can slip a little. Instant Honesty adds depth and intimacy to conversations, she will feel more comfortable and safe with you, and also be more liekly to open up and talk about things that are on her mind. Once you have that bond back, then Turn Up The Heat will help with the bedroom part. But make sure you only use it when she’s ready for more, if you use TUTH in the wrong environment such as work, shopping or church, you will come off as a guy who wants sex too much. I hope this helps! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![marriedbug](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/90ced4/32.png) [@marriedbug](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/marriedbug)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2010, 8:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-put-a-spark-in-an-existing-relationship/36562/4 "2010-02-26T20:30:40Z")
Are you guys talking based on theory or from personal experience? ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2010, 8:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-put-a-spark-in-an-existing-relationship/36562/5 "2010-02-26T20:59:51Z")
> [@bugwaterguy](#): > > Are you guys talking based on theory or from personal experience? I am speaking from personal experience. As a woman, I need to have a good solid bond with my guy. I need to feel comfortable and safe with him, I need to feel that he is always truthful with me. If things are not flowing and we are not tight, it just doesn’t feel right. ---
**Author:** ![marriedbug](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/90ced4/32.png) [@marriedbug](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/marriedbug)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2010, 10:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-put-a-spark-in-an-existing-relationship/36562/6 "2010-02-26T22:05:55Z")
I understand that you need to have a connection and feel safe, but has [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) “worked” on you? ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2010, 12:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-put-a-spark-in-an-existing-relationship/36562/7 "2010-02-27T00:12:29Z")
> [@bugwaterguy](#): > > I understand that you need to have a connection and feel safe, but has Instant Honesty “worked” on you? Nobody has tried to use [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) on me (at least not that I know of!). I think some of the guys here have used it successfully, to strengthen emotional bonds, though that is a question you might want to post in the Mens Section 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2010, 1:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-put-a-spark-in-an-existing-relationship/36562/8 "2010-02-27T01:34:51Z")
> [@bugwaterguy](#): > > Are you guys talking based on theory or from personal experience? We are all real users and customer of AD. ---
**Author:** ![marriedbug](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/90ced4/32.png) [@marriedbug](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/marriedbug)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2010, 11:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-put-a-spark-in-an-existing-relationship/36562/9 "2010-02-27T11:51:46Z")
I am thinking of getting IH and TUTH. I am also considering IS. I am concerned this might become an expensive habit if it works. Sillykitty & Jamesbonded, are either of you in a long-term relationship? ---
**Author:** ![marriedbug](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/90ced4/32.png) [@marriedbug](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/marriedbug)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2010, 11:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-put-a-spark-in-an-existing-relationship/36562/10 "2010-02-27T11:53:45Z")
I have looked for a post in the men’s section, but I am having trouble finding them. Any ideas for threads to follow or keywords to search. I tried marriage and long term and spark both separately and together. ---
**Author:** ![Butterfly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/butterfly/32/1942_2.png) [@Butterfly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Butterfly)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2010, 10:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-put-a-spark-in-an-existing-relationship/36562/11 "2010-02-27T22:57:45Z")
You’ll get a GC, so you could actually try all three without spending much 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2010, 12:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-put-a-spark-in-an-existing-relationship/36562/12 "2010-02-28T00:20:02Z")
> [@bugwaterguy](#): > > I am thinking of getting IH and TUTH. I am also considering IS. I am concerned this might become an expensive habit if it works. > > Sillykitty & Jamesbonded, are either of you in a long-term relationship? Yes I am ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2010, 12:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-put-a-spark-in-an-existing-relationship/36562/13 "2010-02-28T00:42:59Z")
I sort of am, but what I was suggesting is for you to post your question there, you should get some responses 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2010, 7:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-put-a-spark-in-an-existing-relationship/36562/14 "2010-03-01T19:52:57Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any questions you might have regarding moons. Please call Steve personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.