# hello, the eternal optimist has joined you! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 5, 2009, 2:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-the-eternal-optimist-has-joined-you/27748 "2009-04-05T02:42:26Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 4
**Author:** ![magnum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magnum/32/1423_2.png) [@magnum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magnum)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2009, 3:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-the-eternal-optimist-has-joined-you/27748/4 "2009-04-05T03:10:18Z")
a314 is mainly a respect and high-status pheromone, it gives you respect from the guys and it tends to attract a certain type of girls: the self-confident, higher status girls.. it might intimidate other girls, especially in your age group… so if your primary goal is attraction i recommend AMMO over A314. i recommend you use some Instant Shine with AMMO, it makes you and the people around you feel good and the girls want to stick around you more… Optional: if you want girls to be more talkative you could add [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), its a good ice breaker… if you don’t have problems with conversations but want to add some depth and a feeling of connection, like you have known each other for a long time you could add Instant Honesty i also recommend you read this post, its a good overview what the products do: > [@Mens Pheromone Guide revised 6/15](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-pheromone-guide-revised-6-15/12168): > > Revised for 2010/11 Common question thread [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43012](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43012) Ok I had to put the guide in this section of the forum because the men’s have way to many stickies now and I didn’t want to add another there. So anyways I got quite a few requests to do a men’s guide and I am flattered but want you to all know upfront that without all the wonderful postings on pheromones by the experienced men I would never been abl… --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-the-eternal-optimist-has-joined-you/27748)._