# Hello there! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 26, 2010, 5:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-there/43566 "2010-11-26T17:03:35Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![asttair](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/3bc359/32.png) [@asttair](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/asttair)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2010, 5:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-there/43566/1 "2010-11-26T17:03:35Z")
Hello there, my name is Pedro, I’m 21years old, and I live in Sao Paulo - Brazil. Well, here’s my story: I’ve always been a very VERY shy guy, and being that way it was really hard for me to make not only friends but also to estabilish any kind of relation with the opposite sex.As you can imagine high school was not easy for me.No friends, no girlfriend and problems at home(divorcing parents).It only made me turn into a even more shy and lonely person.But time passed, I got into college, and things changed a lot, I made several friends, and changed(or at least tried to) my personality a bit, but I’m still a very insecure person, what definitely is a problem to keep friendships or approaching to ladies.I have the constant feeling that I’m doing things the wrong way, that my friends will abandon me, or when talking to a girl, that she is having the worst kind of thoughts of me, although I’m in a good body shape and have a decent appearance. Keeping a conversation for longer than 10 minutes with anyone is a challenge to me, so one day I was browsing through the internet and found some things about pheromones, some really good and promising stuff about this.Obviously i was skeptical before that, but I decided to try it, and, in a rush to do this I bought the Pherlure cologne, which I haven’t received yet(Customs in Brazil is terrible, specially at the end of the year ), but then I read it was a scam, when I came to know this forum. I’m still kind of lost in the middle of so many different types of pheromones(I never even thought that there were so many subtypes of pheromones).But I’ve read several threads and now, I’m willing to try the TUTH and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), although shipping prices to my country are really high(more than 30$). I don’t expect miracles from pheromones, I know they are just a little help, but I think that this might be just the little help I need. Other than that, I wanted to know about the fragrance of TUTH and Instant Shine, if it is strong, once I’m very sensitive to odors. Well, If you guys have any suggestion to me I will gladly take it. I’m happy to have found this forum Thank you Pedro ---
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2010, 5:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-there/43566/2 "2010-11-26T17:26:12Z")
Ola! Welcome to pherotalk, Pedro. I am glad to hear that you are changing for the better and that you continue to look to improve yourself! How is the weather down there? Enjoying it much? Anyways, tuth is a masculine smell. It is not over-bearing but don’t use it too much. IS is pretty light scented. Moreover, it makes others feel great and gives you a youthful glow. Also, look into ih and io. Since you seem pretty shy, I recommend them. Those would benefit u! Io helps ladies open up while ih makes them comfortable and connected. Also, from my experience, brazilian ladies seem to like ammo too. Use it with instant shine, and you will become that sexy, charismatic guy. Also, I suggest ig for daytime. It makes you seem reliable and warm and I know many brazilian women that dig it Have fun and enjoy! ---
**Author:** ![hschooler](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/7cd45c/32.png) [@hschooler](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hschooler)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2010, 6:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-there/43566/3 "2010-11-26T18:12:27Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Pedro 🙂. I second Coolkat’s recommendation of IO and IH, as they’re really great in helping you maintain conversation with people. IG would also benefit you in college in making more friends. IG is a cool, suave status elevator, where people see you as _that cool guy_. A good combo for you to use in college, for the purpose of social situations, would be IG+IO+IS. This particular combo would give you a cool, upbeat, approachable vibe which will be very beneficial in making new friends. I suggest you don’t use too much TUTH in the day time as it is a very sexual [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/), and girls would find it intimidating as it seems like your coming on too hard. If you put too much on you’ll also be at risk of OD’ing, over dosing, which is when you’ll begin to notice very negative effects like people backing away from you, or just completely blocking you out and ignoring you. Since you are 21, you’ll already be producing a fair bit of natural Androstenone (one of the main molecules in TUTH), so 1 spray should be suffice. TUTH is best used in party and bar situations, as it is more acceptable and girls would be more accepting of serious flirting. I look forward to reading your journal 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2010, 12:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-there/43566/4 "2010-11-29T00:18:48Z")
Welcome to our community Pedro. TUTH can be OK and I know guys always want to stick with the sexual products, but if you’re to shy to talk to a girl how will you interest her in your highly sexual signal? Most likely you wont! So here’s what I suggest go with some social products and get that going for you first. You’ll need some IO and Ishine to do that. The Ishine will let the ladies know you have a strong sense of well-being and confidence. The IO means you are care-free and open to chat. These are very attractive and will give you more opportunities to talk with girls than the TUTH. With TUTH you are basically saying I’ve done all the work to get you to like me and now its time for sex. Since you are admittedly shy that will be a tough obstacle to overcome. I already issued your GC on Friday so check your email. Again welcome to the forum