# Hello there **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 19, 2013, 10:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-there/59596 "2013-07-19T22:37:54Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![benbunnyman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/a6a055/32.png) [@benbunnyman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/benbunnyman)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2013, 10:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-there/59596/1 "2013-07-19T22:37:54Z")
Hi, First time looking into the world of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) products and must admit, if what I’ve read is true, it seems pretty fascinating and I’m excited to begin experimenting. I’m 36 from Australia and have been researching seduction techniques, dating techniques etc. Through exploring forums on the internet I have found my way to this forum. I’m interested in using the products to attract women. Simple as that. So I’m thinking the best start would be to get a selection of the TOGO size packs including TUTH, IJ, and A3.. I forget what it’s called but the other one anyway. Is there anything else people doing the same thing as me with more experience can suggest that I should consider? My approach would be to get the products and just begin tentative experiments while checking in on the forum as a reference if I get some results. Cheers ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2013, 7:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-there/59596/2 "2013-07-20T07:48:45Z")
All those are good solid sexual and overt status products that will serve you pretty well. A314 is good for status in all situations and TUTH and IJ will be good in bars, clubs and fairly uninhibited places, with or without A314. Both suit the sort of in your face status sexual/status combos that appeal to 30-plus women but can be more unpredictable around younger ones. IME, when using A314 and TUTH together, it helps to go high on the A314 and lower than normal on the TUTH. The idea here is to steer the A314, not drown it. When using A314 and IJ together - overkill on both is usually the best option and the “serious bastard” vibe of that combo should keep you from too much trouble. The only thing you might want to think-on is a social moderator of some sort as all of these pheros are a bit full-on/serious. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) is good with all and the IHI/IS combo is one I’ve found effective with all of these in all combinations. IO is also viable for socialising TUTH (also IO/IS) but it does tend to be a waste with anything involving A314 as they counteract. ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2013, 4:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-there/59596/3 "2013-07-22T04:20:10Z")
I personally like to try one thing at a time, starting with 1 spray then go out. 2 sprays go out and do a similar thing in a similar setting as I was with 1 spray etc until I find diminshing return, then I’ll try mixing with something else. I’ve found for first dates I like to wear 3 of Instant shine, 1 below my chin for self effect and 1 each on backs of my arms. 1 spray each of Instant Honesty or [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) (I can’t decide which I like better for first dates) on the inside of either forearm and then rub them togther. After a 2nd or 3rd date I’ll drop some ammunition or alpha a314 into the mix and tweak the others depending on how I feel things are progressing. For social situations, I’ll do 3 Instant Shine and 2 Instant Openness. Pheromones are a lot of personal expirementation to find what works well for you in the situations you’ll be in. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2013, 12:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-there/59596/4 "2013-07-25T12:15:23Z")
Welcome Ben, This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will. I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie. We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually. It takes a great deal and I am back logged. I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service. Thank you for giving pheromones a chance. Your gc was issued!