# Hello There **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 1, 2013, 9:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-there/60402 "2013-11-01T09:11:02Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![pheromonegirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ac8455/32.png) [@pheromonegirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pheromonegirl)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2013, 9:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-there/60402/1 "2013-11-01T09:11:02Z")
Hi pheromone forum. New here and wanted to test out the [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) to see how they might be able to affect people around me in my every day life. Also I would like to attract men, but not too strongly. I am looking for a romantic relationship, but I don’t want to attract men who are looking for a fast fling. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![sharkndragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sharkndragon/32/426_2.png) [@sharkndragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sharkndragon)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2013, 9:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-there/60402/2 "2013-11-01T09:20:36Z")
Hey girl! Welcome to the forums… Could you tell us how you found out about [pheromonetalk.com](http://pheromonetalk.com), as well as a little more about yourself? What type of personality do you have? What sort of men are you looking to attract (their personality traits). This will better help us guide you in the right direction for your first purchase. Right off the bat I’ll tell you to read up on Instant Sexiness A and B. Two different types for different personality types. Second, I’ll recommend you look into [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). This deepens the rapport, creates more meaningful conversation, and instils a sense of trust… That should help you filter out the guys you’re searching for. Read around and post back, we’ll get you set up in no time! ---
**Author:** ![pheromonegirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ac8455/32.png) [@pheromonegirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pheromonegirl)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2013, 9:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-there/60402/3 "2013-11-01T09:53:48Z")
I found [pheromonetalk.com](http://pheromonetalk.com) on google. I’m a smart, independent, and assertive woman that owns a small business. In every day life those are good traits to have, but it isn’t exactly the kind of attributes most men want in a woman. lol I want a man who is responsible and can carry a good conversation. Also a man who is serious and not just looking for a fling. I have been looking in the store and I was thinking maybe instant openess mixed with instant honesty? ---
**Author:** ![pheromonegirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ac8455/32.png) [@pheromonegirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pheromonegirl)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2013, 9:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-there/60402/4 "2013-11-01T09:55:47Z")
> [@pheromonegirl](#): > > I found [pheromonetalk.com](http://pheromonetalk.com) on google. I’m a smart, independent, and assertive woman that owns a small business. In every day life those are good traits to have, but it isn’t exactly the kind of attributes most men want in a woman. lol I want a man who is responsible and can carry a good conversation. Also a man who is serious and not just looking for a fling. I have been looking in the store and I was thinking maybe instant openess mixed with instant honesty? And I was also thinking the same thing about [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/), that they will show their true colors right off the bat around this one perhaps. ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2013, 10:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-there/60402/5 "2013-11-01T10:31:02Z")
[Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) is a good choice, I’d pair Instant Honest, Instant Shine and one of the Instant Sexiness variants. Day to day life you can run just the first two, when you are specifically going to men-rich environments hoping to find someone I’d use all 3. However learn how each one works individually before combining them. Welcome to the forums! If you have any questions toss them out and we will do our best to help you! ---
**Author:** ![pheromonegirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ac8455/32.png) [@pheromonegirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pheromonegirl)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2013, 9:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-there/60402/6 "2013-11-02T09:53:05Z")
> [@ryanmercer](#): > > Instant Honesty is a good choice, I’d pair Instant Honest, Instant Shine and one of the Instant Sexiness variants. Day to day life you can run just the first two, when you are specifically going to men-rich environments hoping to find someone I’d use all 3. However learn how each one works individually before combining them. > > Welcome to the forums! If you have any questions toss them out and we will do our best to help you! Okay, sounds good! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2013, 1:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-there/60402/7 "2013-11-02T13:01:59Z")
Welcome pheromonegirl, This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will. I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie. We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually. It takes a great deal and I am back logged. I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service. Thank you for giving pheromones a chance. Your gc was issued! ---
**Author:** ![pheromonegirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ac8455/32.png) [@pheromonegirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pheromonegirl)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2013, 2:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-there/60402/8 "2013-11-02T14:26:37Z")
> [@kelsey](#): > > Welcome pheromonegirl, > > This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will. > > I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie. > > We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually. > > It takes a great deal and I am back logged. > > I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to > > In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service. > > Thank you for giving pheromones a chance. > > Your gc was issued! Very cool, can’t wait to try it!😃