# Hello to a new experience! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 10, 2010, 11:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-a-new-experience/39238 "2010-06-10T23:01:43Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Sauce](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3bc359/32.png) [@Sauce](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sauce)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2010, 11:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-a-new-experience/39238/1 "2010-06-10T23:01:43Z")
Hello everyone. I have been skimming these forums for a while(mostly to determine legitimacy) and have discovered many great posts and helpful user replies. The community I have monitored made me feel like I would be warmly welcomed and receive very genuine and specific help. I am a 23 year old, Caucasian male. I live in the true suburbs(grass, trees, and creeks o’ plenty) of Chester County, PA and work in the more urban King of Prussia and Philadelphia. Currently, I am a single father with 2 young daughters under the age of 4. My primary reasons for coming here have a strong connection to the mother of my children. We haven’t been in a relationship together for quite a while( highly related to her being scared of commitment to one man in addition to children), and she has been away for a few months to get her bearings on life. This reflective time in her life has led her to decide that she wants a family with us; to be a wife and mother. While I am skeptical, I am also the biggest supporter of this idea and will do everything in my power to help this succeed. We have never stopped loving each other, and have continued to tell each other each time we have talked since the beginning, even while in other relationships. Now on to the specifics: her past rejections of me and our children have really taken a toll on my personality. I am a mere shadow of the outgoing, kind of crazy, guy i used to be. Now i tend to be less aggressive socially and, i fear, a boring person for her. My goal is to make the mother of my children more bonded to me. I want to have more faith in my self to be entertaining to her. I don’t need much of a boost in sexual interest as our relationship has always been extremely sexual( 2 kids…), but I also don’t want my role to shift so extremely to trust and friendship that sex becomes infrequent. So I guess what I’m looking for is the extra oomph, to amplify the reasons that make me a good life partner in her mind. Anything that makes me feel more comfortable and confident would be for the same end result. She is coming back for 3 days at the end of the month before going back for approximately another month.(she needs to save up a little bit to break her lease, plane ticket is her mother’s expense) So I would like to leave her with a strong impression over this weekend, so she is even more sure that this is the right decision for her. From my forum scouring I have sort of come up with a product regiment, not sure on the application amounts though: A314, IH, IShine. I really fear a role change though…so should i shave some [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) as a base to even out the ratio? ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2010, 11:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-a-new-experience/39238/2 "2010-06-10T23:14:42Z")
Hi Sauce, thats a very touching intro. Welcome! I believe you have found what you need in terms of what you selected. But at the same time A314 will most likely be your base as opposed to ammo. A314 will help you be respectfully and hold value in her mind. IShine is very good to set the mood in a positive direction while IH will build that trusting bond. Ammo would be good if your feeling to be more sexual in which case you may want to compare it with TUTH. Ammo and TUTH both hold the same sexual ingredient none, but the difference is that ammo has abit of IO and IG in it to put it simply. So you may be able to get away with having A314, IH, and IShine and then mix in the TUTH when desired. Hope that helps! ---
**Author:** ![Sauce](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3bc359/32.png) [@Sauce](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sauce)\ **Post date:** [June 11, 2010, 12:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-a-new-experience/39238/3 "2010-06-11T00:19:45Z")
would it be correct to say that A314 would be something I could wear during any social day, then add IO and IShine to the A314 on days with her? maybe utilizing TUTH for before or after dinner or such at times when this would normally happen anyways..? I’m seriously considering not getting any Ammo/TUTH as sex is absolutely not lacking in our relationship by normal means, I won’t go into it because I’m not one to brag, but you can get the gist. I may though, I am a guy after all and making sex even 1% more likely is tempting. Might get some TUTH to mix in on occasion like you mentioned. Now does it also make the desire increased during in addition to the desire for it before? ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 11, 2010, 12:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-a-new-experience/39238/4 "2010-06-11T00:24:21Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones and you can speak to him personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [June 11, 2010, 12:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-a-new-experience/39238/5 "2010-06-11T00:42:52Z")
> [@Sauce](#): > > would it be correct to say that A314 would be something I could wear during any social day, then add IO and IShine to the A314 on days with her? maybe utilizing TUTH for before or after dinner or such at times when this would normally happen anyways..? I’m seriously considering not getting any Ammo/TUTH as sex is absolutely not lacking in our relationship by normal means, I won’t go into it because I’m not one to brag, but you can get the gist. I may though, I am a guy after all and making sex even 1% more likely is tempting. Might get some TUTH to mix in on occasion like you mentioned. Now does it also make the desire increased during in addition to the desire for it before? Yes, what your thinking is riight. But on its own A314 isn’t very social thats why its good to add the IShine or IO. But if you have to choose between IO and IH for your situation IH would be best. IO will increase the amount of conversation where IH will increase the quality. IH ids known for building bonds and trust. And yes, I find wearing TUTH or any NONE product increases desire unless that desire is unwelcome, then it causes frustration. Definitely not something to wear during her period.