# Hello to all and to all a Hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 27, 2011, 11:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all-and-to-all-a-hello/50074 "2011-04-27T23:52:22Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![blammo11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3ec8ea/32.png) [@blammo11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/blammo11)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2011, 11:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all-and-to-all-a-hello/50074/1 "2011-04-27T23:52:22Z")
Ok newbie here and just got my kit today. I have to say I am super excited, but kinda overwhelmed and don’t know where to start. So i read stickies and know I need to find my “sweet spot” for each product. What I got in my initial kit: Alpha A314 [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) 2x Instant Honesty 2x IS 2x AMMO 2x Turn Up The Heat 2.5mcg/spray Kinda bummed that I got to test these out one at a time…i’ll have to resist the temptation to throw everything on. I think first time out but to go through my “mone batism” - i’m gonna throw one spray of everything - but i hope i don’t end up smelling like a “lady of the night” if you know what I mean. So a little about myself and what I want to get outta of this ride. I am 37, south asian and asian mix, 5’10, 165 ibs, slim build, located on the east coast (NYC area)…I would say i’m good looking, and when I was younger didn’t have much issues with the ladies. Mostly dated south asians…and have a talkative personality. I really don’t have issues talking to anybody if i’m in the mood. Opening a conversation and keeping it going is usually not a problem - but again only if i’m in the mood - sometimes I think it’s too much effort and just let other people do the work. Anyway - let’s see what do I want to get out of this. Honestly, I kinda want everything. **Life of the party (the guy you have to know / liquid facebook):** I want one mix that will make me the life of the party in general, not just with woman, but with everybody. I want them walking away saying “Oh he’s awesome”, “you have to meet my friend - he’s so great”, “I haven’t hung out with xxxx in awhile - I should call him”, “I miss him” etc. I want people to jump through hoops to be around me. **Instant Hit on me** I want a mix that will get woman to approach me. I know I can open and I will - but I want the path to least resistance. I know that this is not a magic potion, and 90% of thework is on your end - but from I read about IO / IH and several others - their may be a mix where I just need to stand in a target rich environment and woman open me 🙂 **Hook Up 3000** Well this mix speaks for itself - and I think it should be possible if i follow all the advice from the forum and get my game right. I’m thinking the first 2 would be work friendly and the third would be more happy hour. Anyway - not sure what else to say. Hit me up if I missed anything or if you have any helpful hints, feedback, etc. I will be starting my Journal tomorrow - I guess i’ll take the scientific approach and go through all the testing (sweet spot) for each product. Any suggestions on the order of testing? during the week I will be testing at work and I will make a point to stop off at a social area (coffee shop / mall) a few times after work until the weekends. I guess I will go with A314 first - any suggestions are welcomed. Feel free to send me any threads that are a must read for noobs aside from the stickies as well. Well i’m off - thanks for listening 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![xev](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xev/32/1993_2.png) [@xev](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/xev)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2011, 12:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all-and-to-all-a-hello/50074/2 "2011-04-28T00:27:43Z")
Wow, that’s quite an introduction! Welcome to the forum, and it sounds like you are all set to get started. You have all the standard products for men, and in 2x strengths to boot. If you can keep yourself from doing the [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) baptism, you can save yourself quite a bit of product. Pick one and start experimenting. Personally, I think the androstenol products (IH and IO) can have the most blatantly obvious effects, especially in an enclosed space like a car or office or other small room. ---
**Author:** ![Maidenfan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Maidenfan01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maidenfan01)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2011, 1:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all-and-to-all-a-hello/50074/3 "2011-04-28T01:03:26Z")
Hello and welcome! Women opening you is very rare, even with mones. Guys gotta do most of the initial work. For the mixes your looking for I can give you some recommendations. Life of the party: A314 - your sweet spot Tons of Instant Shine. If your gonna pick up some new products, you want IG for this mix and drop the A314. While they are very similiar, IG is more friendly and charasmatic, whereas A314 can be a bit serious to some people. They are both great products that fit different needs. Instant Hit on Me Again, use Instant Shine. Mix it with some IO and IH to keep it light, and maybe use a tiny bit of IG to add some cool factor. A small amount of A314 can also be used here. Instant Hookup 3000: Instant Jerk, Ammo, or TUTH will make a solid base for this mix. If using TUTH be sure to pair it with less sexual mones like Instant Shine and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). Adding IH could add to the seriousness of it. Instant Jerk can also use some buffering, but personally I like it straight up. If you noticed, I always recommend shine, its the perfect addition to any mix and is also great for wearing by itself. You can’t go wrong with it. Good Luck and be sure to check out the mens section. ---
**Author:** ![Astrea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/astrea/32/1928_2.png) [@Astrea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Astrea)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2011, 7:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all-and-to-all-a-hello/50074/4 "2011-04-28T07:15:12Z")
> [@blammo11](#): > > Alpha A314 > Instant Openness 2x > Instant Honesty 2x > IS 2x > AMMO 2x > Turn Up The Heat 2.5mcg/spray You got double strength without testing first? 😮 You’re brave. 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2011, 9:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all-and-to-all-a-hello/50074/5 "2011-04-28T21:08:28Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Blammo11! I loved your intro and there is nothing wrong in wanting it all. Look at us ladies for instance, we don’t quit unless we get exactly what we want. If you have done some reading in the men section in journals like that of Radman, P51mustang , 1alpha and Steve just to name a few who started of just like you I think you will realize your goals are not unrealistic. Keep us updated. **Your gc was issued! 😉** ---
**Author:** ![blammo11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3ec8ea/32.png) [@blammo11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/blammo11)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2011, 10:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all-and-to-all-a-hello/50074/6 "2011-04-28T22:32:10Z")
Thanks everyone for the replies ---
**Author:** ![blammo11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3ec8ea/32.png) [@blammo11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/blammo11)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2011, 11:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all-and-to-all-a-hello/50074/7 "2011-04-28T23:04:13Z")
> [@Astrea](#): > > You got double strength without testing first? 😮 You’re brave. 🆒 You know what they say…go **BIG** or go **HOME 😃**