shine is good for a friendly and comfortable vibe - it makes people smile
Honesty is for meaningful conversations and bonding with people.
For the ‘‘I wanna meet him / Talk to him’’ effects you should have a look at CTTM and Openness
Spaceland could be interesting, too it has the main component of openness in very high concentration, so it makes people VERY chatty and a little goofy too - this one is great for parties
You didn’t mention attraction from the ladys - if you are after that you should combine Gentleman + Shine + Openness (or Honesty)
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hope that helps!