# Hello to all **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 27, 2009, 4:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/29321 "2009-05-27T16:52:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![rockybalboaz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/9fc348/32.png) [@rockybalboaz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rockybalboaz)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2009, 4:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/29321/1 "2009-05-27T16:52:10Z")
Simply put, my interest in 'mones is as applied to my current, long term relationship. We have stumbled over sex repeatedly and are to the point of ending our relationship because of it. I am willing to try anything to save an otherwise pretty good relationship. So here, goes. I am a 46 y.o. male. I live in the SW United States. I was previously married for 9 years. I have had what I consider average relationship experience. I have operated in the “lady killer” (haha) modus at times in the past, but prefer stable relationships. I’ve read about [pheromones](https://a314.com/) over the years and have maintained a marginal interest up to now. I would be happy to share any experience I have, but at this point, I have none. I’m also interested in the social aspect of these products. I am a proffesional and wonder how they could affect a competitive edge for me. I started like alot of others, as a sceptic of the remarks made on Pherlure’s site. I am big on researching things before I dive into them and I’m glad I found this site. I looks like it’s a good sifter for some of the BS available out there. Thanks for all those that have contributed for us newbs. 🙂 Thanks to all. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2009, 4:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/29321/2 "2009-05-27T16:59:22Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. This really is the site if you need information on phromones. To let you know: Renny, Steve, myself and Mark-In\_Dallas are all about your age. This oughtt to help a lot with products and dosing as it often runs along lines of age and ehtnicity. Again, there can be some variations from person to person due to personal body chemistry but that should give you a starting point. Also be sure to read the threads in my signature block. The first two will help you get started. The next three will give you some pointers on products and strategies that ought to work for you. The married guys thread will help even if you are not married. A lot of the same principals will carry over. If you have any questions, please ask. We are happy to help. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2009, 5:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/29321/3 "2009-05-27T17:03:35Z")
Welcome. What are your personalities like, both yours and your LTR’s? What are the details of the problem(s) you are having? ---
**Author:** ![bedojo](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bedojo/32/1027_2.png) [@bedojo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bedojo)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2009, 5:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/29321/4 "2009-05-27T17:05:38Z")
Hi, welcome to the forum you will find the people here very helpful, lets learn about you a little more, what some stuff you like doing your personality? i like riding motorcycles, i’v rode to almost every state in america on one 🙂 nice to see you here, do you need help with comunication in your relationship? or what aspects exactly? welcome, -nate ---
**Author:** ![rockybalboaz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/9fc348/32.png) [@rockybalboaz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rockybalboaz)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2009, 5:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/29321/5 "2009-05-27T17:54:17Z")
> [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](#): > > Welcome. > > What are your personalities like, both yours and your LTR’s? What are the details of the problem(s) you are having? More details I am 46, she is 40. We have the usual middle class, WASP, career lives. No big physical events in either of our lives. We have been together about 9 years and both of us had pretty healthy libidos until the last couple years or so. Race doesn’t matter much in our lives but we are both caucasian and in relatively good health. We are both outside types. I hate to say it, but our problems are somewhat cliche. I want “it” and she ins’t interested. We are both about equally disturbed with the problem. She even admits she wishes she felt more sexually inclined. But, she also admits that she doesn’t “sense” my masculinity as much as she used to, despite the fact that most of my friends of both sexes consider me a typical alpha male. I don’t hold unrealistic hope for the use of pheromones for us, but it’s worth a try. We’ve tried everything else we can think of, vacations, therapy, relaxation excersizes. ---
**Author:** ![bedojo](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bedojo/32/1027_2.png) [@bedojo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bedojo)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2009, 6:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/29321/6 "2009-05-27T18:12:49Z")
well lets see, tuth is straight up lets have sex kinda thing, it helps with last minut resistance, it is not a quite type, it is in her face lets have sex. something that could help is instant honesty, if she “really” wants more heart to heart type of conversations and feeling. Ammo is also for “sex” but it is more socaily acceptible, and more a pickup thing, it is less lets have sex right now, but more of a hidden suprise, if she saying your not masculine i guess you could try a314, it is respect and trust pheromones, it is i am the alpha male, and everybody should respect that, a tuned down version of it is instant gentlemen, it is a more nicer, kind, cool guy vibe instead of im alpha male GRRRROOOAAARRR a314 😛 im sure other people like GWTW can provide better answers then me 😉 good luck -nate ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2009, 11:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/29321/7 "2009-05-27T23:11:07Z")
Time her cycle and wear anone when she’s ovulating. That should add some sparkle. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) has anone that is buffered. Tuth is pretty much pure anone. I suggest getting both. Some evening when she’s ovulating wear ammo. As the evening progresses add additional sprays of tuth. Use contraception if you don’t want kids. I guess I made an assumption she’s ovulating. Is she using a hormonal contraceptive that screws with her cycle? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2009, 11:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/29321/8 "2009-05-28T11:15:47Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Ok I would take a few approaches here. She mentioned she “doesn’t sense your masculinity” this can happen as men age and there Testosterone begins to decline. Because of this they make less aNone the mone that signals “I am man here me roar” There aRone level start to be more prominant and this is the peaceful safe dependable male alpha. Just like men are aroused by the young “fertile” female signal women emit with copulins. Women are aroused sexually by that roar. Women in there forties are generally experienced and that roar that can sometimes make the younger women intimidated sends the blood flowing straight to the southern border for us. TUTH will help with that, It puts the roar back in your persona in the bedroom. Now you will find a strong response when she is ovulating as GW mentioned. So if you know when that is it will be helpful but if she is on the pill she is not ovulating at all which can also be effecting her own sex drive. Women become more aroused while ovulating naturally and there sex drive increases then. However anone works well when she is not ovulating to so don’t feel you have to wait to use it till that time of the month. Closer to her monthly scale back a little in how much you use. This is cranky time for some women and to much anone can just agitate us going with some softer comfort mones will better serve you around then. My girl friends and I have been exposed to TUTH a lot over the last few years and no matter where I am in my cycle it arouses just on different levels. Around ovulation time it more of a urgent get me some now feeling sometimes bordering on delightful discomfort LOL . During normal cycle times its more of a slow sexy burn. A feeling of Hmm I need to address this urge later tonight. Keep your dosages low at first and work up. To much anone at anytime in the cycle can cause crankiness. Now for everyday use to just spark her sexual interest and sort work up a slow burn during times when intimacy is not immediately appropriate use AMMO. This can be worn anywhere and is sexy and mildly arousing. Next I would look at IH for added connection and intimacy. Its gives and feeling of comfort closeness. Ishine can help on those days she comes home from a busy stressful day at work. Its youthful uplifting warm and charismatic. Gives a feeling of well being. Both Ishine and IH are great for buffering if TUTH comes on to strong. If you have any questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way** Tisha Hostess/Guide