# Hello to all **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 13, 2009, 8:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/34810 "2009-12-13T20:35:32Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Savingbrotherwedding](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d2c977/32.png) [@Savingbrotherwedding](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Savingbrotherwedding)\ **Post date:** [December 13, 2009, 8:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/34810/1 "2009-12-13T20:35:32Z")
Well, I am a female and I will not reveal my age ( yeah right…) I’m here actually for my brother-in-law. His marriage is having lots of problems and I thought that some of those might help him a bit. My sister is very authoritarian, and don’t listen to other people very well. He is a very nice guy, and I think that my nephew need his family together. An older friend suggest me this site and I’ve been reading it for a while and come to the conclusion that it worth a try. Thought about getting a bottle of the a314 to boost him up and a [Turn Up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) to spice them a bit. Hope the 25 bucks gift is real, because would help a lot on the pricey price. Thank you and any hints or tips would be great. ---
**Author:** ![Maidenfan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Maidenfan01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maidenfan01)\ **Post date:** [December 13, 2009, 8:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/34810/2 "2009-12-13T20:42:43Z")
The $25 gc is very real and welcome to the site! A314 could possibly help give him higher value. The problem here is that it is hard to change someones notions of you (especially if they have known you for a long time) and a314 doesn’t give obvious hits right away, which may discourage him from using it. TUTH could definitely help things in the bedroom, if that is another issue in the marriage. Ultimately while the mones could help, it is really up to the two of them to work everything out. They are not an easy fix to situations like this or any other problems a person may be experiencing. Something you will see alot here on the forum is that the results are 10% mones and 90% your own actions. They can help steer things in the right direction, but the user has to act on them. A314 may be worth a shot if he is willing to and understanding of the product. While if the problems stem from something more umm.. physical… tuth is a good product for that. The other problem could be if the wife finds out and reacts negatively to it. Some people who do not understand what mones do think poorly of them. ---
**Author:** ![scotties123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c37758/32.png) [@scotties123](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/scotties123)\ **Post date:** [December 13, 2009, 8:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/34810/3 "2009-12-13T20:53:36Z")
Sorry to hear your brother and sister are having these troubles, but hopefully we can help get things straightened out for them! [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) tends to be very good with establishing long lasting and deep connections with others. He may find some use from that. TUTH may help him spice things up sexually, but if his wife is in a bad mood, it may just turn her away even further. It’s usually best when used in situations with a happier undertone, or when the mood is set and a little kick is needed to get things going. A314 may help increase his sense of self confidence, but I’m not sure how much it will help repair some of the turmoil in the relationship. I think the key thing to remember as that while some pheromones may help, the only thing that will truly work is them talking through it and working things out. Pheromones can only do so much, the rest is really up to you. ---
**Author:** ![Savingbrotherwedding](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d2c977/32.png) [@Savingbrotherwedding](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Savingbrotherwedding)\ **Post date:** [December 13, 2009, 9:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/34810/4 "2009-12-13T21:28:41Z")
My sister is not an easy person. She is almost 30. And we are Rappas, Half German, half Chinese ( you can see the problematic genetic combination) And he definitively needs some confidence boost. ( he is white of Portuguese family, But Portugueses are not 100% white after all, around 35, computer worker -meaning he work on a computer almost all day long\* note: he built my computer for free) He do all he can for her, but she doesn’t even thank him. He is one of the best parents I’ve ever meetn, caring for my nephew , he loves that boy so much. She has her mind on work work work , just like my Dad. And she never listen. It’s like ridding a bronco ( the horse , not the car). Thery’re together for like 7 years now, and I know they love each other ( I’m the sister, so, she tells me some stuff). They both been thru some awesome adventures and good things together, lots of good memories, that sometimes she does not remember. He lives for her, and I think that may be given her a sense of " I’m too good for you" kinda of thing. She complains that he does not do enough, there is no much help from him etc, I see differently, he could do more, but she should recognize more too. Just want to help them, since Im the older sister. ooh, and does this wil affect my nephew too? Please advise. And Thank you very much for your help Maidenfan01 and scotties123. ---
**Author:** ![scotties123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c37758/32.png) [@scotties123](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/scotties123)\ **Post date:** [December 13, 2009, 9:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/34810/5 "2009-12-13T21:39:05Z")
It’s great that you want to help them, but again, pheromones can only do so much. They aren’t magic, they are just enhancers. As far as what to use, I would stick to the -nols as they tend to lighten the mood. As I mentioned before [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) may help him get her to relax a bit more. Instant Openess tends to help open up communication lines and gets people chatting quite a bit, which may also help them. Spaceland has a lot of a chemical known as alpha -nol, and it often lightens the mood very much and makes things playful. As far as the kid being affected, pheromones do have effects on children. They seem to be drawn in by alpha -nol. I would not recommend using the pheromones on the kid, or spraying them on with the kid near because children are constantly growing and the pheromones may have a negative impact on their developing brain chemistry. I think it would be okay if the pheromones were worn around the kid, but I would probably keep this to a minimum as well, just to be safe. I’m not an expert, this is just my own opinion. ---
**Author:** ![Savingbrotherwedding](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d2c977/32.png) [@Savingbrotherwedding](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Savingbrotherwedding)\ **Post date:** [December 13, 2009, 10:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/34810/7 "2009-12-13T22:06:49Z")
What about this " Liquid trust" ? Seen this one around and has good reviews( paid ones?!) ---
**Author:** ![Maidenfan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Maidenfan01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maidenfan01)\ **Post date:** [December 14, 2009, 1:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/34810/8 "2009-12-14T01:15:50Z")
Liquid trust isn’t a [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/), and I personally do not know if it works. It sounds like the same type of effects that users here report from A314 and IH, probably more like the results from IH. I don’t have any experience using IH, but it seems scotties123 does and his recommendation is a good one. ---
**Author:** ![Savingbrotherwedding](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d2c977/32.png) [@Savingbrotherwedding](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Savingbrotherwedding)\ **Post date:** [December 14, 2009, 7:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/34810/9 "2009-12-14T19:32:59Z")
Than you Maiden. Im just waiting for the 25 dollars gift and I will be getting at least this A234 which seen to be a great tool to boost his confidence. Wonder if there is any free samples available here, or somewhere else. Thank you again. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [December 14, 2009, 8:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/34810/10 "2009-12-14T20:56:46Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Saving! I am sorry to hear about this situation. We are here to assist with whatever it is that need. You must remember that [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) are not magic and will only assist especially if both parties are willing to put in the work. A man needs to be and feel like a man in order to function. The world have evolved but somethings will always remain the same. Women are doing all the jobs that men use to and vice versa but a man will always be a man and a woman will always be a woman. From what you keep saying I am pretty sure you know exactly what the problem is , I suggest the following products : A314 for your sister’s hubby to assist him in feeling confident and giving off that alpha male vibe that your sister will respond to. It is very imp. he is not shy and take charge with this product on. Instant honesty for both of them , this product assists in a deeper level of communication and allows for that intimacy to get them talking and opening up Instant shine because it is just an all around feel good pheromone that makes you feel alive and vibrant and draws others to you. Turn up the heat is for when they have gotten closer and it is time to take it to the next level to show each other just how much they really care. There are many married couples here that will give you great advice in addition to these products : > [@Married Guys Looking to Help Life at Home](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/married-guys-looking-to-help-life-at-home/13695): > > Myself: Mid-40’s, athletic, married for 20+ years. This post is actually a combination of posts I have made in the Introductions section. It is designed for married guys looking to use the [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) here to help things at home. I use pheromones for several purposes - work, social and to enhance life at home. I use multiple approaches especially for home: First - at this point in our lives we know sexual attraction is not the final answer. So my first recommendation is actually what … My God be with your sister’s marriage to help them to stay together. Your GC will be issued soon! ---
**Author:** ![Savingbrotherwedding](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d2c977/32.png) [@Savingbrotherwedding](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Savingbrotherwedding)\ **Post date:** [December 19, 2009, 11:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/34810/11 "2009-12-19T23:51:58Z")
I just bought the 304 for him. Do I need to get the others in order to work? It’s paid . I am kinda lost but… Also, any free samples? Would be awesome. Thank you all. I am starting to like this place. ---
**Author:** ![Maidenfan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Maidenfan01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maidenfan01)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 2:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/34810/12 "2009-12-20T02:08:11Z")
They usually send you a free to-go product. Good Luck! Let us know if it helps! ---
**Author:** ![Savingbrotherwedding](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d2c977/32.png) [@Savingbrotherwedding](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Savingbrotherwedding)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2009, 9:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/34810/13 "2009-12-24T21:00:24Z")
hi there. WE are ready to put this experiment on the road. I already talked to him and he ( surprisingly) is very excited with the idea too. I will be leaving to their home in 3 days and I really hope this helps. I know, 80% him, 20% pheros. Wish me luck, In fact, wish HIM luck. If this work , I want to get some for me too. ( I need a steady boyfriend, LOL) HAppy Holidays . ---
**Author:** ![Savingbrotherwedding](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d2c977/32.png) [@Savingbrotherwedding](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Savingbrotherwedding)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2009, 9:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-to-all/34810/14 "2009-12-24T21:41:21Z")
Just received it.Thank you all.