# Hello world **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 20, 2011, 12:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-world/52431 "2011-09-20T00:38:38Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 4
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2011, 12:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-world/52431/4 "2011-09-20T00:45:37Z")
Hello!!! Harsh\_UK… a welcome to you!!! Computer programmer… hmmmm… I think the title gave it away!!! 😛 Wow… such an excellent intro post. Gives some good points as to what you want mones to do for you. As you have been working on facets of your person, such as your wardrobe and physical makeup… The social interactions, small talk and flirting is where you’ll need to focus on… Mones will help and the ones you thought of.. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and IO are a very good start. I also think that you could also use AMMO as a confident, sexy man leader of the group vibe… BUT, I can’t stress enough, YOUR ATTITUDE, YOUR EXPRESSIONS, DEMEANOR, YOUR WALK have to have congruity and HARMONY to the chemical mone signal that you wish to portray… NOW, as you may have gathered, this forum has been around for many years and has accumulated some serious advice, not only on mones but, socially focused as well. Check out some classic threads that I think you will appreciate. > [@How to Tell a Woman is Interested In You -- The Master "Indicators of Interest List"](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333): > > Multiple looks. Women have much better If you catch us looking at you more than once, it’s probably becuse we’re attracted and we can’t help it. You catching us looking at all. Women look at you fast. If you catch us looking at you, this may be because we’re attracted. Not always (I get horrified when I see someone catching me looking when I’m not actually interested), but often. You guys have muscle, but we have social muscles. WHen you catch us being less than discreet, we often mean it and/… > [@Your other "life hacks"](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/your-other-life-hacks/48970): > > Other than [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/), what life hacks do you employ? Please do share your solutions. To quote Wikipedia… "…any sort of trick, shortcut, skill, or novelty method to increase productivity and efficiency, in all walks of life." Personally, I’d like an effective procrastination-stopper. ADD meds aren’t going to be an option. frowning I know you have the WILL to make the changes… now, let the forum help you out while you make those changes!!! Start up a journal in the men’s section to get advice and thoughts from the more experience mone users! Cheers!! 🙂 > [@Harsh\_UK](#): > > Hello, My name is Harsh. I’m 25 year old guy from London. I’m pretty asocial, a bit socially anxious and have consistently picked academic courses(Btec ICT in College, then Computer Science in Uni) and a profession(Programmer) that coincidently has made and does make it near to impossible for me to meet girls my age on a casual basis. For example, currently at work there are 2 women in the office, _none_ of which are in my age group. Which means I’m extra quite and awkward in social situations, especially when there are are attractive girls around.It sounds stupid but being completely surrounded by guys for 10 years has completely disconnected me on a conversational level with the opposite gender, unless I’m being formal. > > So lately I’ve actually consciously been trying make an effort to be more social by pretty much any means I can think of. I joined the Gym, finally bought clothes for every social situation I could think of so i could never use it as an excuse, did uncharacteristic things like went on a stag holiday which is not my thing but it was an experience, pretty much anything that would help get me out of my house. I’ve also recently realised that i do have to two saving graces. I clean up a lot better than I thought, in fact I surprised a lot of people and 2, a decent amount of alcohol will flip my personality from introverted to extroverted like i’ve seen no other. These things help but relying on alcohol for anything more than a few good nights of laughs, is not really practical, I don’t want to be become an alcoholic just to be social. > > The biggest problem I’m still having is being able to connect with strangers, regardless of gender. It takes me along time for me to build a connection with people and that’s where my biggest weakness lies. That’s where I think the pheromones will help. There are a few pheromones that sound pretty awesome. Instant Shine is probably the most appealing as as well as instant openness. I’ve done some reading throughout the forum and I have decent grasp on how they work, which ones do what. I also know pheromones are not a magic bullet and I know ill have to work on my social skills but any help I can get is a boon. > > In summary I’m someone whose leading a life I didn’t plan to be living, I’m doing everything I can to steer it in a direction I can be happy with and I think pheromones are something I need to give an honest go. > > Thanks --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-world/52431)._