# Hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 20, 2006, 1:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/1215 "2006-12-20T01:22:40Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![vkat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/59ef9b/32.png) [@vkat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/vkat)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2006, 1:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/1215/1 "2006-12-20T01:22:40Z")
I am female, 48, and a little overwhelmed by all I’ve read here. Although I have used [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) in the past, I had little success with them. This site seems quite different so I’m ready to try again. Right now I am just looking for any tool that can help me jumpstart my recently divorced underemployed lifestyle, help me feel better and attract better things - and people. I seem to have hit the wall but sometimes all it takes is just a liiiiiitttttle shift in the right direction… I am also in a job where I deal with lots of very different kinds of people - so this could be interesting… ---
**Author:** ![nbully79](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c68b51/32.png) [@nbully79](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nbully79)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2006, 1:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/1215/2 "2006-12-20T01:58:52Z")
> [@vkat](#): > > I am female, 48, and a little overwhelmed by all I’ve read here. Although I have used pheromones in the past, I had little success with them. This site seems quite different so I’m ready to try again. Right now I am just looking for any tool that can help me jumpstart my recently divorced underemployed lifestyle, help me feel better and attract better things - and people. I seem to have hit the wall but sometimes all it takes is just a liiiiiitttttle shift in the right direction… > I am also in a job where I deal with lots of very different kinds of people - so this could be interesting… Hi vkat! Welcome to the forum. You have definitely come to the right place. It feels like a totally different world here. So many new pheromone molecules, and so many products and mixes. Something to suit everyone’s body chemistry and requirements. If you are looking for a mood-lifter, I would suggest [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). It works great for making you and people around you feel better. I will also suggest reading up a bit on the women’s forum and asking any questions you have. There is a lot of talk about new power mixes for women (like MX134), which might work great for earning respect and compliance at your work. Even though some are experimental many women are reporting great things about them. Remeber though, everyone’s body chemistry is different. So you will need to experiment before you can find out which product and what dosage works best for you. So pick up some products from the travel size section (it’s practically free with the gift certificate you will soon receive), see how you like them and let us know. Best of luck!🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2006, 3:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/1215/3 "2006-12-20T03:03:55Z")
Hi Vkat, glad you found your way here! Nbully has given you some great suggestions. It IS overwhelming, with all the different products available and new ones every week! But you soon get a feel for what’s what. There aren’t that many of us women here yet, so I’m really glad you’re joining us! ---
**Author:** ![vkat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/59ef9b/32.png) [@vkat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/vkat)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2006, 12:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/1215/4 "2006-12-20T12:30:54Z")
Thanks For the kind welcome! I have ordered a “to Go” of [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), I can’t wait till this stuff gets here so I can start experimenting. ---
**Author:** ![Rbt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rbt/32/2066_2.png) [@Rbt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbt)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2006, 7:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/1215/5 "2006-12-20T19:01:01Z")
I’m starting to think that IShine is the “universal starter” product… IFM may be something to try as well. ???