# hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 16, 2008, 1:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/12691 "2008-05-16T01:54:09Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 3
**Author:** ![zeph](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/85e7bf/32.png) [@zeph](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/zeph)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2008, 2:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/12691/3 "2008-05-16T02:17:27Z")
hey Joe, welcome to the forums. I would recommend for you, [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/), Instant Shine, Instant Honesty and AMMO. Instant Gentleman will give you an older more mature vibe, seeing as how you’re a bit younger that your target. Instant Shine will help give you a more upbeat, vibrant happy feel. Its a very good overall product. A very nice social pheromone. Instant Honesty will help with conversations on a “deeper” level. AMMO is a good product that is very well buffered. It has some -none in it and is mainly used to attract females. If you’re going to go with this, I would suggest starting very low because at your age, you’re producing a good amount of -none as it is. An OD of this and you may end up scaring or intimidating females. Another product you can also try out is Instant Openness. This will help break the ice and help generate a conversation. This is an ice breaker where as Honesty can help keep the conversation going. So if you’re feeling shy, you might want to go with Openness. If you have no problem approaching people, you might consider Honesty. Keep in mind that pheromones affect the wearer as well as those around him. You should check out the following links, they will give you an idea of the limitations of pheromones and how to maximize their use. > [@What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558): > > A lot of people come in to the forum and read all the wonderful stories about peoples experiences with [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). New people end up trying them out with high expectations and usually as they get to know the product those expectations are met to some extent and sometimes not because there expectations were to high But I think its best for people to have a realistic view on what exactly they can and can not do. I get a lot of PM’s from people asking me why "they couldn’t get there cheati… > [@Congruence? What's That?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/congruence-whats-that/9805): > > What is congruency? We talk about this alot but do we really do a good job of explaining it to a newbie? Do we really understand what goes into congruency ourselves? I looked up an array of definitions to find one that matched my idea of congruent/congruous/congruence. There is the purely mathematical “congruent figures have the exact same size and shape”. Then there is the more legalizish “Congruence is the degree of match between two codes”. My favorite is “Agreement of character (parameter)”. … If you have any other questions, feel free to ask. _EDIT_ Also, if you spend 200+, you get free overnight shipping! 😛 Instant Shine: 40 Instant Openness: 40 Instant Gentleman: 40 Instant Honesty: 50 AMMO: 50 Gift Certificate -15 Total: 205 --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/12691)._