Hello moolemiss & nice to have you as a member of Pherotalk 
So i see that you are skeptical on how pheros works. Well people will think like that at first but after using it & seeing its effects, they will be believers.
Yes i agreed with my buddy Jasx on what he said. Pheros can give you an edge. Check the men section like he said. It affects you & your targets a certain degree. And my other buddy mockingbird is also right on what he said do check out his recommendation o there. Instant shine & Instant openness are great pheros.
For my own recommendation i need you to tell a bit more on yourself, what you hope to achieve by using pheros & what kind of effects you hope to get. Here is a link on pheros here that you can checked> Mens Pheromone Guide revised 6/15
I will be back to check on this intro. See you