# Hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 9, 2008, 10:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/19165 "2008-09-09T22:11:55Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![DCW](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@DCW](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DCW)\ **Post date:** [September 9, 2008, 10:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/19165/1 "2008-09-09T22:11:55Z")
I am DC and am new to this [Pheromone](https://a314.com/) thing. I have read about it for years, but never ordered anything until recently. I recently ordered Pherlure and realized that although it smells good, it doesn’t seem to do anything. I have also tried SOE, TE and Perception, with no noticeable effects. I also bought a bottle of LT, but most of it leaked out in storage before I was able to notice anything. Anyway, I am a 43 YO male, 5’11", 175 and am athletic and in pretty good shape. I am married and am looking for something to excite my wife (36). I was thinking of trying IFM and TUTH. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. DC ---
**Author:** ![Tenant](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tenant/32/1668_2.png) [@Tenant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tenant)\ **Post date:** [September 9, 2008, 10:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/19165/2 "2008-09-09T22:59:15Z")
Hey DCW, Welcome to the forum and the community. IFM will make your wife feel more comfortable around you, but I don’t know if I would use it for arousal. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) might be more suited for that. TUTH is definitely right up your alley though. ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [September 9, 2008, 11:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/19165/3 "2008-09-09T23:00:00Z")
Hi, welcome to the forum. Your choices are pretty good, though you have to be careful about using [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/), it can be hit or miss with some folks. You may wish to do a search on Instant Female Magic and read up on what others have experienced. Also look at Instant Shine and Instant Honesty, which are social pheromones. They may work well with the wife. There are many threads on LTRs here that might be helpful. Hope I helped somehow! Tisha will be along to offer some other suggestions… Enjoy your stay! ---
**Author:** ![Butterfly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/butterfly/32/1942_2.png) [@Butterfly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Butterfly)\ **Post date:** [September 9, 2008, 11:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/19165/4 "2008-09-09T23:09:04Z")
Welcome to the forum DCW! Ammo and Turn up the heat are sexual indeed, maybe you could also get something for her, so she can feel more sexy. Is she open to trying? ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [September 9, 2008, 11:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/19165/5 "2008-09-09T23:09:07Z")
Hello DC, Good to have you in Pherotalk 🙂 I see you are interested in trying pheros here, good choice 🙂 Ok for your situation, try Turn Up The Heat & [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) as these two is well suited for intimate relationship 🙂 But it’s up to you to decide there. See ya 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [September 9, 2008, 11:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/19165/6 "2008-09-09T23:28:16Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Well I am not surprised about Pherlure very few have results with it. Do you have the scent of eros gel packs or the roll on ? This is a pretty good product. How much have you used ? Maybe be can help you with it a bit. With SOE you will see a general increase in friendliness and talking. Perception I hate LOL The Edge is another good product but you need to figure out how to use it. Its simular to TUTH in some ways (course TUTH is better ) and is strong so you need to be careful in your dosage or you can get the OD effect. I suggest from here you try Double AMMO Ishine and IH. They come in to-go size so you can try a few things before spending alot. Also be sure to read the stickies in my signature below to learn how mones work and what to expect. **Your GC is on its way** 😃 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![DCW](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@DCW](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DCW)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 6:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/19165/7 "2008-09-12T06:16:10Z")
Thank you all for all your replies. I will try a little at a time and see what works. I am a little overwhelmed by all the products out there, 'cause it seems like different things/mixes work for different people. I will just start a collection. Today I placed my first order for a “To Go” bottle of IFM and one of Ammo. In answer to the question about the SOE, I have been using the gel packs (on my last one). I take it there is a difference??? My wife does not know I am using this stuff and I am not sure she would be open to it. Things have been a little strained lately so I am hoping the IFM will put her at ease around me. I think the LT might have worked as she was definitely nicer to me last week, but again, half the bottle leaked out, so I didn’t get to test it further to see if that was it or not. I guess we will see what the other products do. I am hoping for some positive results. I will let you all know what happens. DC ---
**Author:** ![DCW](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@DCW](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DCW)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2008, 11:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/19165/8 "2008-09-24T23:40:42Z")
Well, I just received my first shipment today. I received “to go” sizes of Ammo, IFM and IO. My wife has moved back in and has been much friendlier to me and we even had sex last week for the first time in months. This is a good start, but I want to keep her more at ease and happy. She is often too stressed to have “us time” as she over schedules books herself in activities with the kids and other things. Once she does get into it though, she is extremely horny. We will be going away tonight for 2 days for a marriage workshop and will _probably_ be intimate tomorrow evening. I am wondering which product I should use first. Any help you all can provide would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. DC