# Hello! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 2, 2008, 1:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/22383 "2008-11-02T01:04:06Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![dgates](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/cab0a1/32.png) [@dgates](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dgates)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2008, 1:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/22383/1 "2008-11-02T01:04:06Z")
Hello everybody. My name is Dennis and I’m a 23 year old studying abroad in Dallas. I’ve heard about [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) from a few friends a few weeks ago, and they were actually the ones who linked me to this forum. I, myself, am majoring in biomechanical engineering, and I find myself fairly interested and wanted to try this out for myself. I’m a little on the shy side, and I was hoping pheromones could help. I’ve been in plenty of situations in which I just wish I had a little more confidence. -Dennis ---
**Author:** ![Vespero](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vespero/32/988_2.png) [@Vespero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vespero)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2008, 1:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/22383/2 "2008-11-02T01:08:01Z")
Welcome to the forum, Dennis! It’s a very interesting science, both practically for the social uses and as pure research. For confidence, you might try a couple of the socials, such as Instant Shine and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). They might help you with your confidence problem. Why do you think you’re shy? Something from the past, or just part of your personality? Also, where do you intend to use the pheros? In clubs? To pick up girls? To gain an edge at school or work? The more you tell us, the better we can help you. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2008, 1:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/22383/3 "2008-11-02T01:15:08Z")
Hello Dennis and welcome to the forum. D Gates. For a second I thought it was B Gates and I thought wow, microsoftt has arrived … lol. Good news is Mark is not too far away and as long as you promise not to interfere in his game he might take you under his wing. Just remember - the pheros can help but the real work is up to you. That being said Vespero gave you some good suggestions. I would also think about Ammo and [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). Read the threads in my signature block to learn a little more about these. Hope to hear from you soon. ---
**Author:** ![lukester19](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lukester19/32/1953_2.png) [@lukester19](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lukester19)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2008, 1:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/22383/4 "2008-11-02T01:16:47Z")
Hi welcome to the forum Dennis Vespero gave some great suggestion. Mind telling us a little more about yourself. I would recomend the instant shine and instant openness to break thru the shyness. Good luck. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2008, 2:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/22383/5 "2008-11-02T14:58:20Z")
Hey there Dennis, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Can you go a little more in depth about how you interact with others and your personality presently ? It helps fit you with the right products for you. Some ideals on what to right about… Are you outgoing or shy ? Do you approach women easily or are you more looking for them to approach you ? Intense or laidback ? Where do you tend to meet women or hang out. Work or in social situations. Looking forward to your reply so I can point you to what will fit your situation and send you a GC to get started 😉 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![dgates](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/cab0a1/32.png) [@dgates](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dgates)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2008, 8:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/22383/6 "2008-11-03T20:10:31Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Hey there Dennis, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 > > Can you go a little more in depth about how you interact with others and your personality presently ? It help fit you with the right products for you. Some ideals on what to right about… Are you outgoing or shy ? Do you approach women easily or are you more looking for them to approach you ? Intense or laidback ? Where do you tend to meet women or hang out. Work or in social situations. > > Looking forward to your reply so I can point you to what will fit your situation and send you a GC to get started 😉 > > Tisha I’m kind of shy. Not to the point where I just don’t talk to women though. Generally, I don’t do much approaching, but I will on occasion. I’m typically a fairly laidback guy. I’ve been turned down plenty of times, but it dosen’t really phase me. I just lack the confidence sometimes, I guess. I goto a bar about once every week or two, and I probably do the most socializing then, although I do also meet people during my time at school too. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2008, 6:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/22383/7 "2008-11-05T06:33:33Z")
Hello dgates and welcome to PheroTalk forum. Your participation is appreciated and I especially like the point of you coming back and answering those tough questions. I know that sometimes being shy, transcends not just the spoken word, but most other parts of our lives. Normally, Tisha23 would have asked you more questions to ensure you qualified for the GC, but also linked you to this post: [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) The post is designed to answer any questions you might have on what exactly is needed to qualify. Goddess of all things Pink and Squishy, the lovely Master Phero-Guide Tisha23 has been a bit hectic with some personal stuff. I’m sure she would have realized that she missed you and zipped right back over as soon as she found out. Like I said, the woman has a lot to juggle right now. With that said, as you can read from the post I linked you to, I normally have Tisha23 reserve Gift Certificates for those who really open up and meet the guidelines. You’re close and teetering on the fence, but you will also come to understand how happy and jovial we are as a group too. Since you have been so patiently waiting I will go ahead and accept your introduction and issue the GC to your email in just a few moments. On most occasions when a man says he is admittedly shy, I would NOT recommend A314. You say you’re shy, but not paralyzingly shy and might just need a confidence booster. I believe you might want to give the A314 a try, just understand it’s the James Bond of all mixes. What I mean is that A314 is suave and debonair. He is a guy who is confident and can talk to women. Someone who can charm the likes of Q and entice any woman to give up their charms. Use it wisely and you will build that confidence in yourself. However, understand that it has a DARK side as well. A314 gives off a High-Status male vibe. Someone who you might not approach easily, so if you do not approach and do the talking you will not be successful. Kind of a catch-22 if you will! Use it as a tool to build confidence (with it you will be seen as a confident man) and you will be amazed. Just remember you have to walk the walk of a confident man and A314 makes it that much easier. **Your GC is on its way**