# Hello! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 18, 2008, 5:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/23006 "2008-11-18T05:11:09Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![j6012](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ba9def/32.png) [@j6012](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/j6012)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2008, 5:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/23006/1 "2008-11-18T05:11:09Z")
I am a 40 year old divorced male. I am newly trying to get back into the dating world. I feel like I do a pretty good job at getting to know women casually at work and in some social situations. It seems to me that I am having difficulty recognizing any interest from the women that I meet. I cannot tell if I am making a positive impression. I am not sure which products would help me the most in feeling the confidence to make a move to connect with any of the women that I have met. I know that the hurt from my last relationship is in the way, so I feel like I need a product that help with my confidence. Thanks for any suggestions. ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2008, 5:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/23006/2 "2008-11-18T05:17:15Z")
hi there for getting to know women and to be more confident, instant shine is a great product since it uplifts people’s mood and yours. it’s also purported to elevate your mood, but for me, i dont get much of a self effects. also to get to know women both at work and in some social situations, i think instant openness would be great since it would create the sense of friendliness 🙂 i noticed that conversations never end with instant openness 😉 anyways, welcome and enjoy ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2008, 5:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/23006/3 "2008-11-18T05:18:06Z")
Welcome to the forum. Ammo attracts women and would be a good choice. Instant Shine adds to your aura of confidence and would be good for you as well as [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) (promotes chattiness). Also, you should make sure to read through the sticky threads in the Men’s section, particularly the thread (see the link in my signature [How Do I Know If I’m Getting Hits](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-know-if-i-am-getting-hits/14192)). There are a lot of posts that will help you here, make sure to read the posts made by Steve. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2008, 5:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/23006/4 "2008-11-18T05:18:44Z")
Welcome Based on your age, and desire, I would suggest [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), it will help bring out the feelings in the women around you and give you a bit more youthful phero signature. it also helps soften women’s rejection reflex. IH will help deepen conversations already in progress and help build stronger social relationships. TUTH will help build some small sparks into a bond fire, but keep it for later when you have a lady ready for the bed room. A314 can help with women as well for us older guys. And as the speed demon typers above me said, Instant shine. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2008, 10:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/23006/5 "2008-11-18T10:43:42Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Some More information about you and your personality will help us fit you with products better plus qualify you for a GC to the store. This post helps… [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) The link Rob gave is good to read as well as the body language link in my signature below I look forward to your reply so we can get you started. 😉 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Throttle8](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ad7895/32.png) [@Throttle8](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Throttle8)\ **Post date:** [November 25, 2008, 5:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/23006/6 "2008-11-25T05:25:47Z")
hello and goodluck