# Hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 18, 2008, 10:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/24066 "2008-12-18T10:11:49Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![dash\_ramens](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7993a0/32.png) [@dash\_ramens](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dash_ramens)\ **Post date:** [December 18, 2008, 10:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/24066/1 "2008-12-18T10:11:49Z")
Hi All! My name is Dan. I am 19 years old. I am looking to use pheromones to start a LTR. One of my concerns is that i am 6’2, 270 pounds. A few extra pounds but pretty muscular, I can be pretty intimidating and have problems getting girls to talk to me. I was looking at: Ammunition A314 Instant Openness Turn Up the Heat Instant Shine [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) Any suggestion on these so that i dont come off even more intimaditing. I was thinking the A314 specifically for use at work so i can get some more respect. the others in combination when dating with A314 and ammo just in general to get more people focusing on me. Let me know what you think Thanks ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [December 18, 2008, 10:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/24066/2 "2008-12-18T10:17:43Z")
> [@dash\_ramens](#): > > Hi All! > My name is Dan. I am 19 years old. I am looking to use pheromones to start a LTR. One of my concerns is that i am 6’2, 270 pounds. A few extra pounds but pretty muscular, I can be pretty intimidating and have problems getting girls to talk to me. I was looking at: > > Ammunition > A314 > Instant Openness > Turn Up the Heat > Instant Shine > Instant Female Magic > > Any suggestion on these so that i dont come off even more intimaditing. I was thinking the A314 specifically for use at work so i can get some more respect. the others in combination when dating with A314 and ammo just in general to get more people focusing on me. Let me know what you think > Thanks Hi, welcome! Since A314 adds an “awe” and respect vibe to your body I would suggest first trying IO and IS since you mentioned that you can be pretty intimidating as it is. Or you could spray IO or IS over A314 for a better chance at having people be more open to you. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [December 18, 2008, 10:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/24066/3 "2008-12-18T10:30:15Z")
Hello Dan and welcome to the fourm. The big thing to remember s that these products will not start a relationship for you. You will be doing that. All these products do is help a little … It looks like you have a pretty good line-up in mind but I would make a couple changes. First off, if you are already a little intimidating I would de very careful and judicious in using both the A314 or the TUTH. They will only make you seem more intimidating. A314 sends out a heavy alpha vibe that a lot of ladies your age find way too heavy. What you may want to do is drop the A314 and get IH instead. It will help create feelings of connection and help generate “deeper” conversations. That would be more useful than the heavy alpha vibe the A314 sends out. You may also want to consider [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). It will give you a cool, smooth vibe and make you seem a little older than you really are. That will probably be a big help for your purposes. Good luck and let us know what you decide to do. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [December 18, 2008, 2:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/24066/4 "2008-12-18T14:04:29Z")
Welcome. Bosshank is spot on. Avoid anone products for right now while you’re beginning. These have increased intimidation potential. They include tuth, ammo, and even a314. rone is the [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) you should concentrate on. It gives a masculine, competent, comforting vibration. It is great for initiating long term relationships with women pointed that way. It is also way less intimidating than anone. IG is the product I’d recommend. a314 is also rone based but it has a dash of anone too. You may want to try it later but I wouldn’t advise starting with it. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 19, 2008, 12:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/24066/5 "2008-12-19T00:11:02Z")
Hello Dan Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Ok scratch off TUTH and A314 from your list. Those come on strong and you dont want that. You have enough of that naturally. Look at AMMO IG IO IH Ishine and IFM I know you probably dont want to get them all so my main three picks for you would be AMMO IO and Ishine. AMMO for a sexy interesting mildly arousing signal. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) is buffered and has more of a cool laid back vibe even with the anone. Its less intimidating then the heavy masculines. Used with Ishine it will draw the ladies to you. IO for a friendly fun chatty open signal. Ishine for a charismatic warm uplifting signal. Now lets get you qualified for your GC Can you tell us about your personality and how you thought to look into mones Tisha ---
**Author:** ![dash\_ramens](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7993a0/32.png) [@dash\_ramens](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dash_ramens)\ **Post date:** [December 19, 2008, 8:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/24066/6 "2008-12-19T08:15:45Z")
My personality: I am kind, kinda quite to begin with but open up pretty easy, caring warm. I am farily inteligent, and intuative with people. I anaylaze situations constantly, and plan out my next moves. Life is like a game of chess to me. I first discovered [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) when I confronted a friend about why he was being so domanating lately. Turns out he was wearing a ton of A314 basically OD everyone in our apartment. Also when we went clubbing one night, he had girls all over him and I got left behind. Next time I borrowed some of his Ammo and Turn up the heat and had girls hanging off me in the club. This is why I decided to get some of my own. ---
**Author:** ![dash\_ramens](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7993a0/32.png) [@dash\_ramens](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dash_ramens)\ **Post date:** [December 19, 2008, 8:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/24066/7 "2008-12-19T08:18:28Z")
Just another side note. People already think I am a lot older than I really am, so I am a littel hesitant to use [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 19, 2008, 11:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/24066/8 "2008-12-19T11:04:23Z")
Hi Thanks for providing more information. The thing about IG is for the real young guy it gives a mature aura, not necessarily older but wiser more dependable safe trusting. It wont make you seem older in age but in your mentality if that makes sense. Its has the authoritativeness of A314 without increasing the aggressive intimidating factor. Its more sophisticated. I would still go with AMMO since you have had good experiences with that already. Ishine would be good because of your mention of people thinking your older. It has a youthful exuberance to it. It may sound corny but you shine and people are drawn to the light. Its good stuff. **Your GC is on its way** 😃 If you need help of have questions just ask. I look forward to your participation in the forum Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [December 19, 2008, 1:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/24066/9 "2008-12-19T13:31:00Z")
> [@dash\_ramens](#): > > Just another side note. People already think I am a lot older than I really am, so I am a littel hesitant to use Instant Gentleman. Think of it as -sexually mature, a man not a boy- That’s quite different than old. In fact, it’s going to make some old guys seem younger because pheromone production is a sign of vitality. ---
**Author:** ![dash\_ramens](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7993a0/32.png) [@dash\_ramens](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dash_ramens)\ **Post date:** [December 21, 2008, 8:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/24066/10 "2008-12-21T08:57:30Z")
Thanks for all the advice. I am going to make my first purchase soon after Christmas. i plan on getting togo sizes of all the above mentioned products plus a regular size of AMMO.