# Hello! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 29, 2008, 7:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/24341 "2008-12-29T19:17:04Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Hugalote](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/0ea827/32.png) [@Hugalote](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Hugalote)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2008, 7:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/24341/1 "2008-12-29T19:17:04Z")
So, my account is finally working! Thanks SteveO, you’re already a great help! **Hello people!** I’m a 22 year old (male) student from Europe, so this will explain my somewhat crunky English! I want to keep my exact location to myself. So, something about myself. Throughout my teenage years I ended up pretty overweight, like 140kgs. This kinda messed up my self-confidence which results in never dating etc. The last 2 years of my life I lost 45kgs and I’m still dropping weight. This gave my self-confidence an enormous boost. I started getting noticed more often by girls. But somehow my mind was still in the “Best-friend”-mode, I mean…my approach was still the same. So I still wasn’t getting the “sexual” attention. I’ve searched the internet for a solution and came around the so called pick-up-artists and read their books (the Game etc.). This totally re-arranged my way of approaching women and eventually I was able NOT to get stuck in a best-friend relationship :D. So this thing got me really fascinated about male/female relationships. And then…my eye spotted a story in a local magazine which explains human pheromones and their effects on people. And right next to it was an advert which praises “_Alter-Ego for men_, with 3 human pheromones!” This triggered my internet-addicted brain to look deeper in to it and that’s the way I got here. These [pheromones](https://a314.com/) just got me really interested. I’m going to read this forum a lot, because I already saw there is so much to learn in the world of Pheromones. For a starter I’ll probably order Instant Shine or Come-talk-to-me and Turn up the heat, unless you pro’s have a better starting combo. Kind regards, Hug-A-Lot-E ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2008, 7:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/24341/2 "2008-12-29T19:49:10Z")
Hello Hugalote Great to have you as a member here in Pherotalk 😃 It is good that you have an interest on trying pheros here after reading that advertisement about Alter Ego 🙂 Ok i would recommend AMMO or TUTH for your situation as either one of these is good in attracting women sexually 🙂 I also recommended [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) for a boost to your confidence there plus it also make you & the people around you feel comfortable/good 🙂 My best advice to you is try one phero at a time first to see how well it works for you there & when you noticed which one work well for you, use them in a combo for even better results 🙂 Good luck in trying the pheros & see you 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2008, 7:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/24341/3 "2008-12-29T19:58:34Z")
Hi, welcome to the forum. Phat offers great suggestions and advice. Besides the Ammo and Instant Shine, I also suggest [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), which is a great ice breaker, gets people chatty around you. These products can all be used at once (called layering) but when you begin, test eaxch product solo to learn what it does and what your sweet spot is (not too little and not so much that you OD- get an Opposite of Desired effect). Learn how to spot hits by reading the link in my signature… There is lots of info on PUA techniques here, make sure to search for posts by Steve our host. You can always read through the Journals in the Men’s section as well. ---
**Author:** ![MikeMan22](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeman22/32/332_2.png) [@MikeMan22](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MikeMan22)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2008, 8:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/24341/4 "2008-12-29T20:06:26Z")
Hello and welcome! Glad ya found the forum! I can vouch for [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) and instant shine, I think they should work well for boosting your confidence and helping with the females. I dont have much experience yet with turn up the heat, but I do own it. Sucks getting stuck in that best friends area, that has happend to be alot during life.. yuck Hope this helps, let us know if you have any questions! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2008, 11:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/24341/5 "2008-12-29T23:04:52Z")
Hello Hugalote, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 We have a lot of people here studying PUA techniques. As Rob mentioned, Steve the host here on the forum has spent a lot of time with various guru’s in the field, Like Mystery and David D and is a great source of information so watch for his posts, Always a lot to learn there. I **do not** suggest you start with TUTH unless you only plan to use it in a sexually charged atmosphere like clubs and bars or on dates. It comes on strong and is not something you should wear out and about or to work. AMMO is mildly arousing, sexy interesting and attractive and versatile because its buffered. Much better choice. CTTM and Ishine are great choices If you have questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way** 😃 Have fun Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Hugalote](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/0ea827/32.png) [@Hugalote](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Hugalote)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2008, 11:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/24341/6 "2008-12-29T23:05:49Z")
Everybody thanks a lot! I see that you also name Instant Shine & [Turn Up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/), so that will be my first order as soon as my gift certificate arrives! I will post a review/journal as soon as I’ve tested the pheromones. /edit, Just posted the same time as Tisha. 🙂 I’ll probably use the mones only on dates/clubs/parties etc. because that’s actually the only place that needs it. If these things actually work better than I expected, I’ll order some everyday mones afterwards. And I’ll probably change my first order tot Shine and Ammo.