# hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 3, 2009, 5:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/25699 "2009-02-03T17:19:33Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![torr1867](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/d26b3c/32.png) [@torr1867](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/torr1867)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2009, 5:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/25699/1 "2009-02-03T17:19:33Z")
Hi I’m new around here. I’m young only being 18 and I’m female. I am currently away at school in a little town called Fredonia in New York. I have always been interested in the science of [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/). I always was an outgoing individual back home, but need a little boost now that I’m away in a completely new environment. I joined this forum for one main reason. I figured this was the place to ask if this stuff really works or if i’d be wasting my money on it or not. So if any one could answer that question for me it would be well appreciated and i think my boyfriend may enjoy his new type of attraction to me too 😃 Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Feel\_Good](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.feel_good/32/1148_2.png) [@Mr.Feel\_Good](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Feel_Good)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2009, 5:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/25699/2 "2009-02-03T17:28:20Z")
Heya Torr, welcome to the forums! Well, i’m sure you can guess that most people here will tell you that they do work, since the ones who have success with them are the ones who tend to stick around. 😉 First you need to realize that pheromones won’t work miracles. They give you an extra edge and a bit of a boost, but it’s still up to you to meet the new people, take care of yourself to keep looking sexy, etc. But from my experimenting with them, i’ve found pheromones to work quite well. 😃 So you find yourself acting a bit less outgoing now that you’re in a new surrounding? You may want to try [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) then. It gives off a vibe of chattiness to both the people around you and yourself, making you seem more approachable as well. Don’t go too heavy on it though, or you’ll never get them to shut up once they start! The other product i would recommend for getting your man’s attention would be one of the Instant Sexiness versions. Instant Sexiness A gives off a dominant, confident, sexy vibe like Angelina Jolie. Instant Sexiness B gives off a soft, kittenish, sexy vibe like Marylin Monroe. A lot of girls get the best results by matching their personality to the version that sounds like them, since congruency really helps when wearing pheromones. In other words, you need to reinforce the message they are sending out by acting that way. Well, if you have any more questions, feel free to ask! Cheers for now! ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2009, 5:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/25699/3 "2009-02-03T17:32:01Z")
welcome torr1867! we all took turns being in your shoes, wondering if this stuff works or if it will make any kind of difference. with that said, your going to get a GC so that you can try some stuff out. i highly recommend browzing in the women’s forum to get some fun ideas. my personal favorites to start with would be IH and ISexiness for your intents and purposes. anything you start with will be great, instant shine sees big results and so does IO but your wanting confirmation that it works first, so i might start there. above all have fun with it and do a little reading. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2009, 6:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/25699/4 "2009-02-03T18:50:07Z")
Welcome torr1867 to the forum family!!! How exciting to be in a new environment. That’s just ripe for new friendships and experiences!!🙂 Kinda scary too, though 😉 So, to help out with that, give Instant Openess and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) a try. This is a really wonderful ice-breaker kind of combination. The Shine is a real mood lifter for you and those around you. The Openess creates a sense of connection helps ease those first conversations. These two are great for personal space diminishing which means that others will want to be near you. For male attraction (lucky boyfriend!) give Instant Sexiness a try also. Version B is more kittenish and soft (think Marilyn Monroe) and the Version A is more strong, confident (think Anjolina Jolie) kind of vibe. Most choose the version based on their personalities but most women can wear both, depending on what they’re going after. I understand your reservations. One great thing about this company is their 200% money back guarantee and also the fact that you can try these particular products in TO GO sizes. The Instant Sexiness TO GO is version A, I believe. Good luck and keep us posted! ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Feel\_Good](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.feel_good/32/1148_2.png) [@Mr.Feel\_Good](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Feel_Good)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2009, 7:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/25699/5 "2009-02-03T19:59:25Z")
> [@river](#): > > The Instant Sexiness TO GO is version A, I believe. Actually, they recently released a to-go version of [Instant Sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) as well, so now you get to pick which you’d like to try! Hurrah! ---
**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2009, 8:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/25699/6 "2009-02-03T20:20:20Z")
> [@Mr.Feel\_Good](#): > > Actually, they recently released a to-go version of Instant Sexiness B as well, so now you get to pick which you’d like to try! Hurrah! Thanks for the info MFG!!! I haven’t visited the TO GO section in a while since I’m too much of a phero junkie and stick w/ the big bottles 😃😃😃 Nice to know though! Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 4, 2009, 2:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/25699/7 "2009-02-04T02:59:12Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 My name is Tisha and I am the hostess and guide here on PT. New environments can be hard but as river said exciting as well. So what exactly are your objectives for mone use. Are you looking to increase both male and female friendships or attract a guy for a relationship? You mention you used to be outgoing. I am assuming your feeling more shy now and having a hard time connecting. Yes mones do work if you understand what it is they do. A lot of people have misconceptions and then feel disappointed when they don’t get the gilroy effect. They end up missing out on what they can do. In my signature below there is a link to a thread called “what mones can do and what they cant do” I suggest reading it and deciding if mones are still something of interest to you. If they are come on back here and tell us more about you and your objective as well as how you happened to find out about mones and we will suggest some products to get you started. This will qualify you for your GC as well. I look forward to your reply Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Feel\_Good](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.feel_good/32/1148_2.png) [@Mr.Feel\_Good](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Feel_Good)\ **Post date:** [February 4, 2009, 4:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/25699/8 "2009-02-04T04:34:11Z")
Hey Tisha, think you meant to post this link instead of the other one. 😉 [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) She’s is a VERY busy lady around here, so we try to help her out when we can. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 4, 2009, 4:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/25699/9 "2009-02-04T04:42:43Z")
Thanks LOL, Yep but I did link to the right one originally. We are having some technical difficulties with the linkage since the forum change over. I made Steve aware of it though. If you notice any other weirdness going on let us know. I am having trouble with copy and paste in quotes as well especially if there are product names in the quote. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![torr1867](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/d26b3c/32.png) [@torr1867](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/torr1867)\ **Post date:** [February 4, 2009, 9:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/25699/10 "2009-02-04T21:23:43Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 > > So what exactly are your objectives for mone use. Are you looking to increase both male and female friendships or attract a guy for a relationship? > > You mention you used to be outgoing. I am assuming your feeling more shy now and having a hard time connecting. Thanks Tisha23, Ok so… i have not turned into a shy person just a little more cautious because i am in new surroundings and even though i’ve met a bunch of people due to my classes and the groups i’ve joined i haven’t quite connected yet with the people i’ve met. I am certainly not looking for a new relationship because well I’m still in one and very happy with him. For him i would like to just spice things up 😃 If it helps i am a very talkative energetic person. I love to sing and dance and i also play the violin. Besides music i love science and am currently a biology major taking physics, bio, and chem at the same time. Why all at the same time…I have no idea lol. I used to play soccer for years, but am not doing soccer at school. I hope to get out of the pheromones a boost of self confidence because i really need it and to spice up my love life with my boyfriend. I hope that helps, but if there is anything else you need to know just ask. -Torr1867 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 5, 2009, 1:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/25699/11 "2009-02-05T01:47:45Z")
Thank you for providing more information I definitely think you should try out [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). I would suggest A as its more confident then B. This is good for use with BF to. Ishine for a magnetic warm uplifting approachable vibe. IO to break the ice If you have any questions just ask and I look forward to chatting with you in the forum **Your GC is on its way** 😃 Tisha