# Hello! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 15, 2009, 7:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/27085 "2009-03-15T07:05:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![MDBR](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/898d66/32.png) [@MDBR](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MDBR)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2009, 7:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/27085/1 "2009-03-15T07:05:12Z")
Hello! First of all, i want to say thanks to the people that made this forum possible! I’ve read little about [pheromones](https://a314.com/) before, and the little i read got me very skeptical, because it all seamed more like “pseudoscience” than actual facts, all those promises of “get all the girls that you want like “THAT”” sounded like a bunch of bull! Today i found this forum, and after a couple hours reading some topics its obvious too me that you guys are much more realistic about it, and when i say realistic i mean based on actual facts instead of some crazy fantasies! Anyway, lets get personal! I’m 21, i’m from Brazil, i can’t openly say i’m a very attractive guy, but it has much more to do with self confidence than actual looks. I had a phase in my life when i was very shy, i didn’t manage to get comfortable in a conversation with girls, specially with stunning ones. Since then i started to realize it had to do much more with my mental setting than looks, talk skills etc. In the last 3 years i became much more aware on how the game works, the art of rapport, i became to test myself in the everyday life and started to build confidence and better social skills. Some reading about NLP helped as well hehehe . I can tell you that since then i had some crazy experiences! But mainly with older women, a lot of them, matter of fact i’m having more relationships with older women than with women in my age! Some friends of mine love to say that i’m a “MILF catcher” hahaha! When i read in here that people with tipe O blood (which i have) create more androstenone (thats it?) that can attract older women i had giant laugh, mainly because i don’t have any idea if it has anything to do with my relationships with older women, but only the thought of it was funny as hell! Well, like i said i don’t have any problems with older women, but with some girls of my age i get trouble sometimes. When i’m on the top of my game i don’t have any inhibitions in talking and flirting with some crazy attractive girls, but there times that i fell a lack of connection between us, it not get as intense as i gets with older women, and the feeling that something more intense is lacking makes me a little upset, it blocks me and i can’t get it to go further. I don’t know if has to do with a lack of openness from them, a lack of sexual attraction, or with the intensity it gets as it evolves. Sometimes i try to rationalize that it has to do with the kind of conversation we have, with older women i have some mature conversations about life and things deeper than just small chat, which i very much enjoy it, and with girls of my age the talk evolves in a lot of things that i considered meaningless and boring, and that simple crushes me. But maybe its only me rationalizing it! The MOST stunning girl i ever had was my age, short, brunette, Latina kind of looks, crazy crazy sexy, the kind of girl that guys break their necks to take a look at! But i cant say i got as connected with her as i got with some older women i had, it was much more carnal and physical, which of course is good and i very much enjoy it, but it lacked that extra closeness that i love as well. I have read a lot on what might help me, but i want to hear your opinion about it!! If there’s anything further i can say to help you to help me please ask! And thanks again for this great forum! I will definitely read it further! MD ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2009, 8:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/27085/2 "2009-03-15T08:15:48Z")
Hi MDBR, Welcome to the forum. Nice long introduction. I think you are producing lots of none and you need some [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/). Try IO. It can make girls more open to you. They will want to talk to you. IH will make them closer to you. They will talk deeper, more details with you. They will feel like they know you for long time. It build relationship. Shine will also help socially. It can boost confidence and uolift your mood and the mood of the girls you are talking to. Good luck Cheers ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2009, 10:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/27085/3 "2009-03-15T10:12:08Z")
Hi and welcome to the forum MDBR! Glad to have you onboard 🙂 It’s ok to be a bit sceptical about phero’s, I think most of us were in the beginning…but they do work and it’s not pseudoscience…there’s a lot of real research being conducted and Androtics is one of the companies that are at the forfront of it 🙂 It seems like you have done a fair bit of reading about phero’s too which is great. You’ll know the basics and what to expect etc. Phero’s aren’t a magic potion but they enhance qualities you already possess. As far as recommendations go I think JB has given you some good suggestions. IO will increase the quantity of communication and make people more likely to approach you. IH creates a more intimate vibe that is great for relationships etc. It increases the quality of communication by boosting the closeness you feel with the person you’re talking to. What are you hoping to use phero’s for in terms of your main objective btw? Other than creating a closer connection with girls? General social situations, work, family life? ---
**Author:** ![Maromi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/maromi/32/809_2.png) [@Maromi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maromi)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2009, 3:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/27085/4 "2009-03-15T15:46:03Z")
Hello there! Nice intro!! Seems you covered just about everything about yourself 🙂 Like the JB AND Xiphoid mentioned, you should definitely get your hands on some of those social products. Are you wanting your communication with girls to be more casual or deep? I would say IO if you are looking for more small talk and IH if you want to have deeper conversations. So is there anything else you would like to achieve with using pheromones? Are you interested in any of the more [sexual pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/sensual-pheromones/)? much love, ~Tiffany~ ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2009, 1:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/27085/5 "2009-03-16T01:36:16Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 > [@](#): > > I don’t know if has to do with a lack of openness from them, a lack of sexual attraction, or with the intensity it gets as it evolves. Its more likely lack of sexual experience and comfort on their part that is hindering the sexual connection. Women become aroused but wont act on that arousal as much without the emotional connection and feeling of trust and comfort. I agree you probably have a lot of anone going on so you don’t need TUTH or AMMO, in fact those may make them more nervous. I suggest IG which is masculine, attractive, smooth, trusting, makes a women feel protected. IH to deepen the feeling of connection and comfort. If you have any questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way** 😉 Tisha Hostess/Guide